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Side-kinks

Laughsmith

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Howdy!

I've been meditating on my kinks and fetishes lately, and realized that there are a lot of common themes in them.

My two main fetishes are tickling (duh) and orgasm denial.

- They are both about painless torture,

- A situation where you are "forced" to do something usually positive (laugh, orgasm)...

-...that you must still try to hold back.

Anyone else has similar "dynamic duos" or even more kinks that somehow synergize?
 
Oh definitely, I agree! I consider myself a sensualist and find that tickling is the tip of the iceberg for me (a very large one), but I enjoy many other forms of sensation play - and some can lean into a light masochism. Basically anything from sensory deprivation to light impact play. Temperature play, edging, and orgasm control are big ones for me as well.

I do think a lot of these kinks can synergize within a single session quite nicely too 🤭🥰
 
Wrestling. Pinning and tickling or having a woman wrap around me like a pretzel doing the tickling is fun. Also bondage and I guess I will be the first to say feet
 
Tickling is actually my side-kink. Same with feet. Tickling #2, feet #3. But both have grown for me thanks to my time spent on here. My main fetish is bellybuttons. Over time, I found out that bellybutton tickling was a thing. And I saw that this is where producers were posting preview clips. You had to be a member in order to view them, so I joined here just for that. But overtime, I began to enjoy tickling in general, as well as feet. But bellybuttons are my #1, and will always be my #1.

For a while, bellybutton tickling was pretty rare. Back then, it just wasn't really a draw. So not many producers took time to do bellybutton-themed tickle tickle. Maybe it'd get some attention in an upperbody clip, but that was it for the most part. But over the years, things have changed. It's still never gonna surpass feet, or even armpits, but the bellybutton is getting more attention now in the tickling world.
 
My side-kink is bellies/belly buttons, specifically chubby/pudgy/jiggly ones. It's not sexual, it's just relaxing and euphoric. Same with tickling. I'm glad that I have my partner to share my kinks with, and forever grateful for that.

But yeah, anyway, pudgy/chubby/jiggly bellies always have a special place in my heart, and help me with my body dissatisfaction/dysmorphia (self esteem issues), and I have gotten better at accepting my belly for what it is.
 
Tickling is my main fetish and the basis of my sexuality. As years went by it spawned a number of side kinks:
  • Feet: This is a no brainer. It's my favorite tickle spot. It's pretty much my secondary fetish.
  • "Try not to cum" scenarios: "Scenes of desperation" is my favorite tickling scenario so I'm naturally drawn to men and women being forced to hold back their orgasms while being mercilessly teased and stimulated. This includes women wearing remote vibrators in public and men being forced to cum in their pants. I partially blame my ex for the latter fascination. For someone who was "vanilla and proud" she did that to me suspiciously often.
  • Pee desperation: Especially if the woman who is holding her pee is subjected to teasing that is making it more difficult to stay dry, such as having to listen to running water or getting tickled. This one is fantasy only. IRL, I wouldn't dare try to make a girl pee her pants... unless she asks nicely ;-)
 
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Foot worship (receiving)
Upperbody/Bellybuttons
Forced orgasm
Wax play
 
Wrestling. Pinning and tickling or having a woman wrap around me like a pretzel doing the tickling is fun. Also bondage and I guess I will be the first to say feet
Haha I can see where you're coming from... But for me, that's what my oldies did when I was a kid... Let's just say it didn't end up in my fetish inventory lol
 
Tickling is my main fetish and the basis of my sexuality. As years went by it spawned a number of side kinks:
  • Feet: This is a no brainer. It's my favorite tickle spot. It's pretty much my secondary fetish.
  • "Try not to cum" scenarios: "Scenes of desperation" is my favorite tickling scenario so I'm naturally drawn to men and women being forced to hold back their orgasms while being mercilessly teased and stimulated. This includes women wearing remote vibrators in public and men being forced to cum in their pants. I partially blame my ex for the latter fascination. For someone who was "vanilla and proud" she did that to me suspiciously often.
  • Pee desperation: Especially if the woman who is holding her pee is subjected to teasing that is making it more difficult to stay dry, such as having to listen to running water or getting tickled. This one is fantasy only. IRL, I wouldn't dare try to make a girl pee her pants... unless she asks nicely ;-)
I see the self control play is strong with you as well
 
Wow, so much love for bellybuttons!

