Stop Hiding!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tickler101:)]

Stop Hiding Ourselves Behind the Stories We Make up About Ourselves,why do many of yous hide your selves like mask robbers if not worst alot of yous hide and try to be women as if some don't know the difference between conversations of men and women many of yous hide your selves because you are cowardly, and ashamed, It’s amazing the lengths we will go to in order to hide. We’ll bury ourselves in work, or get involved in an affair, or build a wall around our hearts—anything but face the truth .
Yaqi is a hero to the forum and an idle but we should take his advice and show the world who we are and what we look like you might think your ugly,feel embarrassed or worried to be judge by another human bein thats just the same as you and I a Man is a universe within himself.Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you're living? A great man once said "Don't Point Fingers Unless Your Hands Are Clean".The problem is, when you hide you become a phony. Have you any idea how much emotional energy it requires to keep up a charade for others? Only two things are worse: being a phony with yourself, and being a phony with people . You’ll find it difficult to be honest with others or look them in the eye. Why? Because you’ll be afraid they might look into your heart and see the real you. Is that where you are today? Afraid to look into your own heart? We are blinded to our own imperfections and our lives are filled with greater disappointment. I’m sorry, but everyone does not get a trophy in life. Accept it, you are not perfect and you will stink at a few things...or in a lot of things. So be it. Accept it! The problem with honesty is that it required humility. Instead we hold on to insecurity and want others to fix everything for us and make life easier. WAKE UP! That’s not reality.It takes a great amount of humility to admit your faults, but honesty is the door to an amazing life .There is a reason that at Alcoholics Anonymous you must begin by saying, “Hello my name is ______________and I’m a alcoholic”. Being honest with yourself that you have a problem is the first step to getting your problem resolved! ADMIT IT, you are not perfect!

 

[ticklemepls]

did you seriously copy and paste this into EVERY section of the forum? ............ seriously? way to go bud, wayyyy to go....

 

[rhiannon]

LOL...not really, right!? 🙂

 

[Aimee]

I didn't read any of this. Block of text is still block of text.

 

[Speedbump]

I'm a social chameleon and being phony with others is what I do.

 

[Myriads]

Well, it's a point of view, but like so much in life, one size does not fit all.

At the most basic, being proud of ones sexuality is not equal to shouting said sexuality to the world.

There are times and places for everything, and telling the world you like tickling for example, has its time and place. On say a forum like this. Do you really want to know that the person in the cubical next to you gets off on rubber wet suit porn? That the mail man is into anal fisting? That the pretty girl checking you out at Starbucks is into ritual scarring?

Time and place. When it's not one of those two it's Too Much Information. And it makes people uncomfortable.


Myriads

 

[ticklemepls]

This. And not just for a fetish, but for EVERYTHING. It's the problem I have with gay pride parades: if you are homosexual, be homosexual. What you do in the bedroom is not only none of my business, but is also TMI and I really REALLY don't want to know. And yet... here is this giant parade dropping TMI bombs up and down the street. Suddenly, something that was a non-issue between us a couple of minutes ago has become a source of great awkwardness.

I would react similarly to a heterosexual "I like doggie style" parade. 😛

just as a note, the gay pride parades (while you do make a point)... are more of a parade of protest for not being equal in life... tis another debate, but i do like to point out that fact (at least in maine they are...).

 

[tickler101:)]

Hiding among us is an ancient theme.I don't like hiding. I do like to keep certain things to myself, but many of yous hide and pretend to be women the point of the forum is to communicate with one another to share common interest for us with the tickling fetish a chance to come out little by little and maybe find that special some one but how can we do that if we have many cowards who hide them selves as women now is that pathetic or what. Why do we enter the forum if we're just gonna mask our selves pretending to be women is a is a fraud .For those people who are actually trolls themselves. Yet even though they hide . Hiding behind user-generated nicknames that effectively conceal their identity, these people spread hatred, racism and bald-faced lies – and they do so without fear of being reprimanded.
There are "so many reasons" for one's hiding,..but there is "only one" thing to consider it "isn't right" to hide Whatever it is that sends one under his or her table or into his or her closet;- a guilty feeling, a chickening, a suffocation, a malnourishment;.. it's improper to hide. If one chooses to turn his face away rather than look you in the eye 'it isn't right to hide' for whatever reason!!! That gives rise to many unnecessary doubts. Its always better to come out in the open & check things out to clear the air.
Seriously lying is not appreciated in our society. I know a guy who had several other fake accounts and than he started discussing with his own accounts lol. But he is so much hated these days. Well the people that really know him.The problem is, when you hide you become a phony. Have you any idea how much emotional energy it requires to keep up a charade for others? Only two things are worse: being a phony with yourself, and being a phony with people .

 

[Korastus]

I feel like it's worth noting that your oddly worded blocks of text aren't persuading anyone of anything.

 

[Bothersome]

This. And not just for a fetish, but for EVERYTHING. It's the problem I have with gay pride parades: if you are homosexual, be homosexual. What you do in the bedroom is not only none of my business, but is also TMI and I really REALLY don't want to know. And yet... here is this giant parade dropping TMI bombs up and down the street. Suddenly, something that was a non-issue between us a couple of minutes ago has become a source of great awkwardness.

I would react similarly to a heterosexual "I like doggie style" parade. 😛

The difference being that there are no laws saying that people who enjoy doggie styling can't get married.