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Your out in public shopping or in a park. Sitting resting on a bench watching people and you have flip flops on.
When a guy out of the blue walks up and says nice feet. Are they ticklish?
What would you say? Anything?
Would you think this guy is just weird or bold?
 
Before this thread deteriorates into the "creepy guy" vs "compliment" discussion...

I have a friend this happened to. She said a man came up to her, while she was with her child, and told her she had pretty feet. (Nothing about tickling...at least she didn't mention it to me.)

Her first husband had a foot fetish (well known, and she often talked about making her feet look nice for him)...and SHE thought it was creepy! LOL!

~ toyou
 
This question basically comes down to: "At what point does a compliment become creepy?"

Now if one is out and about, and sees a lovely woman, and perhaps her hair has clearly seen some attention, and you like it, or she has chosen a wardrobe that you feel really ups her game, or even applied an interesting polish color, it certainly is not out of line to say that you like {fill in the blank}. It's a compliment on presentation, and more correctly presentation that was intended to be seen and evaluated by others.

Would you say "Nice Boobs!"? or "That outfit makes your ass look wonderful!" ? or so forth? Once you toss your commentary into the sexual realm, then the creep'o'meter starts to move toward the red zone.

With the "Nice feet" or "are you ticklish" you are asking/commenting on things that are sexual to YOU, and perhaps the woman may or may not twig to this. But in either case your comment is going to be firmly in the "That is not a common thing I've heard said to me" realm for the lady. Which will tend to put her on guard (after all you are a stranger approaching her cold in public) and tend to push the meeter for creepiness up a bit.

I once had a woman I knew call this sort of behavior "Psychological flashing" when she spoke to me about it. And I still feel that conveys the feeling that many women get when approached this way. Not unlike being visited by the old trope, old guy in a raincoat, and nothing else but a smile.

Odds are you'll leave a poor impression.

Myriads
 
I'm the oddball. (Some would say creep) of the forum, and I've NEVER done this. If I had, I'd expect to get slapped, reported, arrested, etc.

The only women that I've ever asked about being ticklish, were either female friends, female pen pals that I used to have before joining this forum, girls on this forum after talking to them first, and.. on a couple of occasions that Ive posted, hair sylists who I knew for a while, while leading into the conversation by saying that hair clippers they were using on me were tickling me.

I've "admired" feet, and probably gotten a few "looks" from women if I stared maybe a moment too long, but... the scenario you mentioned, I never have, and never would.
 
If the guy looks like Channing Tatum then it's hot
If the guy looks like George Canstanza then call the police!
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Meh, Channing Tatum is not quite my thing, but bring on Henry Cavill and he could ask me whatever the hell he wanted! Yep, I am that shallow! 😀
 
I think myriads makes a good point. To compliment a woman on a body part feels creepy. To compliment her on an aspect of her appearance that she did deliberately is different. I paint my nails different colors, and people comment on them all the time. I've never thought it was creepy to hear, "I love your toenails." But if the same person just said, "you have nice feet," I would be really uncomfortable. And I love foot fetish guys! But for a stranger to make that comment would feel weird. I would feel just like if he was checking out my boobs.
 
I'd never do this. To me it's creepy and I don't want to become a creeper. I pride myself on being conservative when it comes to showing my fetish.
 
As an ugly guy I am offended by the reactions of people, IMO it would be creepy or not no matter what the guy looked like!!! It is up to each individual as to the creepiness of compliment of the situation. But I would never do that anyone!!!!
 
whorf007 said:
As an ugly guy I am offended...
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LOLOLOL!! I'm sorry, I don't know if you're joking or being serious but this cracked me up!! My sincerest apologies if you are, in fact, ugly and offended. I just don't think I've ever heard someone say something like that.
 
Skipadeedoodah said:
LOLOLOL!! I'm sorry, I don't know if you're joking or being serious but this cracked me up!! My sincerest apologies if you are, in fact, ugly and offended. I just don't think I've ever heard someone say something like that.
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I am indeed ugly, but I am not offended for myself actually. When ugly guys talk to attractive women it is usually an awkward experience so therefor the thought put into the conversation is often not relayed properly, due to nervousness so unless they are touching you or actually seem unstable cut them some slack. I understand it is an unsafe world but most women know the difference between unstable and a shy nervous guy.
It happens to me on here when I chat with beautiful women I can't type, I literally get finger instead of tongue tied. True story by the way!!
 
I think it's all in the delivery and approach. I do agree that the better looking someone is would make a huge difference.

I have complimented only ladies that I know. I would definitely feel like a creeper deliberately bringing it up to a stranger. Although, I do feel compliments should be shared when appropriate. You never know the difference you might make in someone's day.
 
And for the record ladies under no circumstances am I saying to let a stranger touch you!!! All I ask is that you don't make an obviously nervous person feel like a creep or jerk. Just say no thank you and go about your business. If his reaction to your rejection is not a good one contact police but don't shoot first and ask questions later!!! All ugly guys are not stalkers creeps and psychos!
Always keep yourself safe in the presence of any strangers!
 
Cause, I'm weird, but if I was at a kink event and a person regardless of gender approached me in this manner I most likely would not be put off by the person. As long as the person was for the most part respectful in their approach even if it was accompanied by nervousness. I would accept the complement and depending on the person not give a direct answer, but leave them wondering.

If it was in a vanilla setting then I would be more confused and potentially ask the person why they approached me and a bunch of other questions potentially to get them nervous or get them to be "wtf just happened," but that all depends on my mood and what I'm doing at the time. I don't usually expect to have anyone approach me when I'm out and about doing vanilla shopping or other stuff. But, I can be very curious about other people's thought processes sometimes and I do enjoy being able to pick other people's brains with a little bit of mind fuckery included. Nothing bad just a bit bratty.
 
I've looked at countless women's feet in flip flops and thought she has nice looking feet and never said it to them or asked if they are ticklish I don't have the guts to say anything
 
Franky said:
Cause, I'm weird, but if I was at a kink event and a person regardless of gender approached me in this manner I most likely would not be put off by the person. As long as the person was for the most part respectful in their approach even if it was accompanied by nervousness. I would accept the complement and depending on the person not give a direct answer, but leave them wondering.


If it was in a vanilla setting then I would be more confused and potentially ask the person why they approached me and a bunch of other questions potentially to get them nervous or get them to be "wtf just happened," but that all depends on my mood and what I'm doing at the time. I don't usually expect to have anyone approach me when I'm out and about doing vanilla shopping or other stuff. But, I can be very curious about other people's thought processes sometimes and I do enjoy being able to pick other people's brains with a little bit of mind fuckery included. Nothing bad just a bit bratty.
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Well that is fair enough!!! As I said I wouldn't like to have anyone embarrassed on purpose but natural reactions can't be helped right???
 
I think, more than how the guy looks, it's about how he presents himself and the thought he puts into the words he chooses.

As the original OP stated, "Nice feet. Are they ticklish?" To me, this phrase coming from a "vanilla" guy would be the equivalent of "Nice boobs. Are they real?"
 
If that was the very first thing he said to me then yep i'd be creeped out. Now if we actually sat there and talked for awhile and then somewhere along the way he complimented my feet and asked if they were ticklish...a little less creepy. It's extremely bold too but weird lol.
 
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