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saeria is gone

Hell! This sucks.

I wish you every good luck!
Wish I could add something helpful.
 
Be there for her and let her know how very much she means to you. She needs your support a lot right now. Also try to get some legal advice or counsel that might help her get her daughter back. If you need an ear to bend feel free to shoot me a pm 🙂 I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and much wuv. :wub:
 
You can try contacting your local authorities first; tell them the basics of the situation (i.e., she's run off without a word because her ex threatened her with never being able to see her children again; let them know what the custody arrangement is). If there's anything that can be done on either end, they will be able to let you know; if there isn't (and since she wasn't forced or threatened, and she doesn't have custody per say, there may not be) they can at least tell you that, so you're not wondering later.

If going to get her is an option, bring a friend or two. Just make absolutely certain that you don't start delivering threats, especially if this scumbag hasn't made any; that'll put the law on his side, which is somewhat worse of a situation than simply having the police remain uninvolved. Does Saeria's ex have legal custody, or did they simply never work out an arrangement at all (sorry if this has already been stated; I read up to this point, but I'm a little fuzzy right now, flu and all).

thye have not worked out any custody susposaly that is how her got her stating that with texas law that since he has her and if he files anything she will get her and she cannot get her back and i know she is going to have to go to court and all that crap to work this out a friend of hers that she talked to this morning told me she told her that she is going to stay with some friends from the area that her daughter is in and then get an apartment of her own dont know if stuff has changed since then i am hoping she will start thinking straght and call me up and work this out i am not mad at her what so ever she is my heart and soul if i had the money right now and people to go with me i probly would go down there i know it wont be worth arguing with anyone or anything i would stay out of trouble if i was able to do that and if he did anything he would be back in prison

Damn Goth... I hate to hear about all that... sounds like a bad situation. I would do like Slacker and Krazie are suggesting and do your best to get down there, but take it one step at a time. Just be smart about it... Think it out. The last thing you need, especially with a mother and child involved, is an ex-con getting violent or abusive. After contacting any family/relatives, I'd consider talking to authorities.
i realy dont think the authoraties would get involved since she aint missing per say and i kinda know waht is going on but not realy and not one has gotten heart so i have no clue what to do i i am haveing a million thought go through my mind right now i am working so hard to stay strong its not easy but i will do my best
 
Be there for her and let her know how very much she means to you. She needs your support a lot right now. Also try to get some legal advice or counsel that might help her get her daughter back. If you need an ear to bend feel free to shoot me a pm 🙂 I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and much wuv. :wub:

as soon as i hear from her hopfully.i will be there for her and let her know how much she means to me i realy dont know what sind of leagle advice i could get since it invalves her and her ex and daughter she dont have the money to realy do to much right now i am so stuck i have been trying to think of everything i can do i have concidered going down there but i have no one to get me around and show me the area i cannot do that alone my parents told me do run down there just wait till she gets there and i am able to talk to her then do something i m just very heart,scared,woried,nervios and all kinds of crazy stuff right now
 
as soon as i hear from her hopfully.i will be there for her and let her know how much she means to me i realy dont know what sind of leagle advice i could get since it invalves her and her ex and daughter she dont have the money to realy do to much right now i am so stuck i have been trying to think of everything i can do i have concidered going down there but i have no one to get me around and show me the area i cannot do that alone my parents told me do run down there just wait till she gets there and i am able to talk to her then do something i m just very heart,scared,woried,nervios and all kinds of crazy stuff right now

Yes it does seem a complicated situation. 🙁 I think there a a few places that offer free legal advice. I know in LA there was a place called Law Dogs that offered free legal advice as long as you bought a hot dog. I wish I could be more help. Only thing I can say is try to keep as calm as you can so you are ready to deal with things as they come up. I will send you all the positive vibes I can.
 
Yes it does seem a complicated situation. 🙁 I think there a a few places that offer free legal advice. I know in LA there was a place called Law Dogs that offered free legal advice as long as you bought a hot dog. I wish I could be more help. Only thing I can say is try to keep as calm as you can so you are ready to deal with things as they come up. I will send you all the positive vibes I can.

i am tryiing very hard to stay calm thank u i appriciate it
 
I wish there was something I could do to help, Goth. The only advice I can offer is whatever you do stay calm, try to plan your next move when you get some info, don't do anything crazy that might make the situation worse.

I wish you all the luck in the world!
 
Man love stinks! Good luck bro!! Don't do anything that will get you tossed in the klink.
 
I'm really sorry you're going through this, Goth. My best to you and Saeria, you're both great people.
 
If he was in prison and on parole he will never get custody........

The courts will be against him from the start....

So call the authorities and tell them what is happening before it is too late....
 
