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....Probably one of the saddest things I've read.
kilitiinko1
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I couldn`t agree more!
Even the least among us have SOMETHING of value to offer.....
Even the least among us have SOMETHING of value to offer.....
BrightEyes1082
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This made me burst into tears.
ticklebunny 2
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Love ya TMF!! TMF is awesome, never gonna be a clique!!
Wow!! All I can say is wow how touching and how heartbreaking at the same time! That was a really powerful message and a real tear jerker for sure. What a illustration of a lack of compassion, lack of love, lack of appreciation, and a lack of tenderness and a lack of kindness that is for sure. This is so sad.🙁
But sadly I must say-this is not just a sad tragedy and a fictional story. This sadly pertains I think to how cruel and hurtful life and how mean people can be to others-especially others that they see or feel do not fit their social mold of what they wish them to be, that do not fit in and do not belong-sadly life can have many hurts and many bullies--that wish to kick others when they are down and hurting badly and in their darkest hour in their time of need. It sadly happens every day and it really terrible and really is horrible and it sucks when this happens. but sadly this is a true reality for many-many can relate and this sad truth can hit home.
This really wrenched my heart when I read this message because for one I am a great passionate animal lover for one-totally and absolutely love animals and if it were in my power and in my control-do whatever I could and do whatever was in my power to make sure animals were never no longer neglected and never no longer hurt or harmed or killed, would make it my mission to do what
I could to make a great big difference bring joy and contentment for all animals -do whatever I could to
see they were protected and loved and cherished
and appreciated and valued and safe always.
However my love and concern and compassion doesn't
just apply and stop and only focus and target on making sure animals are loved and protected, nurtured and cherished. My love and compassion and concern extends also to wishing to make a great difference in others lives-wish to inspire others and help lift others up and try my best with my actions and words to be there for others always-espec in their times of great need and greatest pain, not just during the laughter and joy and good times-but especially be there during the storms of life that strike upon all of us. That is when you know that you need really great true friends;friend who will have your back and those that will be there for you in a heartbeat and that will be a soft place where you can fall and someone you can cry with and be there to help lift you up and urge and cheer you on and help you get back on your feet and help you learn to be strong again and be stronger because of it.
Regarding cliques: sadly this is very true, a very heartbreaking truth, yes it is true yet oh so sad.
Yet I must say I must say in most part-I wouldn't
really consider the TMF really to be classified or even
to truly and really qualify as being a clique. I feel that
for the most part the TMF tickling community is not a
clique and that the forum was not ever intended or designed to be a outlet meant to be a clique. For me
I don't really feel that the forum is a clique. For the
most part-I have met quite a few really interesting and
really nice sweet and great people on here. People I would have never met if I had not met them here on the forum;
if that would have happened-that sadly would have been a great tragedy and a true disappointment for me I must say.
Cliques most part are all about being about emotional and social bullies and bullying emot manipulation tactics, all about juvenile and childish tactics that are said and done in a ignorant foolish attempt to feel better about themselves by making fun and being cruel and hurtful
and judgmental to others that they see or feel that are truely social outsiders that do not belong with their certain so called social groups.
That is why I feel that the forum is not a clique. This forum encourages and welcomes everyone and wishes to befriend all-doesn't exclude anyone and tries its best to make everyone feel that they are going to be accepted, feel that they belong, that they will not be judged, and that they will be appreciated and liked and loved for who and what they are and not what others would wish them to be.
The TMF is not a clique-sooo many wonderful great friendships that develop over time in the forum-proves that the statement of the forum being seen and considered a true clique is a very untrue and not an adequate statement. Least that is how I see it. I think the forum is
a great and a wonderful place to chat and socialize and have fun and make great special friendships that hopefully will last a lifetime.😀😀😀
It is a place to relax, un-wind, de-stress, be listened to, be emotionally validated, be cherished, and to be liked, and accepted and to be loved- yes like everything it has it ups and downs, but must say-definitely see more positive and great wonderful things happening and going on then seeing bad things going on. It is a place, a tickle sanctuary where you can be yourself and have fun-share your love-passion for tickling and for tickling others and a haven where you can find friendships and discover great relationships. That is what I think about this, think the TMF is AWESOME!!!! And I LOVE the TMF!! I love the forum!!! may the TMF live on and forever may the tickles play out and may the friendships forever play out!!