I don't consider it my fetish, but for whatever reason, sometimes I binge watch content that has tickling/worship of them. I'm not entirely sure where to put it. But somewhere on the positive scale for sure
 
Going to have to agree with the last few here! Huge bellybutton fan 😌 Definitely lean more towards innies, deep or shallow, doesn't matter!! Definitely goes, for me, Bellybuttons>Tickling>Feet>Armpits
 
Feet are definitely the side-kink to my tickling fetish but armpits have slowly been making their way up the list! Sensitive armpits are becoming irresistable for me
 
Wow, so much love for bellybuttons!

I don't consider it my fetish, but for whatever reason, sometimes I binge watch content that has tickling/worship of them. I'm not entirely sure where to put it. But somewhere on the positive scale for sure
I'm telling you, bellybutton fetish has seriously taken off over the past few years. And more tickle producers are paying attention to it. One place that has just fully embraced them, Girls Will Be Girls Club. They take a lot of suggestions over at their TickleBabes patreon. Their clips usually range from about seven to nine minutes. They're really great at taking what fans suggest and using them in their videos. I joined their patreon in late 2021, and suggested a bellybutton themed clip. They did it in their very next scheduled shoot. The clip was so well received that bellybutton fans just flooded to their patreon after that. So the bellybutton is something they really try to incorporate into their tickle clips. They've also embraced it beyond having it get tickled. They give video updates during the week regarding their upcoming shoots/shoots they just completed, and they usually have the girls lift up their shirts so the patrons can see their bellybuttons. And they've lately started making sure that the tickler wears something that leaves their bellybutton exposed so fans can look at it while they're dishing out tickling. And this isn't me speculating. The girls have said themselves in past updates that they're doing this. Like I said, they have genuinely embraced the bellybutton.

If you want to see some great bellybuttons, I seriously recommended their TickleBabes patreon if you haven't checked them out yet. When I first joined back in 2021, it was just to see if they'd take my suggestion. Part of me thought I'd be there for just a month, and then un-sub because it wouldn't be what I thought. But boy, was I wrong. I've been a patron ever since. You won't be disappointed if you join. Again, it's just $10 a month, the girls are all amazing, they all genuinely love their fans, they're super embracing of suggestions and they love when fans get creative.
 
Long hair and the desire for hairjobs, but in my experience, people are usually open to tickling or hair but not both.
 
Bondage. It's mostly for the purpose of tickling, but seeing people restrained is definitely it's own thing.
 
I agree with Laughsmith and MikeMenace - "painless torture" and any kind of desperation play is where it's at! Tickle torture on an extremely ticklish lee produces my favorite reactions, but I appreciate edging, chastity, and all kinds of tease-and-denial games, for the same reasons. I have a fantasy where a hot str8 guy (I'm gay) got off on just teasing and leading me on - no bondage required!
 
I like Bastinado
For me tickling is a pain thing, it's terrible torture
So hurting my feet is not a stretch 😉

Howdy!

I've been meditating on my kinks and fetishes lately, and realized that there are a lot of common themes in them.

My two main fetishes are tickling (duh) and orgasm denial.

- They are both about painless torture,

- A situation where you are "forced" to do something usually positive (laugh, orgasm)...

-...that you must still try to hold back.

Anyone else has similar "dynamic duos" or even more kinks that somehow synergize?
 
