The Guys ask ALL your female related Questions to nessonite/Mistress Valerie Thread

[nessonite1]

I think the whole problem is that you don't have adequate respect for the lamp.

 

[SyDemon1]

Toast? Lamp? Wha?

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One question from me...this is more for mothers *ahem...Ness...ahem*
Question: When your child is being stuborn in doing something wrong, what's the best way to let him/her understand the wrong in what is being done in a assertive way without having to resort to rough measures like caning or any form "physical assertion".

 

[nessonite1]

Sy, I'e been blessed with a chronically well behaved child who doesn't seem to suffer from the "terrible twos".
But being 2 years old she's also not old enough to really reason with or understand WHY something is wrong. At this age you just basically rely on possitive and negative reinforcment. Ask me again in a few years. 😛

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Hi every1!! I know I haven't posted in a while but I have a good reason..............................................I'M IN COLLEGE!!!!! I MADE IT!!! I DID IT!!!! YAY!!!! I am now in my new home adjusting (pretty well too) so now that I'm settled....I'M BACK!!!

 

[nessonite1]

Yay you! Welcome back! 😀
Enjoy your college time! 4 years to delay entering the real world! I wish I had that! 😛

 

[Faramir]

Congrats String Queen!

 

[Faramir]

Sorry Nessonite,

I burnt the toast. I'll just pop another few slices in now. I think I might be slowing down a bit.

Love your Location Squirmer....that's too funny!! now why didn't I think of that...LOL..!!

 

[Faramir]

the "nice" guy...

guy's, we all know we've just recieved the 'Kiss of Death', we she says to us..."you are such a nice guy", (am I wrong here, guy's?).

ssoooo, my question for the all seeing/all knowing ladies of this thread is..."the dreaded nice guy syndrome...how do females see it from their perspective, and how can us guy's get rid of this curse and finally get some booo-tay"?

 

[MistressValerie1]

Hi, String Queen, and congratulations!!! Best wishes for success in college 🙂

Hi, Storm Cat, my dear -- I'm afraid I can't help much, because when I say someone is a "nice guy," that means that I am attracted to him (blushing). Then again, I am quite unusual 😀

Unfortunately some women genuinely consider "nice guys" to be dull or bland -- a lot of the ladies do seem to favour guys that I consider as total jerks. That is one reason for the divorce rate in the US being around 50%.

Your best bet is a woman who is a little older or who at least has had some life experience. If she's had enough bad encounters with jerks, she might appreciate some niceness 🙂

Best of luck,

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Thankx evry1 for your well wishes. I am hangin in there. And Nessie, I am determined to get your socks!! So I will, prob this weekend when I go home. So dont you worry!

 

[SyDemon1]

All the best to you String Queen! Perhaps it's time for a ticklee/ler hunt in college? LOL!

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Stop teasing me Sy! LOL!

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

Stop teasing me Sy! LOL!

the tickle hunt sounds great. can i be involved as well?

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

sure why not

I want Misstress Valerie to do me the honor, but I think she likes bondage, and that scares me. 😛

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

sure why not

I want Misstress Valerie to do me the honor, but I think she likes bondage, and that scares me. 😛

if i am not being too forward, why does bondage scare you?

i have had some expereince with bondage. it is all about trust and being intimate with someone. the trust comes in allowing someone to have total control over you. the intimatcy is the closeness you feel when you the master and the ticklee/sub gives you the control.

if you would like to talk about it or learn a little about it, please private message me and i will be happy to answer all of your questions ot the best of my ability that comes from very limited expereince and from reading on this topic.

 

[nessonite1]

Don't let bondage frighten you, String Queen. 🙂 I'm not saying it's anything you have to jump into or even try but just keep it open as an option maybe in the future rather than ruling it out right away.
It is a little scary and trust does need to be there...but the benefits of bondage to make tickling easier can't be denied! 😛
But as far as I know Mistress Valerie isn't into bondage at all surprisingly enough. 😀

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

Don't let bondage frighten you, String Queen. 🙂 I'm not saying it's anything you have to jump into or even try but just keep it open as an option maybe in the future rather than ruling it out right away.
It is a little scary and trust does need to be there...but the benefits of bondage to make tickling easier can't be denied! 😛
But as far as I know Mistress Valerie isn't into bondage at all surprisingly enough. 😀

good point on the tickling and bondage as a combo ness. it istrue that you can tie your ticklee any way you want to get to them for tickling action, for teasing or anything you want. i know most people like a spread eagle type of bondage but i tihnk the classic hog tie is also excellent. i would imagine both give full access to all parts that you want to tickle.

