sighs talk about a coincidence....

[isabeau]

this isnt a complaint thread or a feel sorry for me thread, its a frigging coincidence thread. three years ago i went to the mall a few days before christmas, and on christmas eve i got sick at moms. and had to come home early on christmas day. i mean i was sick. and we had to drive slowly because we were driving in a snowstorm, and everything in my body ached like hell and i had such a fever.

welllllllllll the coincidence is i went to the mall a few days ago. and lo and behold i am sick again. and hubby wouldnt let me go with him up to his relatives today. so here i sit all alone. i've been good, i sat on santa's lap (aka hubby) every night. now dont get me wrong, it could be sooo much worse. at least i have a home to sit in. and am warm. but rats. must be something in that mall. o well life is still good.

isabeau

 

[milagros317]

I am very sorry that you're sick today, dear Isabeau.

 

[isabeau]

I am very sorry that you're sick today, dear Isabeau.

thank you milagros. i'm very lucky to have met you online as a friend

isabeau xoxo

 

[Mimi]

Sorry you're sick on Christmas, Izzybooters. That's gotta be the worst day the whole year to come down with something. Hope you're feeling better soon hon!

 

[unclebill]

try some chicken soup.

 

[isabeau]

Sorry you're sick on Christmas, Izzybooters. That's gotta be the worst day the whole year to come down with something. Hope you're feeling better soon hon!

thank you Mimi you always come up with just what i love. i will feel better. i hope lol

unclebill yuck i hate chicken soup, but i'll try tomato.... thanks

isabeau

 

[Michael514]

I am truly sorry, I hope you feel better and try and make something of this holiday season. Just out of curiosity do you do anything Christmas Day? If you do say a little prayer,and take it from the voice of experience. I was in a similar situation two years ago and I said a prayer and it was answered. I'll have to tell you sometime, it was a miracle. Anyways after a prayer, and if you and yours do anything on Christmas Day, you may just be surprised. I hope you feel better LUV, and I'll check on you later.

 

[isabeau]

I am truly sorry, I hope you feel better and try and make something of this holiday season. Just out of curiosity do you do anything Christmas Day? If you do say a little prayer,and take it from the voice of experience. I was in a similar situation two years ago and I said a prayer and it was answered. I'll have to tell you sometime, it was a miracle. Anyways after a prayer, and if you and yours do anything on Christmas Day, you may just be surprised. I hope you feel better LUV, and I'll check on you later.

thanks osco normallly we would be headed home on christmas day. tomorrow i will probably still rest, although i hate resting. so we can go away on monday. thats a direct order from the boss. keeping my fingers crossed that i get better before monday xoxo

isabeau

 

[Illtcklu]

thanks osco normallly we would be headed home on christmas day. tomorrow i will probably still rest, although i hate resting. so we can go away on monday. thats a direct order from the boss. keeping my fingers crossed that i get better before monday xoxo

isabeau

WOW!!! Sounds like someone has A LOT of FRIENDS on here *nudge nudge get it*? I hope you feel better soon!!! In double *wink*

 

[isabeau]

WOW!!! Sounds like someone has A LOT of FRIENDS on here *nudge nudge get it*? I hope you feel better soon!!! In double *wink*

and you are definitely one of those Illtcklu. i will get better i'm sure. its a good thing i didnt travel with david, he knew best. if i had i probably would have really gotten sick, and our great two dday vacation would be nil. and that is more important than traveling up for one day even if it is christmas eve..... and hubby will be home in an hour, then we can begin our celebration. only thing i cant go to church waaaaaaa . but i dont need church, i know what christmas is all about....

isabeau

 

[Illtcklu]

Someone like you would, and I'm glad I could share my Christmas Eve with you!

 

[isabeau]

Someone like you would, and I'm glad I could share my Christmas Eve with you!

me also hon.....

isabeau

 

[kurchatovium]

Awwwwwwwww sorry you are sick hun. Hope you feel better real soon. Hugs and kisses.

 

[Michael514]

Melanie, I too have had bad Christmas'. My father and I haven't spoke in ten years. After my mother had her stroke and she lost all memmories he forbid me to see her. He always favored my little sister and he hasn't seen his grandsons at all. He eventually kicked me out of hie will and gave everything to my sister. It used to bother me badly at christmas time that he was so cold hearted to tell me," I could visit your children but I opt not to, get over it". I did get over it and made a pact with GOD and myself that I would never be like that. There's more to the story but I don't want to depress you as myself. I know you're not feeling sorry for yourself, I just thought I would share my Christmas woes with you and vent a little sadness with my good friend(s). MERRY CHRISTMAS!

