saeria is gone

[Gothika]

We are all with ya on this...

ousome thanks

This is horrible! 🙁 JPie1 gave some really good advice and I'm glad you followed it. It is also great that you contacted Oddjob, and please, please, PLEASE contact the authorities as well! Even if it turns out they can't help then at least you explored that possibility, and at least they have been notified of what's going on.

I really wish there was something I could do. I know it doesn't really help you right now, but had I only lived in the US then I probably would have offered to go to Texas with you.

Best of luck, I hope this all ends well! =/

thanks a lot means a lot to me

Have you heard from her yet? I hope everything works out for her and you. I do agree with the others say and this would be a time when she needs you the most. If you can't make it there because i understand that finances can be tight try to keep and touch and do what yo can for her. My best wishes go to her and er daughter.

no have not heard anything hoppfully the police find her and others that i have called

I hope it works out, and that you get her back safe and sound. I am pulling for you hon.

thanks all this means a lot to me

 

[Oddjob0226]

i have he is in the prossed of helping me right now he is an ousome dude.

Keep in mind I DO have a reputation of being a fussy prick around here and that kind of talk isn't helping me maintain that rep.

 

[venray]

Keep in mind I DO have a reputation of being a fussy prick around here .

ah hell we ALL see through that Bro.....

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Oh gosh - I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're getting some pretty sound advice here so far. I really hope everything works out and everybody comes out okay. Keep us posted and know that you're in our thoughts.

 

[Gothika]

Oh gosh - I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're getting some pretty sound advice here so far. I really hope everything works out and everybody comes out okay. Keep us posted and know that you're in our thoughts.

thank u very much it means a lot i can use all the prayers and thought and support right now

 

[unit5610]

I just found this thread. This sucks. I can't offer more than what's been said except to say that I'm thinking about you guys and hope that things come to the right conclusion.
It was a real pleasure to meet both of you in Philly and I hate to see this shit happen to such nice people. Good luck!!

 

[Gothika]

I just found this thread. This sucks. I can't offer more than what's been said except to say that I'm thinking about you guys and hope that things come to the right conclusion.
It was a real pleasure to meet both of you in Philly and I hate to see this shit happen to such nice people. Good luck!!

thank u very much i am doing all i can right now to find her and get all this stuff out in the open so others know how he is and mayby can help her get away and get her daugher i will not stop untill she is safe and sound

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Aww...man....

I don't have any legal advice to help you, but if you need anything, anything at all let me know. I'll do whatever I can to help you guys. Neither of you deserves this as you are two of the best people I know in the world.

Hope Tracey talks to you real soon. Good luck. I'll be praying and hoping for everything to work out.

 

[Gothika]

Aww...man....

I don't have any legal advice to help you, but if you need anything, anything at all let me know. I'll do whatever I can to help you guys. Neither of you deserves this as you are two of the best people I know in the world.

Hope Tracey talks to you real soon. Good luck. I'll be praying and hoping for everything to work out.

thanks very much i hope i hear from her the police and others are out looking for her right now

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I never got back online to see this yesterday. But, Ray texted me to fill me in. I've been praying up a storm since hearing about it. Prayers will continue.

I'm glad that Oddjob is helping out. While the police need eveidence in order to persue things, Child Protection will go on the slightest hint of trouble and push it to it's conclusion. While they can be messed up at times, this sounds like a situation they can actually be helpful with.

As for you and Tracy, you know she loves you to bits. Anyone who's seen the two of you together knows that. Her decision to head down there was made for the child, not against you. In your heart, I'm sure you know that. This is a difficult time for both of you, no doubt. But, if you follow your heart and simply be there for her, you'll both be fine.

You know where to find us if there's anything we can do...or just need to vent.

 

[meangry]

Call the police. It's the only way tragedy can be averted.

 

[Gothika]

I never got back online to see this yesterday. But, Ray texted me to fill me in. I've been praying up a storm since hearing about it. Prayers will continue.

I'm glad that Oddjob is helping out. While the police need eveidence in order to persue things, Child Protection will go on the slightest hint of trouble and push it to it's conclusion. While they can be messed up at times, this sounds like a situation they can actually be helpful with.

As for you and Tracy, you know she loves you to bits. Anyone who's seen the two of you together knows that. Her decision to head down there was made for the child, not against you. In your heart, I'm sure you know that. This is a difficult time for both of you, no doubt. But, if you follow your heart and simply be there for her, you'll both be fine.

You know where to find us if there's anything we can do...or just need to vent.

i know in my heart that she did not do this to heart me i know she loves me very much and i am pryaing the cops find her before she makes it down there

 

[love feet]

Hi
how long have you and saeria Ben together??
I ask because in most stats if you have Bean with saeria for 2 to for years the law may see you as married if she divorced the EX so as a concerned significant other you may have more power than you think!!?
texas may be different i don't know??.

 

[Gothika]

Hi
how long have you and saeria Ben together??
I ask because in most stats if you have Bean with saeria for 2 to for years the law may see you as married if she divorced the EX so as a concerned significant other you may have more power than you think!!?
texas may be different i don't know??.

we have been together about a year and are very close and have talked about getting maried and stuff to

update i just talked to a friend of hers and she said as of last night she was in tennesee and should be in texas soon and she said she wll give me a call as soon as she gets there and gets settled please pray for me

 

[rhiannon]

At least you got in touch with someone who talked to her! It will be fine! Try to relax!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

we have been together about a year and are very close and have talked about getting maried and stuff to

update i just talked to a friend of hers and she said as of last night she was in tennesee and should be in texas soon and she said she wll give me a call as soon as she gets there and gets settled please pray for me

At least you know she's okay, she knows you're looking for her, and hopefully you'll get to talk soon. This is good news!! Try to stay positive, hon. You're doing a great job.

