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[taptoematt]

I still don't always connect with many of the girls ,or even guys on this forum.
I think the guys because of obvious reasons and the girls feel threatened because of lude comments and pms by guys.
This is all understandable, that is why maybe you need a warm up.
Try posting on another forum like the non tickling image forum.
If you are a foot weirdo like the rest of us, you might enjoy it and the girls there WANT to hear from you and the guys share their comments on the pics
Its alot of fun and will get you ready for posting in more challenging forums

 

[Bugman]

I still don't always connect with many of the girls ,or even guys on this forum.
I think the guys because of obvious reasons and the girls feel threatened because of lude comments and pms by guys.


I have plenty of male friends here,so i'm not sure what the obvious reasons you mention might be.I also have quite a few female friends on the forum.

If a guy comes here looking to meet women just to play with,hes likely to be disappointed.On the other hand,if you look at the TMF as a place to meet like minded people while understanding that we all have other interests as well and approach anyone with some respect and courtesy the results can be quite rewarding.

I don't always connect with everyone here either,but no one does.I offer my friendship to everyone here who seems to be a good person regardless of their gender.They can do with it what they will.🙂

 

[DownUnder]

I have plenty of male friends here,so i'm not sure what the obvious reasons you mention might be.I also have quite a few female friends on the forum.

If a guy comes here looking to meet women just to play with,hes likely to be disappointed.On the other hand,if you look at the TMF as a place to meet like minded people while understanding that we all have other interests as well and approach anyone with some respect and courtesy the results can be quite rewarding.

I don't always connect with everyone here either,but no one does.I offer my friendship to everyone here who seems to be a good person regardless of their gender.They can do with it what they will.🙂

Most of the advices in this thread should be stickied and titled, "desperate and friendless? come read this". Word, Sir Bugman.

 

[tru x factor]

Tamia happens to be a friend of mine,and shes right.I'm not saying this is the case with you since i don't know you.But a lot of men here treat the women like a piece of meat,which is part of the reason we don't have more active female members.They get tired of the bull shit,close their pm box and quit posting.Or they put the jerks on ignore and stay in touch with their friends,who show them some respect.

ok i understand that part ok what got be fired up wasd the fact it start out some men are haorney lil devils ok i was upset it was men are lil horney devils ok..so when you say that to me i take in part it's everyguy..perhaps i jumped the gun but hey itsa the internet you cant hear there tone of voice

 

[tru x factor]

Hm. You have reacted thus to an honest opinion offered by one of the sweetest (and IMHO one of the most attractive) women I've spoken to on here. ...and now you want to know why people don't respond?

Cool the jets, use some proper syntax, and rethink your approach. Neither friendships nor reputations are built overnight -- especially good ones.

And Tamia is one of a veritable chorus of women with the same complaint here about overbearing men of questionable social ability. They are a problem. The problem is real. Fine, maybe you're not part of the problem, and maybe you're unfairly suffering the effects thereof. No one's accusing you.

Just join the club, roll with the circumstances, treat people right, and you'll carve out your own niche in time, bro.

ok yes a honest opion by someone and all but i said my honest opion back as it took me by suprise where hey i'm not one of them so it could have been re-worded diffeently

 

[tru x factor]

Whoa, relax. Maybe I should have worded my answer a different way. The "lol" next to my first sentence should have indicated that it was a joke.

To my knowledge, we have never met, so NO, I didn't mean that you fall into that particular category. I'm speaking from my own experience. Also, I believe your question was why you, as a male, have a harder time meeting people on here than women. I tried to answer your question, simply put. I'm gonna venture a guess and say about 85% of the guys on here just want some sort of info on the women they meet on the TMF to jerk off to, since, let's face it, tickling is a sexual fetish for most of us. I'm sorry if my answer offended you, but I'm just echoing the sentiments of alot of the females (all of them in this particular thread) on this forum.

I'm sure you're a nice guy, so just continue to be yourself, and you'll definitely give the women you are trying to get to know a reason to knock down those jaded walls.

--T

ok well perhaps yes a "lol" needed to be added or something cuz yes we are in a cyberspace posting i cant hear yuour commnts and if jokingly saying it or you cant hear mine as well so i am sorry if i came out with the gaurd and gloves up lol. yes i fully understand and know most guys here just do try to get off but the good ones try harder to make friends and know them for them not for the sexual part. i am fully sorry Tamera78 i didnt mean to fully blow up on you..

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Just as a quick example, I just got a PM from a guy I have no idea who he is. He has less than 10 posts, so I can't judge his character by that, so I was instantly a little leery. But all he said to me was, "Hello, how are you doing? How was your weekend?" and when I read that, it instantly warmed me to him, because it was like, wow, here's a guy who actually seems interested in getting to know ME.

Now that could be completely wrong. He might be a big ol' jerk, but I found myself naturally feeling more friendly towards him, not only because of what he said, but what he DIDN'T say. He didn't ask me where I'm ticklish or I got any tickles lately. Just, how was my weekend? And it was nice 🙂

 

[tru x factor]

Just as a quick example, I just got a PM from a guy I have no idea who he is. He has less than 10 posts, so I can't judge his character by that, so I was instantly a little leery. But all he said to me was, "Hello, how are you doing? How was your weekend?" and when I read that, it instantly warmed me to him, because it was like, wow, here's a guy who actually seems interested in getting to know ME.

Now that could be completely wrong. He might be a big ol' jerk, but I found myself naturally feeling more friendly towards him, not only because of what he said, but what he DIDN'T say. He didn't ask me where I'm ticklish or I got any tickles lately. Just, how was my weekend? And it was nice 🙂

well i agree some people open there talks about that and everything but what i was geting at and felty like i was lashed out was that guys here are lil horney devils well i didnt like the fact that it wasnt said well most guys here are..just guys here so i just look it as she was talking about evry guy here so i had no clue. like i said you cant hear if there joking cuz it is cyber space and all