The first time you show her your tickle porn

[Horatio]

I've been dating this girl, nothing serious, but she's fun to hang out with. Right now it's more like friends hanging out and I'm cool with that, but I kind of get the feeling that we're both kind of waiting to see if it will become more. But, like I said, it's fun and there is no pressure.

Anyway, we were talking once about sex and I brought up that I dig tickling. So she knows and it's really not a big deal. Then last week we were talking about porn and she asked me if I had any, and I kind of laughed and said, yes I have some, but not the kind you're thinking of.

She smiled at me and said, "Tickling porn?" I cracked up and said, yeah, there is a lot of that stuff out there. A lot of ticklers. She immediately told me she wanted to see it.

So this is crazy. Tomorrow she is coming over - I made a DVD of a bunch of my favorite videos - maybe 30 minutes worth. I am going to make snacks and we are going to drink beers and watch tickle porn together on the big screen.

Honestly, though, having her sitting with me knowing that I'm getting turned on, well, is going to turn me on.

So - any other guys ever have that watershed moment - when you show her your tickle porn?

 

[Bugman]

Sounds great to me.Enjoy my friend.😀

 

[aurora5150]

that's cool! have fun!

 

[Coda]

That's one of the most wonderful things I've heard on the forum in a while. I hope you guys enjoy yourselves. Her enthusiasm sounds really exciting.

I remember showing my most recent serious girlfriend some of the stories I really liked. She wasn't really into it like I was, but she tried and she was trustworthy enough to be totally honest with.

Let us know how it goes if it's okay...

 

[PiedPiper]

I agree with Coda, Horatio

This lady sounds really cool. Hope all goes well,.... and let us know, Ok?

 

[Scouse]

Sounds awesome, good luck mate!

 

[taptoematt]

I think it's great, I tried that with my wife, but she thought it was stupid and never talked about wanting to see it again. good luck

 

[ObservingEgo]

You're an idiot!!

I don't read anything positive in this interaction. She does or did have some interest in you, but you're not making any moves. Wait longer and her interest will vanish. You waiting for her to make the moves isn't going to work out. Hopefully you don't freak her out, but hopefully she does get freaked out and heads for the hills!! It will be a good lesson for you.

Get kinky with the girl and bust out all the stuff that you like to flavor your sex life with after you've established a sex life together and she's comfortable getting her freak on w/you.

 

[Helena]

Wow. You are just friends...you had a conversation about porn...and now you will drink beer and watch a compilation DVD of your tickling clips?
I've never taken out my tickling porn, and put it on the big screen for a "friend" of the opposite sex.
YOU REALLY LIKE HER! THIS IS CLEAR.

 

[ticklesenseless]

Please tell us how that goes. Hopefully you relationship goes to the next level.

 

[lk70]

You're an idiot!!

I don't read anything positive in this interaction. She does or did have some interest in you, but you're not making any moves. Wait longer and her interest will vanish. You waiting for her to make the moves isn't going to work out. Hopefully you don't freak her out, but hopefully she does get freaked out and heads for the hills!! It will be a good lesson for you.

Get kinky with the girl and bust out all the stuff that you like to flavor your sex life with after you've established a sex life together and she's comfortable getting her freak on w/you.

Nonsense. If she's going to be freaked out about it, she'll be freaked out whether you show it to her now or a year from now. I think bringing it out now, at her request, is a great move. Good luck.

 

[LItickleree]

i wouldnt be able to eat or drink anything while doing that lol. Good luck

 

[Horatio]

She just left...

Had a great time, she rested her head on my shoulder as we watched. She made several cool observations, "that looks like it would really tickle!" and "I hope they get a lot of money for doing this" while she was pitying the victims!

So, it's all over, and we're kicking back on the couch, and she says, "so that turns you on, huh?". I said, jokingly, usually, but with you sitting here it felt kind of strange. She looks at me like she's confused and said why? Before I could answer, she said, I like wrestling and tickling, it's not weird.

"Oh, yeah?", says I, and pounce. A long tickle/wrestling session ensues, which she loses badly. We hang out for another hour or so, make plans to get together again, hug, and she leaves.

I probably could have pushed it, but like I said earlier, this is still a friendship and I'm not in a hurry to take it further.

Hey, also, I really appreciate all the kind words from all you cats. It means a lot, and I will continue to post the goings on of my newly-single life if you cats are interested.

 

[Bugman]

Thats great man,glad you all had a good time.😀 Keep us informed and ignore the clueless would be my advice.

