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Quick question. In regards to fantasies...

deadlywiffeathr

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Which do you believe is better. A fantasy that is simple and highly acheievable IRL? eg. something that could actually happen. Or...a fantasy that is complete fiction and is unlikely to ever come true? eg. something elaborate that could only be possible in your wildest dreams.

Two examples for me personally involve....

A) Being immobilised whilst using gym equipment and tickled in that position (achieveable IRL)

and

B) Interrogated as a spy or informant for sensitive information (complete fiction)

Any thoughts or comments?? 😀
 
In my opinion, both serve their purpose.

The unattainable fantasy is something for the imagination to work through, and some people really try to work hard to make it come true. (Example being the kidnapped scenarios that occur at some gatherings) If it was to really happen, you'd be able to die a happy ticklephile.

On the other hand, those 'realistic' fantasies are great, because they can be somewhat easily achieved. I've been lucky enough to realize a good number of fantasies in my life, all because they're something realistic.

If I had to pick one, I'd take the realistic ones, just because they're easier, really.

Of course, if I happen to find my way into a secret society full of beautiful people willing to be tickled out of their minds while also giving me millions of dollars and all the ponies I dared dream of, I'd take that, too.
 
I find achievable fantasies to be more appealing, because like George Carlin said, "Hey, THIS could actually HAPPEN!"

For me, fantasizing about something that's not somewhat grounded in reality makes it harder for me to perceive, and takes away it's effectiveness.

I'm more likely to fantasize about a simple bed and bondage scenario than something elaborate like a tickling machine. I can't deny that I do like pictures of such scenarios, though, but I find them best suited to that: pictures and cartoons.

Now gym equipment? That IS pretty hot.
 
The fun is in the possibilities. So, more realistic scenarios are cool.
 
I'm totally baffled by the question, heh. What do you mean by "better?" What makes a fantasy superior to another fantasy? 😵

Fantasies are meant to excite you and get you off... so I can only imagine that the "better" fantasy is the one which excites you more. In which case, the unrealistic fantasies seem to have an edge, because the possibilities are limitless.
 
To limit one's fantasies with the hope that they will come true seems to defeat the purpose of a fantasy. Part of a fantasy is to shoot for the stars and let your deepest desires come to the forefront. If those desires happen to coincide with reality, that's a plus for you. But even if that fantasy is unattainable, I value it no less. I think it might even be extra special to me. Especially the one where I'm stuck on an uninhabited tropical island with 5 tickle-crazed beauties and it's our job to repopulate the island.
 
To limit one's fantasies with the hope that they will come true seems to defeat the purpose of a fantasy. Part of a fantasy is to shoot for the stars and let your deepest desires come to the forefront. If those desires happen to coincide with reality, that's a plus for you. But even if that fantasy is unattainable, I value it no less. I think it might even be extra special to me. Especially the one where I'm stuck on an uninhabited tropical island with 5 tickle-crazed beauties and it's our job to repopulate the island.

Ditto..... minus the island fantasy.
 
You know, you could always CREATE the fantasy.

Get someone who wants to tickle you, throw on a costume, and have at it!

Honestly, the possibility of becoming a spy, and then being tickled for information...will never happen. Yeah, you may get to that point.....of course, every spy does whatever it takes NOT to get to that point..... but on the rare chance you are sucessfully kidnapped, the "torture" would be TORTURE. And not some sissy "water boarding," or loud music, or offensive talk. It'd be stuff that would turn liberals white with terror, breaking bones, cutting off limbs, etc..

SOOOOO, you can always just dress up as a spy, and pretend to sneak into your house, and have a tickle buddy tie you up and tickle your feet for info for a while.
You could even vary THAT, and wear socks one time, pantyhose or stockings another time, or sneak around bare foot for another!

It'd be a hell of a lot of fun, and you could even explore many scenarios, and see which one you enjoy more! Cowgirl, indian, secretary, harem girl, you name it. That way, instead of spending time wishing you would get caught up in a situation like that, you can actually EXPERIENCE IT first hand!!
 
Two examples for me personally involve....

A) Being immobilised whilst using gym equipment and tickled in that position (achieveable IRL)

and

B) Interrogated as a spy or informant for sensitive information (complete fiction)

Any thoughts or comments?? 😀

What if one was a 'spy' for a rival gym as was thusly tickled-interrogated whilst immobilzed on gym equipment???

AHA!

See, you have to work WITH the fantasy, not against it! :jester:
 
I am one of those people that enjoy Complete fiction more! Although, fantasies are fantasies! As long as they are fun!
 
I understand what people are saying about the more out-there fantasies, and everyone has them, but I like being able to picture something actually happening in real life. So if you mean which do I enjoy more, then I guess the more plausible ones.
 
They both are good. Depends on what you are in the mood for that moment in time. Somtimes something realistic is great, and other times I want something completely out there.
 
Hm. I don't typically apply fantasies to my adventures into tickle land; that is to say, when I tickle, fantasies aren't high up there. It's like, ZOMG FEET, HAVE AT THEM! RAWWR. That's enough.

But then I also enjoy creating my own experiences, which was what led me to writing tickling fiction to begin with; I wanted my own, specific tickling fantasies to become real to an extent, since they were so absurd/out there... and the only real way was through a creative etc. But I can't draw, so had to be writing.

