Welcome~what a refreshing change for a first post!
There are several schools of thought on this forum. As the longest-running forum member to reply so far, I'd say it depends on what kind of girl you're looking to attract. There's so much to see and do here, I think most of us went a little nuts at first, I know I did, made a fool of myself, gave too much info.
That said, it IS an adult forum, you can say what you want. Just be prepared for whatever consequences that brings, the good, the bad and the um, ugly...
I notice you don't mention if you're looking for love? Just play partners? Maybe share with us a little more about you?
But if you're smart, and I had to give a soundbite, I'd say, take it nice and easy, be mellow at first (except in PM if a gal gives you the green light.) There are a lot less girls here than guys and even fewer bold enough to meet for play. Come on too strong and you might scare off a potential prospect. PM me for more if you like, I'm friends IRL with a lot of the good folks here...
XOXO