 

[Horatio]

Wow. You are just friends...you had a conversation about porn...and now you will drink beer and watch a compilation DVD of your tickling clips?
I've never taken out my tickling porn, and put it on the big screen for a "friend" of the opposite sex.
YOU REALLY LIKE HER! THIS IS CLEAR.

Hmm.. You know, maybe I do. I hadn't really thought about this, but my actions kind of indicate I might. Maybe I should have mad a pass at her. Helena, honestly, I hadn't considered that..... Wow.

 

[lk70]

Hmm.. You know, maybe I do. I hadn't really thought about this, but my actions kind of indicate I might. Maybe I should have mad a pass at her. Helena, honestly, I hadn't considered that..... Wow.

I think your long wrestling/tickling session was an adequate start. Maybe save the passes for a little while 🙂 So glad it turned out well for you. It's amazing when you find out it's not such a big deal, isn't it?

 

[badreligion]

I've been dating this girl, nothing serious, but she's fun to hang out with. Right now it's more like friends hanging out and I'm cool with that, but I kind of get the feeling that we're both kind of waiting to see if it will become more. But, like I said, it's fun and there is no pressure.

Anyway, we were talking once about sex and I brought up that I dig tickling. So she knows and it's really not a big deal. Then last week we were talking about porn and she asked me if I had any, and I kind of laughed and said, yes I have some, but not the kind you're thinking of.

She smiled at me and said, "Tickling porn?" I cracked up and said, yeah, there is a lot of that stuff out there. A lot of ticklers. She immediately told me she wanted to see it.

So this is crazy. Tomorrow she is coming over - I made a DVD of a bunch of my favorite videos - maybe 30 minutes worth. I am going to make snacks and we are going to drink beers and watch tickle porn together on the big screen.

Honestly, though, having her sitting with me knowing that I'm getting turned on, well, is going to turn me on.

So - any other guys ever have that watershed moment - when you show her your tickle porn?

you say shes just a friend right now ? nothing serious .... if you want it to become serious i would hold off on the videos lol

 

[Horatio]

A quick update..

So, this girl and I are close, but at this point I think we are just going to be friends. We're just looking to go in two different directions - she wants a marriage and family, and I've already had a couple of those.

We're intimate but not sexually so. I'm pretty happy with that.

The other day, we were talking over a pitcher of beer and I asked her who her best friend was (I wasn't leading her, honestly - we've only been hanging out a couple of months). She looks me dead in the eye and said, "You are!" And then gave me a look, like, duh!

I'm so stupid. Guys just don't get it sometimes.

 

[goodtickler]

So, this girl and I are close, but at this point I think we are just going to be friends. We're just looking to go in two different directions - she wants a marriage and family, and I've already had a couple of those.

We're intimate but not sexually so. I'm pretty happy with that.

The other day, we were talking over a pitcher of beer and I asked her who her best friend was (I wasn't leading her, honestly - we've only been hanging out a couple of months). She looks me dead in the eye and said, "You are!" And then gave me a look, like, duh!

I'm so stupid. Guys just don't get it sometimes.

Don't get what?

 

[Horatio]

Don't get what?

🙂 Here I was, wondering if she was just a friend, a future girlfriend, or what kind of role I was going to play, sexually or otherwise. And she wasn't about that, dude. She said you're my best friend. She took the whole relationship to another level, and I was still stuck at "should I call her today - it's only been two days since I talked to her last"

I was that important to her and I didn't even know it.

 

[Paultickler]

I've been dating this girl, nothing serious, but she's fun to hang out with. Right now it's more like friends hanging out and I'm cool with that, but I kind of get the feeling that we're both kind of waiting to see if it will become more. But, like I said, it's fun and there is no pressure.

Anyway, we were talking once about sex and I brought up that I dig tickling. So she knows and it's really not a big deal. Then last week we were talking about porn and she asked me if I had any, and I kind of laughed and said, yes I have some, but not the kind you're thinking of.

She smiled at me and said, "Tickling porn?" I cracked up and said, yeah, there is a lot of that stuff out there. A lot of ticklers. She immediately told me she wanted to see it.

So this is crazy. Tomorrow she is coming over - I made a DVD of a bunch of my favorite videos - maybe 30 minutes worth. I am going to make snacks and we are going to drink beers and watch tickle porn together on the big screen.

Honestly, though, having her sitting with me knowing that I'm getting turned on, well, is going to turn me on.

So - any other guys ever have that watershed moment - when you show her your tickle porn?

I always wanted to be in your situation, but honestly it never comes!

 

[Paultickler]

you should also show her the TMF so that she could know that you're not alone on this! I don't know just an advice!