Ah, I see. Well, my mom is Sicilian and my pop is from the south so flirting's in the blood 😀 Here's a kind of sneaky trick I like to share with my shy guy friends: Look for a gal pal wearing some really pretty high heels and comment on them. 'Wow, beautiful shoes~do they hurt your feet?" The answer is almost always a "God yes!" (Trust me on this~I wear them all the time.)
HERE COMES THE MOST IMPORTANT PART:
Non-chalantly just say, "Well, I'm seriously trying to improve my massage technique...I can rub them for you if you like..." (We girls are suckers for guys who are good at this!) Sneak in a few tickles, see where it gets ya...Hope it helps a little...
XOXO