I like Bastinado
For me tickling is a pain thing, it's terrible torture
So hurting my feet is not a stretch 😉
Can't say I like causing pain but a little bastinado or rubber band torture does miracles on the sensitivity of soles 😍
 
Oh so many! I have many, many kinks, but a lot of them are less strong than a few more core interests. As far as common themes, most are sensation-based (both giving and receiving), as well as compliments to that like bondage and sensory deprivation. Within the scope of sensation-based play, examples I enjoy are:
  • tickling (duh)
  • temperature play (hot & cold)
  • itching
  • light pain
  • pinching / scratching / biting
  • prickling
  • edging & denial
  • overstimulation
  • The actual sensation of different forms of bondage
Other themes are control, helplessness, vulnerability, and torture.
 
1. Bondage (devices, rope) as a precursor to
2. Orgasm control
3. Tickling (feet and elsewhere)

For me, it's about trust and power exchange.

I’m drawn to the dynamic of a beautiful, confident woman willingly giving up control -- letting me restrain her -- knowing full well I’m going make her lose her composure...especially if on the surface she's disciplined, aloof, self-conscious, and/or even a little prudish.

It's more than just control and sensation play -- it’s earning access, negotiating surrender, and watching her anticipate, then struggle against, and then finally give in to unbearable sensation: pleasure or tickling or both.

I love watching self-possession dissolve under sensation, and how giving up control and being pushed to extremes can bring out what's real in a person.

In fiction, I tend toward non-con. In real life, the rush comes from subtle hints and persuasion.
 
Ticking is one of my three oldest kinks. Others either developed alongside it, or were inspired by partners over the years.

Bondage - an obvious adjunct to tickling, but it turned into a kink itself. Watching a girl struggle in bondage is hot; seeing a girl get turned on struggling in bondage is hotter; seeing a girl get turned on at the idea of bondage is delightful.

Pee desperation/wetting - the original inspiration for my bondage and tickling kinks, but now expanded. Reinforced by an early partner who had a kink for being tied down and teased with bladder pressure, sounds of running water, et c. until she lost it. Further reinforced by female friends and a partner who got off on being placed in desperation situations; traffic jams, forbidden to visit the restroom while at the mall, at dinner, at a movie, or other such.

Forced orgasms - An early partner had a kink for a good girl/bad guy RP where she was tied down and brought to orgasm with a vibrator, fingers, or tongue while she tried her best to resist, because "good girls don't come". Unless you make them, in which case it's not their fault! Wink. Kink inspired by her libido trying to find a way around her religious upbringing.

Multiple orgasms - The same early partner had a fantasy in which she was tied down and left with a vibrator running, and running, and running, ...

Teasing - We agree neither of us will orgasm until ... pick a date; then tease each other mercilessly 'til then. Or I tie her down, get her oh so close, and make her bg for an orgasm.

Surreptitious orgasms - An early partner could only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. Until she came from our first kiss. Then the first time I played with her nipples. Then a fingernail run down her spine. Vaginal penetration. A particular, seemingly innocent touch in public. A code word dropped into a group conversation. A coded gesture across a crowded room. Even a particular symbol chalked in a place I knew she'd be. [Does the modern use of a R/C vibe go here, or under forced orgasms?]

Headlights on - Until we reach a certain age, erectile tissue naturally erects and un-erects many times a day. Our society goes through decades-long cycles in which this is something to be celebrated, or to be ashamed of. I enjoy the celebratory decades.

Voyeurism - I celebrate those who are proud of their PDA; those who stay at a high-rise hotel and leave the curtains open; those who have loud sex or tickling sessions in the adjacent room at motels. Or those who visit and make out on the other sofa as my partner and I do the same.

Cunnilingus - Nature has gifted her with the ability to have many more orgasms per unit time than I am capable of; it's my responsibility to help her celebrate that gift.

Her particular kinks - Some things don't do it for me in and of themselves, but I get into it it because she's into it. An OTK spanking? Being hunted through the woods? If you get excited telling me about it, maybe that excitement will be contagious.
 
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