The Tickle Queen says GOODBYE

[MsDivaNYC]

The Tickle Queen says GOODBYE

Originally posted by leafstk
>We don't want to upset MsDiva by discussing these showers anymore<


Thanks, Leaf.

Sorry to see some of the Members are infantile enough NOT to let a subject be laid to rest. Geez...and I thought I was actually gonna have fun here. Thanks to all who welcomed Me when I first registered. Those who still want to contact Me, get My e-mail from My personal website.

To those who think I'm overreacting: a short while ago I confided in LeafStalk that it seemed like a bad, embarrassing joke in high school which people keep bringing up, even at the 10th or 20th h.s. reunion. Give it a rest, already! You are all adults--act like it. If someone expresses discomfort over a certain subject, show some respect and DROP IT.

Good luck to all.

Are you happy now, TommyTikl?


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She who incites passions and inflicts delicious punishment,

Mistress Diva
domina.ms/MsDivaNYC

 

[Cosmo_ac]

Well, i admit i'm disapointed to see you go, especially since you just got here. I do hope you'll reconsider, but i understand if you don't. I do believe i'll take you up on that e-mail offer.

 

[shylittleme]

9 posts? and your all ready Leaving!

 

[kis123]

I have to admit, the shower thing took me by surprise initially. But one thing I have learned after a very short time in the fetish community, one person's kink is another person's gross-out.

Some people on this board take an issue and beat it to death. As you so eloquently put it (quite a few times, I might add) folks need to GROW UP!!!

Some people should handle certain posts the way they handle television: If the material is objectionable to you, TURN THE FRIGGIN' CHANNEL!!

Sorry to see you go. Hope you change your mind. If you don't, then well wishes in future endeavors.

 

[dtrell]

i guess others on here have the ability to badger people off the forum also. i had nothing to do with this one. in fact i was hoping to someday do a session with her.

 

[leafstk]

Like the others, I'm very sorry to see you go as well 🙁 There were numerous comments made at first about the whole "shower" concept, myself included, that contributed to your disappointment. When I did receive that message you speak of - after a public rebuking in the thread in question, I had sent a PM of apology - it appeared that the subject had been laid to rest. I'm sure Tommy mean't no harm by his comment either and was reacting to his gut on the issue... given maybe he should have read your subsequent reply to get a firm understanding of your feelings on the subject. Its unfortunate and I hope you reconsider your decision. 🙁

 

[steph]

don't know if you'll see this...

but I'm the fetish rookie chick who initially asked about the pink shower thing. I was just curious and hope I didn't say anything to upset you even though I was a little caught off guard...

For whatever it's worth, I hope you reconsider your position, Tommy is by far one of the nicest people on this forum and I can guarantee you by writing in blood, he didn't mean anything malicious towards you at all--it's not his way. Good luck whatever you decide.

XOXO

 

[natural tickler]

Ms. Diva, please reconsider your decision, and don't leave. I can speak for all the good folks here that Tommy didn't try to maliciously try to hurt you. We have a lot of good folks here, and like anything in life, sometimes you need thick skin to survive. But please don't go. Don't let some bad apples spoil your time here. Out of thousands of members here, there are only a handful of troublemakers. The rest are good folks. So, whatever you decide to do, good luck in your endeavors😀

 

[dtrell]

steph, NT, sometimes how someone means something has no bearing on how the other person is going to perceive it....dont i know that🙄 LOL

 

[tommytikl]

HUH???

No actually I am not happy...confused honestly
I was just responding to what Mils and Ayla had posted about pink showers and said something about being peed on when I tickled a lady.
I was late to this tread and hadn't read MsDivaNYC post about dropping the subject, I hadn't read back that far...just focused on what Ayla(I can't seem to get the image of Ayla's feet in my hands out of my head) and Mils were saying...
No harm was intended and certainly not at you MsDivaNYC.
I am truly sorry that I am driving away someone who is a Dom and has enjoyed tickling her whole life.
That was not my intent, my intent was meant to be lighthearted and more directed at Ayla about her shower post than the topic at hand...that will teach me to go off topic!

Please reconsider your leaving MsDivaNYC, esp if it is because of my one post in this thread.

 

[TickledToDeath]

What the hell happened? I turn my back for a bit and Diva is leaving already? Yet more confusion amongst the ranks here? I missed the pink shower thing(something tells me I am glad I did) but if you see this MsDiva, rethink your stand on this matter and stick around. You can and WILL have fun here!
Take it from one who has dug out of the "SH*T" that blizzards this place from time to time on a couple of occaisions. Good friends here talked me out of leaving twice and they are worth more than the few who tried to ruin it and I am sure there was a misunderstanding here with tommy. From what I know of him, he is NOT what is being thought by you at the time of your decision to amscray from here.

