"Self Conscious Ticklishness"

[PiedPiper]

I don't often get into the incessant polling of tickling minutia in here, but there is one question I would like to raise,... and I suppose I'm addressing this mainly to the ladies. Having had the good fortune to have tickled a fair number of women in my life,... being a decided foot fetish tickler,... and having closely observed what went on during these occasions, I've concluded that some women's ticklishness arises at least partly out of self consciousness.

These would be occasions early on in a relationship,.... first or second date, maybe,... not a lot of familiarity going on, yet. Or maybe some impromptu thing at the office Christmas party,.... you get the idea. Wouldn't happen with the woman you've been with for a few years.

But I'm hypothesizing that, for many women, having their bare feet touched (let alone, tickled) by a man is a sort of too-intimate thing. There are those women who may consider their feet to be as proprietarily personal as some of the regions a bit north of their feet. I've noticed that a few of the nervous giggles I've elicited over the years seemed to stem from the fact that the lady simply could not believe that the modesty barrier of her shoes had been breached and her feet,..... her actual bare feet,... were being handled by a man. Self consciousness about their feet,... nervousness,.. maybe even embarrassment,..... these account for some of those reactions, no? The sometimes-hysterical shrieking laughter can be as much a defensive mechanism as it is to whatever is happening to the nerve endings in their soles.

Am I right about this?

 

[FFT32]

PiedPiper, I've read this opening remark about 20-times. Very interesting indeed. You are touching on overlaping things concerning socialality and sexuality... I can not wait to see what the responses are!

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

Well.
I would say when I know the person touching my feet is also a tickle freak like me + has a foot fetish I get really self-conscious.
I think, "Are my feet ugly to him?" "Is my nail polish the right color?" "Are they smooth enough or smell after being in shoes?"

And I think I think that way because I get it, and I want him to like me.
Just like I want him to think my boobs are nice, and my pussy is fuckable. Ya know, all those thoughts that run through women's head when the sexual tension is increased.

I definitely get that nervous giggle and my face blushes when a guy I like touches my feet.
It's a turn on!

So I think you are definitely on to something, PiedPiper.

 

[rhiannon]

and my pussy is fuckable

Is there such a thing for a guy as an unfuckable pussy?? 🙂

 

[ShinyFurret]

I'm neither into feet, nor feet tickling as a 'lee or 'ler, and I don't have ticklish or even particularly sensitive feet, generally speaking.

In summer, I'll wear flip-flops and sandals, but if I'm actually barefoot, then I'm either at a swimming pool (or somewhere else where it would be appropriate), or I'm at home. It's not something I've given much thought to before, but I suppose that, if I'm wholly barefoot and there's someone else around, it's usually quite an intimate scenario, so any sort of contact with my feet would usually lead to some sort of a more conscious response because of the expected/perceived level of intimacy associated with it.

By contrast, I rarely wear gloves and am quite fond of sleeveless tops in summer, so to have someone holding my hand, or tapping me on the shoulder or anything "normal" like that wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Even having a guy put his hand on my knee would be less "intrusive" (for want of a better word) because it's a more "normal" thing to experience, whereas having a guy touching my feet or underarms or ribs would be a sign of something more intimate.

...Looking back on it, that's a bit confusing, probably because I'm struggling to find the right words to explain myself. I hope it makes enough sense. :/

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Is there such a thing for a guy as an unfuckable pussy?? 🙂

If it has teeth in it.

 

[C.A.B.]

Is there such a thing for a guy as an unfuckable pussy?? 🙂

Oh hell yes! They're out there *shiver* And best not talked about in polite company. However, for every 'unfuckable pussy' there's at least one 'unfuckable guy' willing to try.

 

[milagros317]

With regard to the original point: Yes, I believe that many women are skittish about having their bare feet touched, a psychological matter rather than a physiological one.

Is there such a thing for a guy as an unfuckable pussy?? 🙂

Yes, for example one that has herpes pustules on it or around it.