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[sillygrl22]

ok so here is the situation....i can really tell my newish boyfriend is into tickling, which is pretty awesome lol! we have been testing each other's "hot spots" lately and the other night he mentioned feet.....the only problem with me is that i dont really like feet....never have. I dont know what to do....i get the feeling that he wants to tickle my feet soooo bad and i feel bad about turning him down everytime.....what should i do?? should i just bear it? I have a feeling my feet are super ticklish.....

 

[Excess]

Well first off, this probably isn't exactly the best place to be asking for a largely unbiased opinion if that's what you're looking for. Now as for someone who is unbiased, I say this. First of all, unless he's a creep or primarily likes you for whatever he's in to, he won't be happy doing so if he feels you are forcing yourself to do something you don't like. So in the end, neither of you would be happy. In this kind of situation you just have to talk about it and figure out a compromise of some kind. It's really the only way to get around it.

 

[innocentsexcat]

Kitty confused, just because you aren't into feet yourself doesn't mean you can't allow him to tickle them, right? Or am I missing something here?

 

[rhiannon]

I don't quite understand the problem I think. 🙂 Don't you like feet or don't you like your feet tickled?

If you just don't like feet - ok, and? 🙂 You don't have to like feet to have yours tickled, or do you? 🙂

 

[ViperGTS]

First of all, you need to get over yourself.

You don't like your feet? You don't LIKE your feet?!

When will you women learn that your opinion of your own body is invalid unless you're in a room by yourself.

You women just don't freaking get it. Big, small, thin, thick, tall, short, YOU'RE ALL BEAUTIFUL. The next woman I hear saying she "doesn't like her boobs/ass/feet/legs/hair" is going to have her ass spanked so hard she won't be able to walk for an hour.

Keep in mind the only people this applies to are my close lady friends, and they're all subs anyway.

Close your mouth and open your mind. He doesn't want to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable, and he won't make fun of you. But, do him a favor. Go get your nails done, lotion your feet, make sure you keep them nice, clean, and soft.

Then shut up and let the man play! You'll both enjoy it and you'll have a nice story to tell us tomorrow.

 

[innocentsexcat]

^ Kitty purrrs at this post. Kitty adores masculine men. That's a great post Viper man.

 

[Excess]

First of all, you need to get over yourself.

You don't like your feet? You don't LIKE your feet?!

When will you women learn that your opinion of your own body is invalid unless you're in a room by yourself.

You women just don't freaking get it. Big, small, thin, thick, tall, short, YOU'RE ALL BEAUTIFUL. The next woman I hear saying she "doesn't like her boobs/ass/feet/legs/hair" is going to have her ass spanked so hard she won't be able to walk for an hour.

Keep in mind the only people this applies to are my close lady friends, and they're all subs anyway.

Close your mouth and open your mind. He doesn't want to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable, and he won't make fun of you. But, do him a favor. Go get your nails done, lotion your feet, make sure you keep them nice, clean, and soft.

Then shut up and let the man play! You'll both enjoy it and you'll have a nice story to tell us tomorrow.

I like how you inserted the word "your" into that part and made it sound like she did. I see I was proven so right so fast...

 

[ViperGTS]

I didn't read the post word by word...I'm in between big projects so I skimmed it to get the gist of it, I should have taken more time.

The point still stands, in many cases. In this particular one, why the hell do you not like feet?

Do they look weird? Look at your hands. Those long, wiggly things that grab stuff...ew!

Are they dirty? Um, no, they're not. How many surfaces do your hands touch every day? Feet are only in shoes.

Do they smell? Well that's a personal hygeine problem.

It still boils down to getting over yourself. I don't say that in a mean way; this could be a big growth for you, to learn to deal with something you're uncomfortable with and maybe find something pleasurable in it.

 

[maniactickler]

ok so here is the situation....i can really tell my newish boyfriend is into tickling, which is pretty awesome lol! we have been testing each other's "hot spots" lately and the other night he mentioned feet.....the only problem with me is that i dont really like feet....never have. I dont know what to do....i get the feeling that he wants to tickle my feet soooo bad and i feel bad about turning him down everytime.....what should i do?? should i just bear it? I have a feeling my feet are super ticklish.....

If hes a real foot guy like me, give him what he wants or he may dump you.

 

[labgirl73]

you'll never REALLY know how you feel about it until you try. give it go! even if you find you hate it passionately you may enjoy his reactions so much you'll give yourself to it. enjoy the experiment.

 

[sillygrl22]

I didn't read the post word by word...I'm in between big projects so I skimmed it to get the gist of it, I should have taken more time.

The point still stands, in many cases. In this particular one, why the hell do you not like feet?

Do they look weird? Look at your hands. Those long, wiggly things that grab stuff...ew!

