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Rhymes with "dancer" and "You just shit your pants, sir."

i am truly sorry to hear of this drew, and of course i wish your wife and yourself all the best. it is good they caught it early as others have said, that can make all the difference.........
 
Hey Drew!

As as survivor myself, I send my best to you and your wife. When this happens, it's like time stops....your life stops....and even the hardiest person is shell-shocked.
I'm glad they caught it early. If chemo and radiation aren't needed, all the better :twohugs:
My mom is a 22-year survivor of breast cancer, and underwent a mastectomy herself. Today, she is a feisty 76 years old.

Stay strong...keep the faith...be positive...and keep your family and friends close...and remember the most important word: HOPE :grouphug:
 
My thoughts are with you and your wife. I just got through with my own cancer scare not long ago, so I hope she is hanging in there. Keep up the fight, you guys can get through this!
 
I remember being in the same situation. I had to be strong for my wife and told her not to give up. I remember, one night, going to bed early before her and praying. I cried like a baby and I have never showed any emotion. Hers did come back negative.

I will definatley keep her and you in my PRAYERS! Please don't give up hope, be strong for both of you. It's just my opinion , but being married to a nurse all these years it seems they( the medical proffession) always make it sound bad, like they are preparing you for the worst when in fact it's alright. I know that's how I felt three times in my life with tragic situations. I know how you feel my friend and if there is anything I can do to help,YOU LET ME KNOW!!! O.K?,

Michael
 
Drew I'm so sorry! This sucks! I really don't know what to say except Im very sorry!
 
Could be a lot worse.

Just a quick update for those interested. As I said earlier in the thread, my wife has been diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, a type of breast cancer. Fortunately she has had regular mammography every six months, more or less, so this was detected early.

We found a good doctor out of Sibley Hospital in the District. She's a surgeon who operates exclusively on breast cancer patients. The good news is that a full blown mastectomy will not be required, but rather a lumpectomy, in which they remove only the small area in which the carcinoma has nested.

Her operation is scheduled for this coming Monday afternoon. She's been pretty strong for the most part, but I've found her crying in solitude once or twice. She's worried about this operation, her job, about me, about her son, so many things. She feels better once I get her to talk about what's bothering her, but that's easier said than done, and I don't always succeed.

Still, I'm hopeful and optimistic that the operation will go smoothly, and we'll be able to put most of this behind us. I say "most of this" because once somebody contracts cancer, it changes their life. They have to forever after watch their diet carefully, and be ever vigilant for recurrance.
 
Drew our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 
drew friend..you know i'll be thinking of you both on Monday..my thoughts and prayers for a successful surgery..which i'm so sure will happen..you know how to find me if you need to vent.. :Kiss2:
 
Drew, I wish your wife all the best, for a successful procedure,and a speedy recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you both, and your family.

Mitch
 
I wish you and your wife nothing but the best Drew. Hang in there and stay strong for your wife. My thoughts are with you both.
 
This IS survivalble!

I'm gonna pray hard for you both.

Just FYI, my mom had a full radical mastectomy at age 48.
She lived to be 85; no kidding!
She lived to the full and enjoyed life in those 37 years after the surgery; got married again (my Dad had passed away), went out dancing and so forth 3 nights a week, and after divorcing hubby # 2, had guys 15 to 20 years younger ready to fistfight over who got to dance with her next!
There IS life after breast cancer; lots and lots of it!
 
Drew, I'm so sorry to hear this, but glad to hear that she found it early and is moving quickly to treat it. You'll both be in my prayers.
 
Good news

I'm typing this from the hospital waiting room which is equipped with wifi. My wife's surgery was completed moments ago. The lumpectomy went very well with no complications. The really good news is that two lymphatic nodes were removed and examined. They were completely clean. There's no signs of any spreading, so a full recovery is expected. She's in the recovery room for another hour or so, after which I'll be able to see her.

Many sincere and heartfelt thanks to all who offered prayers and well wishes. I couldn't have hoped for a better outcome. You guys are the best.
 
My mother survived Stage 3 breast cancer. She had a radical mastectomy and the lymph nodes removed. That was in 94..... So far, the cancer has not returned. Your wife can beat this thing. Make sure she gets annointed with prayer. It works.. It really does

I wish you and your wife all the best. If you need me, I'm here.
 
Drew, just caught this now. I am glad they found this early and they expect a full recovery, scary stuff. But I know you and your wife will be strong together! Many thoughts your way.

Judy
 
You guys will be in my thoughts.

Yeah, cancer is the devil. I've lost too many friends and relatives to it.
 
Your latest news is a Godsend;

What thoughts, wishes & prayers I can offer are winging their way to you.
You folks have a lot of good people pulling for you.
Onward & Upward. :lovestory

BUG :Hyrdrogen
 
I am glad all those prayers have worked so far for your wife Drew!

I will continue to pray for you and your family!
 
Thanks again for all the prayers and warm thoughts, people. It's very appreciated!

After awaking from surgery, my wife was nauseous, so she took a little nap and then I took her home. She hadn't had anything to eat since 11 pm the previous night, per doctor's instructions. I prepared some chicken broth for her, but she couldn't keep it down. I changed the sheets on the bed and put clean pajamas on her. She still felt sick to her stomach. Our dogs are very close to her and they could sense something was wrong.

This morning she was still a little sick, but she's able to eat soft foods and keep them down. Her spirits are much better. Her cousin is over right now helping me take care of her. I can tell she's feeling better because she's her old self again. The big job is to keep her from doing stuff, because she's very motivated and gets bored easily. Don't we all.
 
I'm so glad to hear that all is going well, Drew! We'll be continuing the prayers for both of you.
 
Very glad to hear things are going so well. I pray boredom continues to be her worst problem. That's your job to fix. 🙂

God bless.
 
Awesome news babe and your trust in calling me while she rested in RR meant a lot. Her discomfort now is totally normal. My animals totally sensed my pain after my car accident, pets do have ESP I beleive. :cat: Thank God, sounds like no metastasis! YAY!
XOXO

drew70 said:
I'm typing this from the hospital waiting room which is equipped with wifi. My wife's surgery was completed moments ago. The lumpectomy went very well with no complications. The really good news is that two lymphatic nodes were removed and examined. They were completely clean. There's no signs of any spreading, so a full recovery is expected. She's in the recovery room for another hour or so, after which I'll be able to see her.

Many sincere and heartfelt thanks to all who offered prayers and well wishes. I couldn't have hoped for a better outcome. You guys are the best.
 
I missed this thread earlier, drew. But I`m glad your wife is OK. Good luck to you both.
 
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