So Depressed/Angry About How We Are Viewed

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I've found that I'm much more of a "hot commodity" now at age 32 then I ever was when I was younger, simply because I've had time to work on improving myself. If you constantly worry about what girls think of you, that shows and you're compounding it by worrying too much about her finding out about our fetish. You'll find that if you're a real fun guy to be around, she'll be more receptive to whatever it is you like because she will just enjoy spending the time with you. Who knows, she may even get to like it herself if she doesn't already...

 

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?? I find so many girls that are open to it within the first week I tell them and many times they are so very interested in a relationship.

Usually a girl is more into how you are as a person more than your sexual preferences when it comes to a relationship. Just be a nice, caring guy with a good sense of humor and anything seems to go well. This is all in my experience and I am only 19 years old. Just by having that mindset you will attract alot of women..trust me.