twohugs: Love ya
TMF!!!!!!!😉
ticklebunny 2
Wow!! All I can say is wow how touching and how heartbreaking at the same time! That was a really powerful message and a real tear jerker for sure. What a illustration of a lack of compassion, lack of love, lack of appreciation, and a lack of tenderness and a lack of kindness that is for sure. This is so sad.🙁
But sadly I must say-this is not just a sad tragedy and a fictional story. This sadly pertains I think to how cruel and hurtful life and how mean people can be to others-especially others that they see or feel do not fit their social mold of what they wish them to be, that do not fit in and do not belong-sadly life can have many hurts and many bullies--that wish to kick others when they are down and hurting badly and in their darkest hour in their time of need. It sadly happens every day and it really terrible and really is horrible and it sucks when this happens. but sadly this is a true reality for many-many can relate and this sad truth can hit home.
This really wrenched my heart when I read this message because for one I am a great passionate animal lover for one-totally and absolutely love animals and if it were in my power and in my control-do whatever I could and do whatever was in my power to make sure animals were never no longer neglected and never no longer hurt or harmed or killed, would make it my mission to do what
I could to make a great big difference bring joy and contentment for all animals -do whatever I could to
see they were protected and loved and cherished
and appreciated and valued and safe always.
However my love and concern and compassion doesn't
just apply and stop and only focus and target on making sure animals are loved and protected, nurtured and cherished. My love and compassion and concern extends also to wishing to make a great difference in others lives-wish to inspire others and help lift others up and try my best with my actions and words to be there for others always-espec in their times of great need and greatest pain, not just during the laughter and joy and good times-but especially be there during the storms of life that strike upon all of us. That is when you know that you need really great true friends;friend who will have your back and those that will be there for you in a heartbeat and that will be a soft place where you can fall and someone you can cry with and be there to help lift you up and urge and cheer you on and help you get back on your feet and help you learn to be strong again and be stronger because of it.
Regarding cliques: sadly this is very true, a very heartbreaking truth, yes it is true yet oh so sad.
Yet I must say I must say in most part-I wouldn't
really consider the TMF really to be classified or even
to truly and really qualify as being a clique. I feel that
for the most part the TMF tickling community is not a
clique and that the forum was not ever intended or designed to be a outlet meant to be a clique. For me
I don't really feel that the forum is a clique. For the
most part-I have met quite a few really interesting and
really nice sweet and great people on here. People I would have never met if I had not met them here on the forum;
if that would have happened-that sadly would have been a great tragedy and a true disappointment for me I must say.
Cliques most part are all about being about emotional and social bullies and bullying emot manipulation tactics, all about juvenile and childish tactics that are said and done in a ignorant foolish attempt to feel better about themselves by making fun and being cruel and hurtful
and judgmental to others that they see or feel that are truely social outsiders that do not belong with their certain so called social groups.
That is why I feel that the forum is not a clique. This forum encourages and welcomes everyone and wishes to befriend all-doesn't exclude anyone and tries its best to make everyone feel that they are going to be accepted, feel that they belong, that they will not be judged, and that they will be appreciated and liked and loved for who and what they are and not what others would wish them to be.
The TMF is not a clique-sooo many wonderful great friendships that develop over time in the forum-proves that the statement of the forum being seen and considered a true clique is a very untrue and not an adequate statement. Least that is how I see it. I think the forum is
a great and a wonderful place to chat and socialize and have fun and make great special friendships that hopefully will last a lifetime.😀😀😀
It is a place to relax, un-wind, de-stress, be listened to, be emotionally validated, be cherished, and to be liked, and accepted and to be loved- yes like everything it has it ups and downs, but must say-definitely see more positive and great wonderful things happening and going on then seeing bad things going on. It is a place, a tickle sanctuary where you can be yourself and have fun-share your love-passion for tickling and for tickling others and a haven where you can find friendships and discover great relationships. That is what I think about this, think the TMF is AWESOME!!!! And I LOVE the TMF!! I love the forum!!! may the TMF live on and forever may the tickles play out and may the friendships forever play out!!
twohugs: Love ya TMF!!!!!!!😉ticklebunny 2
tickleshotel
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Thank you for sharing this Excess! , this solidifies the sentiment that I have held for many years . The world can be cruel,nasty and hurtful in alot of ways ,and for those that don't fit a certain standard are regarded as different,odd,and undesirable .