the beauty of bondage is the person who is the tickler gets to dictate how much squirming the victim/ticklee gets to do.

i have never been tied myself but i have female friends who have and all swear the expereince was mind blowing. the other thing they all tell me is that after the bondage session they feel closer to there mate than ever before and that a good thing.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

lol, well I've always been highly intimidated by bondage since I was little. Not just bondage, but dominism ( is that a word?) and whips and chains and the whole nine. That has always scared me. I would wonder "why would some1 be tied up so they could be hurt?". Now I know why, but it's not my cup of tea. Power to the people who like it, but I'm totally uncomfortable w/ it. You wouldnt have to tie me anyway because I love it and I almost dont squirm, and you get the same results..... laughing wise. So I enjoy it more when the person( male or female) is gentle, soft and teases me verbally, that's where my trust lies. If the ler can do these things w/o going overboard, then it's all good. I just sit, ( or lay) there and take it and giggle and laugh my head off. 😛

 

[nessonite1]

LOL Well all the same don't rule it out completely. 🙂 You may have a change of heart one day. It's really a matter of trusting 100% the person you are with NOT to hurt you. But an open mind is a good thing. A few months ago I never would have considered bondage either. 😛
Oh...I think the word you're looking for is "domination" though I like "Dominism". Call Webster's. 😀

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

lol, well I've always been highly intimidated by bondage since I was little. Not just bondage, but dominism ( is that a word?) and whips and chains and the whole nine. That has always scared me. I would wonder "why would some1 be tied up so they could be hurt?". Now I know why, but it's not my cup of tea. Power to the people who like it, but I'm totally uncomfortable w/ it. You wouldnt have to tie me anyway because I love it and I almost dont squirm, and you get the same results laughing wise. So I enjoy it more when the person( male or female) is gentle, soft and teases me verbally, that'where my trust lies. If the ler can do these things w/o going overboard, then it's all good. I just sit ( or lay) there and take and giggle and laugh my head off. 😛

i really like your point of view. i have not really looked at it that way but yes you are 100 percent right that the laughs are the same. very good point indeed.

just out of curiousty have you ever had someone tickle you for long epriods and be gnetle and tease you as well. i have never doen that to a ticklee but i tihng i will try it once i find the love i am searching for. if i was not a romantic then i would have more tickling expereince but i got this stupid belief that women hate. it is the belief that i ought to know you before tickling or being intimate with you.

since this is the thread for asking questions, maybe some of the ladies can tell me why no one wants a guy who treats them with respect and wants to get to know them first. all thoughts from the ladies are very welcome.

 

[David Tyler]

I've got one for you that has always made me wonder.

If a girl is being tickled during sex, let's say that she's bound spread eagle and her feet are being tickled while she's receiving oral favours, does it interfere with her orgasm or add to it? Does the bondage make a difference in this scenario?

I tend to tickle my girlfriend during sex but she isn't extremely ticklish so I can get away with tickling her feet quite a bit without bondage. Sometimes her focus is lost and she lets a tickled laugh get out.

 

[nessonite1]

let's say that she's bound spread eagle and her feet are being tickled while she's receiving oral favours, does it interfere with her orgasm or add to it?

It's been my experience that the sexual stiimulation completely overrides the tickling and the tickling isn't effective at all. I mean, yes it's effective in that it feels good but it doesn't have nearly the spasmatic ticklish effect that it does normally.
But to actually answer your question...yes it does add to it. At least as far as I know. I can't speak for everybody.

As for BBR's question...leave that to the philosophers. It's one of life's eternal mysteries that men (and women) have been mulling over since the beginning of time.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

just out of curiousty have you ever had someone tickle you for long epriods and be gnetle and tease you as well. .

Not for a long period of time though. Although that is my fantasy. The longest I've been tickled that way was about.......10 mins, with a few breaks here and there. And that's it. That was by my best friend.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

Not for a long period of time though. Although that is my fantasy. The longets I've been tickled that way was about.......10 mins, with a few breaks here and there. And that's it. That was by my best friend.

10 minutes is a good length of time. i can not tell you how long i could handle it since i never been tested or had the priviledge of testing someone that long. since your fantasy is to be tickled for long periods of time then i hope it come true.

maybe you get lucky one day, and get whoever is the love of your life to help you make this tickle fantasy a reality over and over again!

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

I certainly hope so!!