Nessonita? I like it. That'll be my name when I am Spanish dancing. 😛
But yeah, I consider it more "erotic" than "sexual".
Pornography I think is designed for someone to look at, get their rocks off, and be done with.
This is an ongoing, developing, growing community of people who just happen to share the same interest.
I'm sure there are hundreds of our membership who come for the pics and videos, get their rocks off, and are done with it. For them the site would be "pornography" even if not in the conventional sense.
For me it isn't like that at all. Heck, for me it's not even "erotic" as I mainly come here for the community and to talk about something that we have in common. And also the myriad of other discussions that crop up. I don't download all that many clips or pictures because mostly they are geared toward the guys which is fine.
Okay...I've gone on a tangent and forgotten the point of my post but hopefully it's in there somewhere. 😛