I may be way off base but if you are worried about violence getting involved with Searia then I would consider trying to contact some kind of domestic violence hotline and asking their advice, it is usually free http://www.ndvh.org/ , it might be a starting point for some advice or they can point you in the right direction of how to help her, point you maybe to free legal advice in Texas... if she is not thinking straight then you have to try and think straight for her...give her all the support you can.
 
I wish there was something I could do to help, Goth. The only advice I can offer is whatever you do stay calm, try to plan your next move when you get some info, don't do anything crazy that might make the situation worse.

I wish you all the luck in the world!

thanks i am working very hard to stay calm its not easy tho
Man love stinks! Good luck bro!! Don't do anything that will get you tossed in the klink.
defently not its not worth it
I'm really sorry you're going through this, Goth. My best to you and Saeria, you're both great people.
u r great to thanks
If he was in prison and on parole he will never get custody........

The courts will be against him from the start....

So call the authorities and tell them what is happening before it is too late....

truthfully i dont think they would do anything unless something did happen then i owuld have to proove that i dont even know where i would start

I may be way off base but if you are worried about violence getting involved with Searia then I would consider trying to contact some kind of domestic violence hotline and asking their advice, it is usually free http://www.ndvh.org/ , it might be a starting point for some advice or they can point you in the right direction of how to help her, point you maybe to free legal advice in Texas... if she is not thinking straight then you have to try and think straight for her...give her all the support you can.
i am going to do everything i can within my power i will be there for her and fight for her thanks
 
thanks i am working very hard to stay calm its not easy tho

defently not its not worth it

u r great to thanks


truthfully i dont think they would do anything unless something did happen then i owuld have to proove that i dont even know where i would start

You dont know unless you ask..they may keep an eye out for her at the very least....
 
This is a shock!

The ex can't "keep" the daughter. That's custodial kidnapping. And as an ex felon, by doing that, he's already broken his probation and can go back to jail. I mean, the guy's done time for being a freon addict; that's intense. he's also notoriously stupid.

She - or YOU - need to contact the local TX authorites about this. Now.

Then, she - or YOU - need to contact TX Dept of Child Protective Services. This guy can not be trusted. His side of the family alwasy takes HIS side & she won't be able to deal with an entire family of felon drug-addict apologists. CPS has to get involved. He will be going to jail for this.

Finally, if you can PM me - I know a Dallas lawyer who has been through custody stuff himself. He might be able to give me pointers re: this situation & Texas law. I can pass those on to you and her. PM ME.

What he is doing is dangerous and illegal. You need help with this.
 
Man, I can't offer any solid advice at all. I can't imagine how worried you must be right now. I just really, really hope all of this has a happy ending. Good luck to both of you.
 
This is a shock!

The ex can't "keep" the daughter. That's custodial kidnapping. And as an ex felon, by doing that, he's already broken his probation and can go back to jail. I mnea, the guy's done time for being a freon addict; that's intense.

She - or YOU - need to contact the local TX authorites about this. Now.

Then, she - or YOU - need to contact TX Dept of Child Protective Services. This guy can not be trusted. His side of the family alwasy takes HIS side & she won't be able to deal with an etire family of felon drug-addict appologists. CPS has to get involved. He will be going to jail for this.

Finally, if you can PM me - I know a Dallas lawyer who has been through custody stuff himself. He might be able to give me pointers re: this situation & Texas law. I can pass those on to you and her. PM ME.

What he is doing is dangerous and illegal. You need help with this.
he has her in such a hold right now it aint funny he is very manlipative and a con artist she played with her emotions and got to her now she is scared and dont know what to do i hope if she contacts me i can get her to do something thanks
Man, I can't offer any solid advice at all. I can't imagine how worried you must be right now. I just really, really hope all of this has a happy ending. Good luck to both of you.


thanks dude
 
I may be way off base but if you are worried about violence getting involved with Searia then I would consider trying to contact some kind of domestic violence hotline and asking their advice, it is usually free http://www.ndvh.org/ , it might be a starting point for some advice or they can point you in the right direction of how to help her, point you maybe to free legal advice in Texas... if she is not thinking straight then you have to try and think straight for her...give her all the support you can.

i just sent them a letter hoppfully thye can help and tracy coroperates and not is to scared to i realy do appriciate all this help it means the world to me thanks
 
This is horrible! 🙁 JPie1 gave some really good advice and I'm glad you followed it. It is also great that you contacted Oddjob, and please, please, PLEASE contact the authorities as well! Even if it turns out they can't help then at least you explored that possibility, and at least they have been notified of what's going on.

I really wish there was something I could do. I know it doesn't really help you right now, but had I only lived in the US then I probably would have offered to go to Texas with you.

Best of luck, I hope this all ends well! =/
 
Have you heard from her yet? I hope everything works out for her and you. I do agree with the others say and this would be a time when she needs you the most. If you can't make it there because i understand that finances can be tight try to keep and touch and do what yo can for her. My best wishes go to her and er daughter.
 
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