Show some respect to our female lers!!!

[morgandee]

haha just kidding they can go back to the kitchen where they belong

lol internet sexism

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Any female who can tickle me 'till I can't take no more has my respect. :super_hap

 

[Kalamos]

haha just kidding they can go back to the kitchen where they belong

Careful there, man.
I've got a spoon.
And I know how to use it.
And you don't want to know where it's been...

 

[TKLVR181]

Thanks, 'goth.

And Oriya...you, my danger-living friend, had better never show up at any NEST 😀

 

[Relent<]

in all seriousness, a few female lers have been on this forum, and when they post in the personals section, it gets flooded with guys all, "hey, how about I tickle you instead" and stuff along those lines. I imagine that might be a bit annoying.

 

[TKLVR181]

in all seriousness, a few female lers have been on this forum, and when they post in the personals section, it gets flooded with guys all, "hey, how about I tickle you instead" and stuff along those lines. I imagine that might be a bit annoying.

And insulting.

 

[Excess]

in all seriousness, a few female lers have been on this forum, and when they post in the personals section, it gets flooded with guys all, "hey, how about I tickle you instead" and stuff along those lines. I imagine that might be a bit annoying.

Indeed. Hell, I'm a MALE ler, and even I have heard on occasions that I should be a lee just cuz. It's all about not accepting what one is, and wanting to change them to suit someone's needs.

In all fairness though, female lees do have it worse I'd imagine. I mean these days female lers are widely sought after with the rise of F/M tickling. There will always be sub-humans.

 

[P[a]pi]

Maybe I think differently, but if you are a ler and somebody says they would like you to lee for them I would take it as a complement.

It just means they are attracted to you and want a chance to touch you too.

I mean my relationship with Meka started out as me strictly the ler and her strictly the lee, but now we switch.

She still thinks of herself as a lee though. And I still think of myself as a ler. She says she just wants to play with her ler. I mean it turns her on so much, so I don't see why I should deny her.

Her being turned on turns me on and vice versa, so it works out well for the both of us.

But, she does do me way differently then I do her. I wouldn't want her to use my style on me. I like her lighter style and she mixes in other... "things" 😉 with the tickling.

However, if you are a ler and somebody says they would like you to lee for them, but they aren't willing to lee for you then yeah. I agree that, that is insulting haha.

 

[Relent<]

^true, usually some "switching" might go on, but if someone's looking for a lee, and gets a bunch of lers trolling after them just because they're female, its a bit demeaning, as well as disheartening.

 

[Camel26]

I LOVE my beautiful, delicious female ler...she's recently taken to allowing me to tickle her occasionally...but she is still the Ler, and I respect her for turning me into a giggling mess...

And I must reiterate what the insightful, talented Kalamos stated in the thread about female lees: Let's all respect eachother--male, female, ler, lee--just respect eachother. Seriously.

 

[Kalamos]

And I must reiterate what the insightful, talented Kalamos stated in the thread about female lees.

Let us not forget smart, sexy, and somewhat Chaotic...

...

I would go for "attractive" too, but that video did not do that much justice to me.

...

😀

 

[TickleKay]

I LOVE my beautiful, delicious female ler...she's recently taken to allowing me to tickle her occasionally...but she is still the Ler, and I respect her for turning me into a giggling mess....

Yes- that IS delicious and deserving of respect.

I love a female ler.

A female ler, or any female into bdsm, has a decidedly different approach and take on tickling, bondage, and torment than most males. Most males look at it as a 'quickie' or their tickle fix. Females look at it as an exploration and a mental trip inside the person. It's all about the headpsace and the true inner passion.

Camel described it best. I'm sure her trip into a "giggling mess" is a loooong thrill ride of headspace, loss of control to someone she really loves, and best yet: an exploration and sharing between them. As it should be.

It ain't no quickie.

And I must reiterate what the insightful, talented Kalamos stated in the thread about female lees: Let's all respect eachother--male, female, ler, lee--just respect eachother. Seriously.

And I totally say Ditto Ditto to that. Amen!

It's not about the sexes- it's about the humanity. Lets not let it turn into a sleezy bar scene. We've all had our share of those.

 

[revboy]

in all seriousness, a few female lers have been on this forum, and when they post in the personals section, it gets flooded with guys all, "hey, how about I tickle you instead" and stuff along those lines. I imagine that might be a bit annoying.

wow, ive seen those
ya that must be annoying fer sure

 

[Tickleslave83]

I have the impression female lers and male lees are rare. Personally I'm a male lee and I'd do anything for a female ler if there are any out there!

 

[MistressValerie1]

I have the impression female lers and male lees are rare. Personally I'm a male lee and I'd do anything for a female ler if there are any out there!

We're rare only in the online community. In real life I have known dozens of female lers and male lees, but most people won't admit to their interest face-to-face unless they get to know you well.

 

[Tickleslave83]

We're rare only in the online community. In real life I have known dozens of female lers and male lees, but most people won't admit to their interest face-to-face unless they get to know you well.

Well that's good to know 🙂. How many women would you estimate are secretly or openly lers whose first thought when they see a guy they like is "Oh I wanna tickle him senseless!" Also is there a good way to find out if a woman is into tickling or are there any good ways to provoke her into tickling you?:redface:

 

[MistressValerie1]

I think that most women are amenable to using tickling as a form of flirtation, though probably not many have a fetishistic degree of interest. In my experience, women who are naturally touchy-feely or who like physical sports are the most likely to engage in tickling with a guy they might be attracted to. On the other hand, apperanaces can be deceiving: nobody in real life would suspect that I am into tickling because of my usually reserved, detached demeanour 😉

 

[BigNorm]

Thanks, 'goth.

And Oriya...you, my danger-living friend, had better never show up at any NEST 😀

me either, whenever i'm around you, Karen, my hand just gets this tingling feeling, i can't control it...😉