TTD

 

[snips]

now the ball is in your court msdiva

as you can see msdiva this was just a misunderstanding, everyone has
appologised, i hope you can see it your way to come back.
ok you got me i am on my knees in front of computer begging you to come back, i really think you will enjoy yourself here.

 

[RChello]

I thought...

that mistresses and 'pros' would be a lil more thick skinned, ya know take no sh*t,,,guess this one is is little more delicate, I dont see what big deal is, let it, the off topic comments, slide off like a pink shower,,,oop wrong choice of words there🙂 Hope you stay around lady...

 

[kis123]

Re: I thought...

that mistresses and 'pros' would be a lil more thick skinned, ya know take no sh*t,,,guess this one is is little more delicate, I dont see what big deal is, let it, the off topic comments, slide off like a pink shower,,,oop wrong choice of words there🙂 Hope you stay around lady...

You have a good point, and I've been thinking pretty much the same thing. As many times as I've been blasted on this forum, no one has yet to run me off this board! And, no one ever will! I'm just too stubborn to let others control me, I guess.🙄

 

[natural tickler]

But are you too stubborn to let someone break you from tickling??😀 😛 lol

 

[Cevin]

MsDiva: I'm new here... but can't understand why you're letting something on the net bother you so much. Anyway, I liked your site and hopefully can use your services someday if I'm ever out in that area. (Btw.. stay, what harm can it do?).

 

[kis123]

But are you too stubborn to let someone break you from tickling??😀 😛 lol

Oh NT, are we about to hijack yet another thread? Ms. Diva's not responding, so someone should provide some entertainment, huh?

Getting back to topic---you would like to know, wouldn't you?😀 😛 This is why I'm the "ler". I don't have to worry about being broken that way!🙂 😎 😀

 

[kis123]

Dearest Shadow;

Although I agree with you on some points and have thought about some of the same things, I must say diplomacy isn't one of your stronger suits.

If the community wants to be compassionate, let them. If you want to express your opinion, go right ahead. No one's wrong on this one--people are doing what they feel inside themselves to do and I don't see anything wrong in that.

She hasn't responded to any of these posts so she's probably gone anyway. Maybe this thread should do the same.

 

[leafstk]

Agreed

 

[kis123]

Shadow;

One more time, let me make myself clear:

I am basically in agreement with you. I just felt that you could've said it differently. I have no beef with you at all, and hope it continues that way. Try not shooting the messenger when she is on your side please.

Some people wanted to express their feelings. Whether we agree or not, they shouldn't be critized for doing what they felt in themselves to do. Personally whether she comes back or not is of little consequence to me because I won't let anyone on this board run me away. I came here on my own and will leave the same way. I just don't like anyone (repeat anyone) leaving like this. That even goes for the ones whose opinions I don't necessarily agree with. And that includes whether they are a male or female.

This is a message board and people should be able to write as they wish according to topic and in a reasonably respectful way.

This is kis once again trying to respectfully dig her way out of a self-induced hole!

 

[ShadowTklr]

Shadow;

One more time, let me make myself clear:

I am basically in agreement with you. I just felt that you could've said it differently. I have no beef with you at all, and hope it continues that way. Try not shooting the messenger when she is on your side please.

Some people wanted to express their feelings. Whether we agree or not, they shouldn't be critized for doing what they felt in themselves to do. Personally whether she comes back or not is of little consequence to me because I won't let anyone on this board run me away. I came here on my own and will leave the same way. I just don't like anyone (repeat anyone) leaving like this. That even goes for the ones whose opinions I don't necessarily agree with. And that includes whether they are a male or female.

This is a message board and people should be able to write as they wish according to topic and in a reasonably respectful way.

This is kis once again trying to respectfully dig her way out of a self-induced hole!

You have nothing to dig yourself out of, Kis. I've always admired your opinion, and this is no exception. I'm still one of your biggest fans.

You are quite right, however, when you say that I could have said it differently. There are times in which my delivery is deliberately abrasive, not because I lack the social graces of diplomacy, but because I feel a need to induce a passionate response. Hey, I'm trying to find a niche here. 😀

I don't post as often as I used to, so when I do, I like to make it count for something. Anyway, you're always a wonderful example of graciousness whose path I look forward to crossing again soon. Maybe I'll see you in the chat rooms one day and we can talk.
😎

 

[kis123]

All is well on the TMF front as far as kis is concerned.......

 

[Daumantas]

Ummm...she's leaving?

I didn't even know she was HERE.

 

[Cosmo_ac]

Pesonally, i'm always sad to see somebody leave, as a rule. Guess i'm one of those guys who wants everybody to get along 😀

 

[natural tickler]

Well we all know that is unreallistic, there will always someone who has beef with somebody. But I agree with kis and shadowtklr, if she isn't responding, then let's put this thread to rest. we've done all we could do. It up to her😀