Seeking advice

[john_smith]

I'm pretty new to this forum and i have a major question to ask everyone. I'm 19 and very inexperienced in every sense. When it comes to tickling i can be turned on by both females getting tickled and males getting tickled, but i never seem to find men in general attractive, but because i am turned on by them being tickled would that mean i am bisexual or its just part of my fetish?

 

[NG02]

Whats up John...lol, nice name, I shouldve thought of that one. Anyway im my opinion I think it maybe be more of your fetish, wherein the thought of tickling, laughter, happiness, or possibly even torture may turn you on to such an extent that it doesnt even matter the sex recieving the tickling. I could also be wrong but that is my opinion. Once you get more experienced with the fetish maybe you'll be able to figure it out for yourself. Good luck man, and have fun.

 

[stacyshippen]

I'm pretty new to this forum and i have a major question to ask everyone. I'm 19 and very inexperienced in every sense. When it comes to tickling i can be turned on by both females getting tickled and males getting tickled, but i never seem to find men in general attractive, but because i am turned on by them being tickled would that mean i am bisexual or its just part of my fetish?

Hola, and welcome to the forum!

You have a pretty common question...I can only speak from my own experience but I am very much a heterosexual woman and I dig all sorts of tickling including same-sex tickling (F/F and M/M) though I get NOTHING out of same-sex erotica (either kind, just ain't wired that way).

I wondered, like you, when I discovered that F/F scenarios had a pretty powerful effect on me...but no, it's really the idea of tickling in any way, shape or form 🙂 I'll go one step further and say that the idea of being tickled by a woman has a certain allure specifically BECAUSE I'm not bi or gay. Two points of view IMHO: first, in real life, clips, stories etc...I don't respond to the sexual presence of the tickler and therefore f/f tickling boils down to pure "tickling", nothing "sexual". Second, especially because I happen to like more "predatory" tickling scenarios, there's a "fear factor" element in the idea of being tickled mercilessly by someone of your own gender to the point where you submit in more ways than you expect or want. It's a common theme -- just check out the story area here on TMF 🙂

And of course, good old guy/gal (or gal/guy) tickling rocks too! 🙂

So I wouldn't sweat it, you're not alone. Just enjoy and welcome to the board!

Peace,
Stacy

 

[lk70]

I'll just echo what Stacey said, John. It may be more rare for a man to feel the way you do - or it may just be more rare for a man to admit it. I think you're fine and you will probably begin to refine your tastes as time goes on. Don't sweat it.

 

[john_smith]

ok, thanx for the advice

 

[TicklishLayla]

Yeah, what they said. ^^ I don't think I could add much else to what Stacey said.

😛


Welcome to the TMF.

 

[kis123]

Hi John:

So many have commented already and you've received very good advice. You're not crazy-it's just the way you're wired! I'm the same way! I love it all, m/f, f/m, f/f, m/m. My only requirement is that the lee's ticklish with a great laugh and response-all the rest is irrevelent!

I'm more on the ler side who occasionally switches and takes one for the team. You know, whatever makes my lee happy type of thing. I find tickling fun, silly, sensual, and sometimes sexual. I basically love it all! Nothing wrong with you in the least.

I know how it feels to have something inside you trying to claw it's way out, yet feeling it strange, wierd, or just plain wrong! I have a son your age, and I repressed my fetish for many years. I stumbled on the TMF two years ago and feel relieved that thousands of people share my love and passion for tickling.

So take you shoes off and stay around-we'll take really good care of you!