When treated with no concern for dignity,welfare ,the hurt is deep but this proves there is a drive,instinct to go on and continue to trust,love another despite the hurt,pain,anguish that we are dealt.
When treated with no concern for dignity,welfare ,the hurt is deep but this proves there is a drive,instinct to go on and continue to trust,love another despite the hurt,pain,anguish that we are dealt.
ticklishscribe
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I do not know what to say to this, except to say that I am in tears now, as once I was in this very situation (pet wise) and know well where you're coming from. This is why I hate reality competition television, American Idol etc.
Just remember, not everyone can fit in so easily.
;_;
Excess
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ticklebunny 2: I'm glad you said all of that. I can agree on some accounts, but let's be honest, sometimes people do things without realizing it, and everyone needs to be careful of such a thing. I made this thread for two reasons; 1. to show that pic, and 2. because I had a point to make which it would serve very well. Hopefully everyone will get the real meaning behind all of it.
ticklishscribe: I understand as well, as I've been in a pet situation as well, even a bit similar. So there are a number of reasons why this really hit a spot with me.
ticklishscribe: I understand as well, as I've been in a pet situation as well, even a bit similar. So there are a number of reasons why this really hit a spot with me.
tklishkat88
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i just hardcore cried!!!!!!!! That is so sad!!!! Poor, Ugly!!!!
Yeah. I come from a long line of animal rescuers. "If I can't adopt him by God I'll find you someone who can" is my mantra. I appreciate the sentiment and get the point Ex but I'm going to hope this is one of those made up tales that the idiotic snope freaks with nothing but free time on their hands always find fault with. Loving animals such as this don't generally have such a hard time finding loving parents, no matter what they look like, at least in my experience.
XOXO
XOXO
DimpleToes
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awwwwwwwwww.. ok that made me cry... and I could not agree more with ticklebunny..I love it in here... everyone accepts you for who you are no matter what you look like.. I sometimes get responces from ppl in chat room when I say looks dont matter to me.. I have both beautiful model-bodybuilder and butt ugly friends all male and female... I treat them all the same... if they are not embarrqased to be seen with me then I am not with them..... well some ppl dont believe me.. but that is me... I have enough hugssssssss and love for everyone.. and everyone deserves to be loved and hugged... NO MATTER WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE...
HUGGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS/LISA
HUGGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS/LISA
tickmankyle1
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totally i agree 1000% just cause you big or small tall or short doesn't make you less of a human unless you are from another planet then i could understand you not being human. everyone deserves a hug i hand them out at work and have since i started there 2 1/2 years ago. later happy tickles and hugs ugly kid joe
slap'n'ticklee
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There isn't a dry eye here either and wet lashes galore.
That was beautiful and very moving and true.
It also brought back memories of my Dad cuddling our black and white cat 'Ollie' in his arms as he was dying (he had been knocked down by a car) and my Mum saw him on the road and my Dad brought him home, my God how my Dad cried buckets that day, it was heartbreaking at losing our Ollie but seeing my Dad in that state was harrowing.
Jeez I just love animals.
That was beautiful and very moving and true.
It also brought back memories of my Dad cuddling our black and white cat 'Ollie' in his arms as he was dying (he had been knocked down by a car) and my Mum saw him on the road and my Dad brought him home, my God how my Dad cried buckets that day, it was heartbreaking at losing our Ollie but seeing my Dad in that state was harrowing.
Jeez I just love animals.
DimpleToes
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I am with you... I love animals.. prob for we were not able to have any children of our own so our pets are our kids... I recall when we had to give away our first cat Princess.. for my hubby and I were to be the first house parents of our local crisis pregnancy center.home. for unwed preg teens.. I cried like a baby for days.. but I knew that was where God was calling us to be at the time and we could not take her with us incase one of the girls would be allergic.. but we found her a good home but it still broke my heart into pieces... man I miss her..... sob sob sob...
