she found out...

[dvnc]

Just chimin' in a little support, Clair and company, for parents findin' out. Some do it in protection and concern (and the computer is a fear factor for most adults these days) while others prowl, "knowing" they'll catch you.

Clair, yours sounds like parents who just feared for their baby. No worries. If she ain't sweatin' you, she likely never will. We parents DON'T want to know what floats your boat, or how. At all. Ever. Just grow up and bring home happy grandbabies and we're laughin'. Seriously. Picture raising someone from a baby through the fires of puberty, and think about them lockin' lips wit' someone, clothing half undone. Ew. Don't wanna know. Don't want 'em harmed, either.

Parents, thus, will trip. Big time.

Yours didn't trip on ya. You're one of the few lucky ones. Mine didn't. Mine's pretty wise to such things. Yours is too, or is just trying not to deal with such, or is just patient. Many good reasons NOT to get in your face about the savage reality of tickling. Heh. As kinks go, having yourself tickled silly is not so spooky. Even with consentual bondage, it's not something parents of this century will fear anymore. Involve pee, or other potentially infections substances, or bodily harm, etc., and mom will ground you, even if you're 40. Spooky but true. It's kinda weird saying nobody was right, but Nobody271 is correct. Folks don't much trip on tickling as more than a little strange, these days. The world got WAY weirder in the last decade, and tickling just ain't that strange anymore.

Some say, "Don't question it if she's cool with it." Not necessarily good advice, though. You sound curious to know why. Wait a while. Have a successful relationship or two. Stand on your own two feet a while, successfully, and then ask her. "Remember when you did that whole "knowing stare" thing? With the computer? Did you ever want to talk about that?" IF she does, which ain't guaranteed, that's about as neutral a ground to begin as you'll need.

Trivia from an old guy,

dvnc

 

[Em Es]

Why did her mother have to tell her they snooped?

To give in to temptation and search through your kid's or spouse's computer history, personal belongings, and so on, is one thing. But why tell them you did so? That's an obnoxious power play, isn't it?

 

[the_Baron]

just last nite my father walked in while i had the hooper triplets tied to each other while engaging in a group tickle fight.

four midgets scattered and jumped the fence, and the kangaroo and aardvark tried to look uninterested.

but as it turns out, he could care less about the this or the taiwanese traveling band playing "Lola", naked.

he simply wanted to tell me that there was a 30% chance of rain in napa valley tomorrow.

he grabbed a refreshing gurgle from the finger bowl, turned around, and went to sleep.

go figure.

and i was all ready to spout some cock-and-bull story about working on a science project for third grade bio.

 

[tommytikl]

WOW...the kangaroo AND the aardvark ...Now THAT is a party!!!😀 🙂

 

[Em Es]

And another thing . . .

On your computer, Tools/Internet Options/General gives you the option to clear your Internet history and delete your Temporary Internet Files folder. Doesn't that erase your computer's record of the web sites you've visited?😕

 

[nobody271]

On your computer, Tools/Internet Options/General gives you the option to clear your Internet history and delete your Temporary Internet Files folder. Doesn't that erase your computer's record of the web sites you've visited?

Yes I use to do that too and it does get rid of it for the MOST part... However there are other ways of stumbling onto tickle material on your computer. For example when I was found out it was from realplayer... Like my roommate went to look at some clip on his computer and saw my history of old clips. The same also goes for windows media player and many other media players. Another example is when you save a picture or video onto your computer... You notice whenever you go to save something else it might take you to that folder as a default so if someone was to save something onto your computer after you they might stumble on what you just previously saved. (LOL I hope somebody understands what the heck I'm saying 😛 ) The point I'm trying to make is it's very hard to cover all of your tracks!
-Chris

 

[kis123]

Yes I use to do that too and it does get rid of it for the MOST part... However there are other ways of stumbling onto tickle material on your computer. For example when I was found out it was from realplayer... Like my roommate went to look at some clip on his computer and saw my history of old clips. The same also goes for windows media player and many other media players. Another example is when you save a picture or video onto your computer... You notice whenever you go to save something else it might take you to that folder as a default so if someone was to save something onto your computer after you they might stumble on what you just previously saved. (LOL I hope somebody understands what the heck I'm saying 😛 ) The point I'm trying to make is it's very hard to cover all of your tracks!
-Chris

If you're running Win98, there is a file in the Win98 or windows section called "recent". You need to delete what's in that file because any recent downloads, uploads, etc are stored in that folder. If you have win2000 or up, I can't help you, sorry. I too have to be careful because my kids use my computer on the weekends.

In response to Clair's post, there is something that either I'm missing or the posters are overlooking. So, if I'm wrong, I stand corrected in advance. Here it goes:

If you live in your parent's house and you're using your parent's computer, like it or not, parents feel that if you're in my house, you're still my kid (even if you're 30) and they have the right to snoop whenever they want. If you were surfing tickle sites at 16, you were definitely under age and they were within their right to check up on you. It would've been nice if they would'nt have dropped the bomb on you the way they did, but if they're that old fashioned, they don't see the need for being concerned for your feelings, they're the parents.

I would hope by now, they understand that you're an adult and have the wisdom to exercise good common sense in your surfing choices. You're probably too old to be concerned about what they think anyway. That's easy for me to say, considering my parents are deceased and I am not bound to their self-made opinions of me.

But if not, they are entitled to their opinions and instead of beating around the bush, they should either ask you about it straight out or leave you alone about it. I hate emotional blackmail. It's very uncomfortable to wait for the other shoe to drop in your own home.