 

[Babyshambles]

is it possible that she is acting under her own steam and has actually left you because she does not want to be with you?

this might be a possibility.

I cannot imagine anyone who loved me doing this - unless they actually did want to leave and were scared that my love for them might stop them from doing the right thing - i.e. leaving.

Secondly, I am not sure it would be a good idea to welcome back anyone who would put you though this without so much as a phone call.

This is a dissenting opinion to the majority posting here, and I don't mean to be harsh or horrible.

But could it be time to confront the possibility that she has left you, and that you must get over it and move on?

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

is it possible that she is acting under her own steam and has actually left you because she does not want to be with you?

this might be a possibility.

I cannot imagine anyone who loved me doing this - unless they actually did want to leave and were scared that my love for them might stop them from doing the right thing - i.e. leaving.

Secondly, I am not sure it would be a good idea to welcome back anyone who would put you though this without so much as a phone call.

This is a dissenting opinion to the majority posting here, and I don't mean to be harsh or horrible.

But could it be time to confront the possibility that she has left you, and that you must get over it and move on?

Most good parents will do ANYTHING and hurt ANYBODY to save their own children. This situation is not evidence that she doesn't love him - it's proof that she is madly in love with her daughter and is willing to sacrifice anything to make sure she's safe - as it should be.

 

[Babyshambles]

Why didn't saeria have her children with her in the first place?

Most good parents tend to have their children with them.

I don't know enough about this situation, but it seems very puzzling to me.

Most good parents will do ANYTHING and hurt ANYBODY to save their own children. This situation is not evidence that she doesn't love him - it's proof that she is madly in love with her daughter and is willing to sacrifice anything to make sure she's safe - as it should be.

 

[Babyshambles]

Most good parents will do ANYTHING and hurt ANYBODY to save their own children. This situation is not evidence that she doesn't love him - it's proof that she is madly in love with her daughter and is willing to sacrifice anything to make sure she's safe - as it should be.

Hi Skip,

I cannot see this as a real possibility.

If she loves goth and goth loves her, then surely she would tell him about what she needs to do.

We all know that goth would give saeria her blessing to go to texas (or wherever) for her children.

By concealing this from goth, I can only conclude that she did not want him to know, does not trust him or wants to get away from him.

I can only conclude that she is running away from goth without telling him because she knows he is possessive enough to nag and beg her into staying.

Maybe I am COMPLETELY, completely wrong.

But she would SURELY tell goth about having to go and expect to receive his blessing if this was a strong relationship? No?

I can only therefore assume it was not the strong relationship that is being portrayed here.

 

[rhiannon]

He said in his first post that the sent her daughter to Texas so she could visit her family! Does that explain why the child is not with her?

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Why didn't saeria have her children with her in the first place?

Most good parents tend to have their children with them.

I don't know enough about this situation, but it seems very puzzling to me.

Not that it's any of your business at ALL seeing as you're just here to stir up trouble anyway, but as goth mentioned, she was visiting her father, which you would have known if you had actually read the thread, but you didn't, because you don't really care. You just want to start trouble.

 

[Babyshambles]

He said in his first post that the sent her daughter to Texas so she could visit her family! Does that explain why the child is not with her?

It doesn't explain why saeria didn't tell goth she was leaving.

What it tells me is this: saeria was hatching to get out of this relationship and first she sent her child away, and then, she made good her escape.

Why would a woman want to escape? I don't know, but it looks like an escape to me.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Hi Skip,

I cannot see this as a real possibility.

If she loves goth and goth loves her, then surely she would tell him about what she needs to do.

We all know that goth would give saeria her blessing to go to texas (or wherever) for her children.

By concealing this from goth, I can only conclude that she did not want him to know, does not trust him or wants to get away from him.

I can only conclude that she is running away from goth without telling him because she knows he is possessive enough to nag and beg her into staying.

Maybe I am COMPLETELY, completely wrong.

But she would SURELY tell goth about having to go and expect to receive his blessing if this was a strong relationship? No?

I can only therefore assume it was not the strong relationship that is being portrayed here.

I can only say you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, and if you have any respect whatsoever for the fact that someone here is going through something very difficult you'll go stir shit up somewhere else.

Honestly, I thought even you were above this.

I'm done feeding the troll.

 

[Babyshambles]

Not that it's any of your business at ALL seeing as you're just here to stir up trouble anyway, but as goth mentioned, she was visiting her father, which you would have known if you had actually read the thread, but you didn't, because you don't really care. You just want to start trouble.

No. I do not want to start trouble.

I have come to the conclusion that saeria must have wanted to escape goth, and I would rather the man confronted the truth rather than trying to subjugate this poor lady.

Also, given the way Saeria has conducted herself over this, I don't think goth should want her back.

Just my two cents. Please don't reduce this to thinking that I am causing trouble.

Goth posted this thread to seek opinions and information, and I am offering an opinion.

Just because you disagree with it, does not give you the right to insult me, or accuse me of causing trouble.

So let's keep this on topic please.