This keeps playing over and over

[shylittleme]

In my mind i keep thinking now that im 20 years old and that i Graduated from high school Last Year that i'm old and that i'm not young anymore and also that i won't be able to fun at all Now. Its like i see all my friends that are still in school (because i got like two friends still that are still in high school) and i see all theses High school kids and i'm like wow look at me? i'm old and done for🙁 . I keep thinking about all thoses things over and over again its so freakin Sad of me. But its just the way i feel like every single day!. i keep going over thoses things over and over again

 

[leafstk]

Just wait till you turn 30! 😀

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

I think what the problem is is that you haven't dettached yourself from that environment, setting, or those people and the way they live their day to day life, yet.

That part of your life is over. You need to move on. 🙂

 

[steph]

o are you in trouble now....

Just WAIT until you're almost 40! But I still feel like a 12 year old, probably because I act that way most of the time...😛

Seriously, though I agree with Celtic Emperor--you're looking behind you when you should be looking AHEAD...
I hate to give you some old foggy cliche' but you really do have your whole life ahead of you. Try to make the most of it, because it goes by VERY fast...

XOXO

 

[venray]

Just wait till you turn 30! 😀

Or 50...I work with many your age and younger, and still think about those days...It never changes...just keep in mind that you are as young as you let yourself be...no matter how old you get!

Ray

 

[leafstk]

Amen 😀 (for all the ladies out there, I'm still 22 and hornier than a rabbit 😉 )

 

[shylittleme]

Your right and i am looking behind me in my past Days and Years. insted of infront of me. and that is really is what i should be doing is trying to look infront me and live up this Life and make the most and best of it.

Thanks for everybodys advice!

it means so Much.

 

[steph]

Anytime honey...Glad to see someone actually taking advice they asked for <gg> (one of the things I LOVE about getting "old" as you call it, is that you get wiser, a whole new perspective on things.) Now get on out there and party your shy little ass off--this ride's a short one...😀

XOXO

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

You're welcome. 🙂

 

[tickledorange]

Hey, wait until you're the first one of your friends to turn 21! That's the part that sucks. You got no one to drink with but the old people in your family.

 

[milagros317]

Or 50....just keep in mind that you are as young as you let yourself be...no matter how old you get!

Ray

As part of the over 50 contingent here, I can only say: Well said, Ray. Act young and have fun, whatever the calendar reads.😀

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Actually, these feelings are perfectly normal, at this time in life. You think, what happened to all the excitement? I went through this, too. I learned far too late that you have to make your own fun and excitement, that it just doesn't "happen" on its own.

 

[shylittleme]

Actually, these feelings are perfectly normal, at this time in life. You think, what happened to all the excitement? I went through this, too. I learned far too late that you have to make your own fun and excitement, that it just doesn't "happen" on its own.

Excalty. i've always been the type of person in Life that didn't know how to have Fun in anything really. i was and still am scared to this day to let myself go and get out there and have fun in Life. when i was in school middle school etc... i used to have some fun but most of the Time it was spend on the computer and leaving a boring dull unfun life in Terms. and to this very Day i am still that way! and i wanna try to change that ya know? to get out there and live my life to the fullest and have lots and lots and lots of fun. and most of my friends (that Grad with me) are away at College and Job core so i don't see them that often anymore as much as i used to. But i'm still gonna try to make the most out of it