Costumes are great, though I never employ them, but... well, I dunno. I can't say an achievable fantasy is better than a complete fiction fantasy because although the two seem comparable, I don't think they actually are. They really do sound like they should be, since they both fall under the ideas of sexual fantasy (or not sexual, whatever), but I would argue that there's a lot more going on than that. Complete fantasy is a broad term that can refer to things that don't exist, the theories of physics working differently, specific tools that don't exist, organizations that opt to tickle instead of use any other method, super ticklish lee's, and in general a world that caters to the whims of the author/audience. Like, someone mentioned spy tickling, and that is a far more real example than, say, a plant which derives some sort of food/energy from women by tickling their feet, and in that regard, I think that the complete fantasy should be better because it's more open, but even then, if that's only going to make you dream of things that could never exist... then it could also be argued as a point against it.

Both have merits I suppose, but yeah, since fiction allows for what cannot be.. I kind of want to go with that.

As an aside (to op), I enjoy the picture in your sig. Dude. Seriously. Flowers in hair are so rare o-o. Kudos.

Etc~
 
I guess you also have to put it this way, deadlywiffeathr - what feelings do you need toward the person tickling you?

Do you enjoy it more if they are attractive, to you? If you are friends with them, if you are tickle buddies, if you have other kinds of fun with them, etc.?

Like guys, many of us would want to tickle "the girl next door," which is advertised in SO many clips, because honestly, most of us DON'T want to tickle the trashy looking ***** who just needs a buck for her next cocaine fix or something!
We'd rather tickle the cute lady next door all decked out in her formal wear, for example, or a secretary coming home from work, or just athletic girl in jeans and t-shirt, or bikini.....than prostitute looking lady. It's all about the psychology.

Even if you get to the point of getting your feet tickled in real life - what view would you have of the tickler? There's sometimes a question posted of "Would you tickle someone you hate?" I've always wanted to chime in and say "Depends on the hatred!" If someone REALLY fucked you over, would you want to tickle them? The answer is a resounding "hell no!" They can get hit by a truck first. Even if they are attractive, if someone is just hateful and cruel, they turn very ugly in my eyes.

So what if you get to that real life tickling situation, but the person is your creepy looking, asshole boss, who is being....creepy?! Or a terrorist who just killed your best friend. Or someone who just screwed your life over.
I personally would PREFER to be in a situation where I like the person I'm tickling, and they like me. That would be a bigger turn on, because there's positive emotions behind it all.

Someone who brings joy to your life is now eagerly fulfulling your greatest fantasies, what could be better!?
 
I'll break this down in a good way for you. I think personally it would be much more enjoyable for me to tickle you (deadlywiffeathers), than to fantasize about ticklign you in some unreal scenario.
 
I'm totally baffled by the question, heh. What do you mean by "better?" What makes a fantasy superior to another fantasy? 😵

Fantasies are meant to excite you and get you off... so I can only imagine that the "better" fantasy is the one which excites you more. In which case, the unrealistic fantasies seem to have an edge, because the possibilities are limitless.

I didn't mean for my phrasing to be taken so literally. By "better", I simply meant which does the respondant find better...perhaps preferrable would have been a better use. 🙂

What if one was a 'spy' for a rival gym as was thusly tickled-interrogated whilst immobilzed on gym equipment???

AHA!

See, you have to work WITH the fantasy, not against it! :jester:

LOL. Ohhh, props! I see what you did there :jester: :clap:

I understand what people are saying about the more out-there fantasies, and everyone has them, but I like being able to picture something actually happening in real life. So if you mean which do I enjoy more, then I guess the more plausible ones.

Exactly my thoughts! 😉

Both have merits I suppose, but yeah, since fiction allows for what cannot be.. I kind of want to go with that.

Nicely put. 😀

So what if you get to that real life tickling situation, but the person is your creepy looking, asshole boss, who is being....creepy?! Or a terrorist who just killed your best friend. Or someone who just screwed your life over. I personally would PREFER to be in a situation where I like the person I'm tickling, and they like me. That would be a bigger turn on, because there's positive emotions behind it all.

Very good point. Definatley something to think about. It changes things considerably 🙂

Not immobile, and I'm not even sure if it's gym equipment, but she looks to be wearing workout pants, so it's close.


http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=176844

EDIT: Here's another one after a quick search. This might wind up being a thread in and of itself.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=169231&highlight=gym

Nice finds. Thanks! :thumbsup:

My fantasy has always been to tickle a young girl from Australia. :evilha:

We'll see about that. Good luck getting in! :neenerneener:

I'll break this down in a good way for you. I think personally it would be much more enjoyable for me to tickle you (deadlywiffeathers), than to fantasize about ticklign you in some unreal scenario.

LOL. :clap:
 
Fantasy is fun

Yes I prefer realistic fantasies also the problem is that even my realistic fantasies arent realistic. I dont imagine real tickling experiences are coming my way so harmless fantasy will have to suffice. I nearly came close to achieving the ultimate fantasy when I went to Stering Forest New York years ago for a ren faire I was invited by a couple who had sent me photos of maidens locked in stocks and tickled on their feet and that I would participate when I come We communicated by phone quite often even the night before when they called my hotel room. Alas they never showed and later found out they did this often. They said they were related to Kujman. It showed me that I probably I would never really find satisfaction in experiencing my fetish for real.
 
hey deadly, you ever been tickled in nylons?

Never delibratley. There have been occassions where someone will brush past my feet while wearing them, and it tickles, but never a full on tickle session with them on 😀
 
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