 

[isabeau]

Melanie, I too have had bad Christmas'. My father and I haven't spoke in ten years. After my mother had her stroke and she lost all memmories he forbid me to see her. He always favored my little sister and he hasn't seen his grandsons at all. He eventually kicked me out of hie will and gave everything to my sister. It used to bother me badly at christmas time that he was so cold hearted to tell me," I could visit your children but I opt not to, get over it". I did get over it and made a pact with GOD and myself that I would never be like that. There's more to the story but I don't want to depress you as myself. I know you're not feeling sorry for yourself, I just thought I would share my Christmas woes with you and vent a little sadness with my good friend(s). MERRY CHRISTMAS!

aww osco that is such a shame. that is so sad. thank God my father and i got along great. o well i know you wont be anything like he is....

kurchy xoxoxo i will feel better i'm so sure.

isabeau

 

[Michael514]

aww osco that is such a shame. that is so sad. thank God my father and i got along great. o well i know you wont be anything like he is....

kurchy xoxoxo i will feel better i'm so sure.

isabeau

I AM ECSTATIC THAT YOU AND YOUR FATHER GET ALONG! ENJOY AND SAVOR THE MOMENTS YOU HAVE TOGETHER! I WILL NEVER BE LIKE HIM! I'M SURE YOU WILL FEEL BETTER TOO!

 

[Illtcklu]

Isabeau is greatly loved on this forum! I think it's awesome, and no it's NOT complaining simply to inform everyone your feeling a little under the weather! It's Christmas anyone would be a little depressed to be sick this time of year!

 

[Michael514]

Isabeau is greatly loved on this forum! I think it's awesome, and no it's NOT complaining simply to inform everyone your feeling a little under the weather! It's Christmas anyone would be a little depressed to be sick this time of year!

Well put Illtcklu! Alot of people are depressed this time of year, And you are right, she is greatly loved. There's no reason why we can't talk and cheer her up, especially if she's sick on this day. It's no pic-nic being alone, and if we can do anything, us fellow TMF members will be happy to oblige.

 

[Illtcklu]

Well put Illtcklu! Alot of people are depressed this time of year, And you are right, she is greatly loved. There's no reason why we can't talk and cheer her up, especially if she's sick on this day. It's no pic-nic being alone, and if we can do anything, us fellow TMF members will be happy to oblige.

Thank you Osco89! And Merry Christmas to you!

 

[Michael514]

Thank you Osco89! And Merry Christmas to you!

THE SAME TO YOU AND YOURS MY FRIEND!!!!!!

 

[sole seeker]

Izzy - I hope you feel better soon. Say! I know somethin' that'd put a smile on yer puss! Well, you get the idea.


Osco - sorry to read about you and your dad. Me an mine didn't get along too well either. We'd just started to smooth things out when he died. I still regret not making more of an effort to get it right when I had the chance. I hope you get another miracle, and the two of you reconcile before it's too late.

 

[Michael514]

Izzy - I hope you feel better soon. Say! I know somethin' that'd put a smile on yer puss! Well, you get the idea.


Osco - sorry to read about you and your dad. Me an mine didn't get along too well either. We'd just started to smooth things out when he died. I still regret not making more of an effort to get it right when I had the chance. I hope you get another miracle, and the two of you reconcile before it's too late.

This is a long and difficult story. i have made the first, second, and third first moves to work it out. Not only is he mad but he turned most of the family against me to. Just to be brief, after my mom had her stroke the medical bills were to much, I offered to help pay, take care of my mother, anything to help. In fact everytime I wanted to visit with my mother he told me not a good idea He then told the family members that I was a selfish, incosiderate, and didn't care about him or my mom.
My sister is a different disaster. When she was out of high school and my dad was bankrupt, she needed a car to go to and from work. My wife and I just bought a house and I still co-signed her loan. There were times that I made her payments for her and never asked for the money back. Well she married and after this situation happened she told family members that I iwed her $70.00 for wedding pictures of my family and me and that I never paid her, which I did, and so her and my father got the upperhand. In fact I haven't seen any of my family for at least 8 years.
It used to really hurt, but I've gotten over it and so life moves on. I'm sorry about your dad and your situation with him. I also thank you for your comforting thoughts. I have my two son's and I'll make DAMN sure I never turn out to be like that!!! 😉

 

[Oddjob0226]

In the 70's there actually was a mall in Ft. Worth called Seminary South that made people sick! People, in a short period of time, became afflicted with an unknown condition dubbed "Seminary Syndrom" and they eventualy figured out it had somtehing to do with contaminants in the ventilation system.

Then there was the time I got food poisoning on my birthday, two years in a row. Went to the same PrimaCare and everything.

 

[isabeau]

In the 70's there actually was a mall in Ft. Worth called Seminary South that made people sick! People, in a short period of time, became afflicted with an unknown condition dubbed "Seminary Syndrom" and they eventualy figured out it had somtehing to do with contaminants in the ventilation system.

Then there was the time I got food poisoning on my birthday, two years in a row. Went to the same PrimaCare and everything.

eeks Oddjob wonder if that is what happened here? and there is nothing worse than food poisoning. yuckkk

ps. osco so sorry about your dad. my dad died eight years ago. actually it will be nine years this coming february and i still miss him, but we did get along terrifically, he would call me everyday from work...

isabeau

ps aww soleseeker you did cheer me up
xoxo

 

[leafstk]

Hope you're not sick for your Christmas get away 🙁 Feel better and I hope you have fun, Isabeau 🙂