TICKLE CURIOUS

[thecurious1]

Hello everyone! I am brand new here, and also new to the whole concept of tickling for pleasure. I recently met a guy who is a ler, and invited me to be his lee. We have talked about it at some length, and he has pointed me in the direction of a few different sites with videos, stories, and now here...though I don't believe he is a member. We have not yet gotten a chance to meet for this. I am extremely intrigued and excited at the idea of it, I can recall quite a few times that I have been tickled both purposely and accidentally, and received an almost guilty feeling of pleasure because of it. I really want to explore this more, and if I can enjoy myself while helping someone else enjoy themselves, well that would be fantastic...yet I am also a little nervous. If any of you have any advice or words of encouragement for a newcomer, it is greatly appreciated for I am inexperienced and extremely curious. Thanks!

 

[Katie Pants]

Let me just say hello! And welcome to our little world =)
My boyfriend went through kind of the reverse of what you just described, so I guess I'll
just pass on what he had to say about it. When I told him about the enjoyment I get from being tickled, it confused him a litle because it was something he had never thought of. But once he knew that there was such a thing, he took a little time to explore it and found that for him the tickle sensation really is pleasurable. He believes that it's all a matter of opening up to it, and once he did just that, he saw what I was talking about. I guess if you're going to explore this, my advice is just to remain open. The natural response to tickling is to try to fight it, both mentally and physically. When the mental block goes down, the physical enjoyment really becomes evident. Best of luck to you, and please keep us updated on how it works out!

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, thecurious1, and congratulations on making your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

Since you have met him already and apparently trust him, just be sure to have fun. Establish a safeword before the session begins and make sure he agrees to respect it.

 

[ViperGTS]

Welcome aboard, curious!

You'll find this to be a very informative group of people. I hope you enjoy your stay!

How long have you had an interest in tickling? 🙂

 

[No_Style]

WELCOME! I hope you find comfort, and feel free to ask questions! 🙂

 

[thecurious1]

Thanks for the warm welcome! As I said, this is something completely new for me, and I look forward to learning more about it and myself in the process. I have only just recently started looking into it, maybe about a week now. I have watched some videos...read some literature...and now I am here, and happy for it. As I said in my original post, I have been tickled playfully by friends in the past (on purpose) and accidentally as I am quite ticklish (i.e. while getting a pedicure) and noticed that I really kind of enjoyed it, but I just dismissed it. It wasn't until I started talking to this guy (online) and he told me he liked to tickle people, and then directed me to different web sites that I realized that it wasn't just me and there might be something more to it. I am really kind of excited about exploring this side of me.

 

[No_Style]

it's very exciting! just be careful of the guys.....I think they'll be thirsty for new blood lol

 

[thecurious1]

Thanks for the warning!

 

[No_Style]

no problem! 😀

 

[WorkInProgress]

Welcome to this forum, Curious One. I still remember the day I ran a word search on "tickling" and discovered there was such a thing as a "ticklng community." It's a pleasure to "meet" you.

 

[Myriads]

Welcome thecurious1,

I'm always happy to see someone find the forum, and see it as a resource for learning about themselves. It's one of the main things I wanted the TMF to be when it was in it's early days.

I hope you enjoy exploring, and feel free to ask us questions. Many here will be more then happy to share information.

Myriads

 

[leafstk]

it's very exciting! just be careful of the guys.....I think they'll be thirsty for new blood lol

Quoted for truth 😀

Lol, but seriously... welcome Curious! 🙂 Some amazing people here, I'm sure you'll find it a rewarding experience 🙂

 

[TheTickleMonster]

it's very exciting! just be careful of the guys.....I think they'll be thirsty for new blood lol

shush you!

 

[tkltease]

welcome aboard and hope you enjoy the site and its nice to see a female from chicago here since this is my town too.

 

[No_Style]

😛 haha

 

[Mike3355]

Thirsty for new blood? nah... we wouldn't do that..

 

[Juhnetiks]

Curious, I've been in your place before. I actually joined TMF after my fiance ("Powah" on here) opened up to me about his fetish. When he told me, we experimented, both with 'ler and 'lee, and we've gained a great sex life from it. I've actually discovered what an amazing lifestyle it is and I couldn't be happier. I was always on the kinky side, but tickling is by far one of my favorite aspects and I don't think I can enjoy sex as much without it anymore.

When you're starting, just make sure to have a safeword set up so you feel more comfortable, and don't be afraid to use it. Remember to communicate with him so he knows how to tickle you the way you like it that will still feel good to him. Just explore and experiment and I'm sure you'll find you enjoy it as much as the rest of us on here. Who knows, maybe you'll find you've had a buried fetish for it all along.

=]

 

[crydun]

Welcome to this forum, Curious One. I still remember the day I ran a word search on "tickling" and discovered there was such a thing as a "ticklng community." It's a pleasure to "meet" you.

me too! God, that feels like a lifetime ago now....

 

[crydun]

Welcome curious. If you ever have any questions, I'm only a pm away!

 

[thecurious1]

Thanks everyone for all your warm welcomes and offers to answer my questions...I will probably take you up on that when I am ready. And thanks for the advice. I have a feeling I am REALLY going to enjoy this journey!

 

[ElFewja]

Oh my, a new one! I say, do you have hot feet? Would you post pictures please? Zomg!

Kidding. Don't flog me. Or tickle, I guess; more appropriate.

Welcome, though. Hope you enjoy the stay, and that your meeting with this guy goes well. Always glad to hear of another that derives pleasure from being tickled. Hm. I advise taking it slowly, though. The journey, that is. You really just need to take in all of the different aspects slowly, one at a time, assuming you're interested in them (like bondage, tools, etc). As a recommendation, though, if you ever get the chance - and this goes for everyone - tickling and making out at the same time are an amazing combination. Sex is probably better, but well, that leads into personal stories that aren't relevant.

Did I say welcome? Welcome.

Etc.

 

[Coda]

thecurious1,

Welcome. Remember, people were individually fascinated by the idea of tickling first, and *then* found each other around the world and formed a community. Don't feel like there's anything you have to do; just enjoy yourself. ^_^

 

[love feet]

Thanks everyone for all your warm welcomes and offers to answer my questions...I will probably take you up on that when I am ready. And thanks for the advice. I have a feeling I am REALLY going to enjoy this journey!

have fun with it do not forget to communicate with your partner!

 

[ElFewja]

What love_feet said times a hundred. Communication > everything.

Oh my, I'm using symbols again. (edit: symbols that aren't alphabet/numbers)

Etc.

 

[Sandisk444]

hey! welcome like everyone else said already. when i started here i was kinda unsure about this too but the longer i've been here the more relaxed i because with it and here i am now!

i'm sure you'll get alot out of this place. (also us guys here aren't THAT bad >.>.....)