Are they dirty? Um, no, they're not. How many surfaces do your hands touch every day? Feet are only in shoes.

Do they smell? Well that's a personal hygeine problem.

It still boils down to getting over yourself. I don't say that in a mean way; this could be a big growth for you, to learn to deal with something you're uncomfortable with and maybe find something pleasurable in it.

its not that i dont like MY feet...i just dont like feet in general...odd i know....

i think im just going to bite the bullet and see how it goes.

and whoever said he would dump me, thats kinda shallow and he isnt shallow at all

 

[maniactickler]

its not that i dont like MY feet...i just dont like feet in general...odd i know....

i think im just going to bite the bullet and see how it goes.

and whoever said he would dump me, thats kinda shallow and he isnt shallow at all

That would be me that said that. hes a better man than me i guess. id have been out the door!

 

[tcklft]

What would ticklishgiggle do?

 

[BorisandNatasha]

ok so here is the situation....i can really tell my newish boyfriend is into tickling, which is pretty awesome lol! we have been testing each other's "hot spots" lately and the other night he mentioned feet.....the only problem with me is that i dont really like feet....never have. I dont know what to do....i get the feeling that he wants to tickle my feet soooo bad and i feel bad about turning him down everytime.....what should i do?? should i just bear it? I have a feeling my feet are super ticklish.....

Confused just a bit. You don't like feet. Got that but if he does like feet and wants to tickle your feet, what does that have to do with you not liking feet and not wanting to tickle his?
If he likes your feet and likes or wants to tickle them I don't understand the connection with you not liking feet and what it has to with the situation at hand.

Boris

 

[marcusb]

Silly,

I'm not sure what your aversion is to feet and if you don't like 'em well, then you don't like 'em. No harm, no foul as far as I'm concerned. I don't much care for huge breasts... so, we all have our things. 😉

That said, why don't you give a go just once and see what you think of it? Feet have tons of nerves and are connected to all parts of your body... you might just discover something you never knew about yourself.

If you find you still don't like it just tell him you don't like your feet messed with... if he has any sense he'll respect your wishes.

 

[kis123]

its not that i dont like MY feet...i just dont like feet in general...odd i know....

i think im just going to bite the bullet and see how it goes.

and whoever said he would dump me, thats kinda shallow and he isnt shallow at all

Don't pay maniac any attention--most of us around here don't!

But I know EXACTLY how you feel about the feet thing; to me feet are for transportation and locomotion, but nothing else! I just don't care much for them.

However two years ago, I allowed to let someone exclusively tickle my feet for the first time. I was amazed at how ticklish they were and that I had a lot of fun during the session.

I'm not in complete agreement of "letting go" because I have strong control issues. But the only place I sub is in the bedroom so sub to your man and let him show you a good time. If done right, you never know what your "response" will be if you know what I mean! It can be quite the arousing experience..............

 

[sillygrl22]

thank you kis and marcus for the pos. ideas/feedbacks!! thats all i wanted lol...sorry for confusing anyone 😕 ...feet just arent at the top of my list, but like i said, i think ima give it a go and i will be sure to let everyone know how it goes!!! thanks again everyone!!

ps) that doesn't mean ur a bad guy maniac

 

[maniactickler]

thank you kis and marcus for the pos. ideas/feedbacks!! thats all i wanted lol...sorry for confusing anyone 😕 ...feet just arent at the top of my list, but like i said, i think ima give it a go and i will be sure to let everyone know how it goes!!! thanks again everyone!!

ps) that doesn't mean ur a bad guy maniac

Thank you. at least someone realizes im not bad. 😎

 

[Deleted member 2452]

the question isn't if you like feet!

what is important is that he likes your feet.
i could see your being hesitant if he was asking you to tickle his feet, but since it's him wanting to tickle your's, and you like to be tickled, it's a win/win situation!

 

[sillygrl22]

what is important is that he likes your feet.
i could see your being hesitant if he was asking you to tickle his feet, but since it's him wanting to tickle your's, and you like to be tickled, it's a win/win situation!

true you are areenactor.....i wont really get to see him till friday....we are both booked with school and work but hopefully something will happen

 

[kis123]

Thank you. at least someone realizes im not bad. 😎

Must.......contain......myself.......from.....responding!!!!

I simply just can't help myself!

She's relatively new to the board; give her time!

Oh, BTW, how about them Pats???? Glad to see you've since recovered from post Superbowl Stress Syndrome!!

 

[sillygrl22]

Must.......contain......myself.......from.....responding!!!!

I simply just can't help myself!

She's relatively new to the board; give her time!

Oh, BTW, how about them Pats???? Glad to see you've since recovered from post Superbowl Stress Syndrome!!

uh ohs...i get the feeling you arent a big fan of his kis??