Tickle fetish is like using heroin?

[rhiannon]

No offense, but you might want to see someone with great skills in psychology.

 

[jhop220]

No. You Are An Insecure Child Trapped Inside Of A Woman's Body Who Has Not Yet Dealt With Your Own Deep-Seated Feelings Of Vulnerability, Hence Why You Feel The Need To Put Out A Facade Of Dominance And Sarcasm, In Order To Continue To Deflect Not Only Other People, But Also Yourself From The Pain You Carry Within. Unfortunately, Because Of This, You Draw Off The Energy Of Other People On This Site Who Also Have Issues In Their Life, And Hence You Damage Them In The Process Of Deflecting Attention Away From Your Own Inner Pain.

Your inferences are something else. You are trying psychoanalysis on a person you know little about. That is not a very smart thing to do because if you have never spoken to them on a personal level then how can you possibly reach those conclusions? It takes time to understand an individual and to cast judgement on someone without proper research is...well...ignorant.

To Drive My Point Home, Do You Really Think A Normal Guy Likes To Be Dominated And Feel Humiliated Under A Woman's Feet?
Do You Think That A Normal Guy Would Look Twice At You If You Tried Pulling Your Domineering Nonsense On Him?
I Will Tell You Now, He Would Not, Hence Why The Only People Who Fall For That Nonsense Are Men With Problems Of Their Own. The Old Saying Rings True Once Again, "Misery Loves Company". ;-)
Indeed Do You Ever Wonder Why A Heavy Majority Of Society Out There View The Types Of People On This Site As People With Problems?

Interesting...

You keep referring to normal. You seem to assume that society is vanilla. You also seem to think that we are some how inferior to people like you...am I right in that? What you and some others see as a problem really isn't. It is like I told you before...everyone has a cup of tea. Some people are fine with the ordinary...some want more. This world is individualistic...you paint with a broad brush so to speak. What you see as misery....some see as pleasure. Two different perspectives of the same act. Does that strike you as odd? Should it? Again....individualistic.

The Amusing Thing Is, That You All Seem To Have Deluded Yourselves Into Thinking That You Understand Each Other, When Nothing Could Be Further From The Truth. In Reality, You Band Together Here To Create A Melting Pot Of People With Problems Tickling And Touching Each Other's Feet And Playing Quaint Little Master/Slave Games.

And you seem to be making the mistake that you understand who we are. Problems? You see...if two people engage in consensual fetish acts such as these...is that a problem? If that brings pleasure, and joy...is that a problem? Perhaps it is the person who looks from the outside that casts judgement that is the problem.

When A Normal Person Steps Back And Takes A Look This Site And Sees That, No Wonder They See A Bunch Of Weirdos.

Again you say "Normal." First of all, why would somebody with no interest in this fetish even visit? Why bother if it doesn't appeal to you? If you do come here to try and understand...why would you cast such harsh judgements?

Those who wish to do so....perhaps they are hiding some underlying inferiority complex by projecting themselves as superior.

 

[iloveddub]

Nutjob? How Diplomatic And Polite Of You. Well We Can See Who Has The Problems Here Now Can't We, Not To Mention The Fact That You Cannot Read Properly Enough To Even Interpret Or Even Comprehend In The Manner In Which It Was Spoken A Simple Opinion Voiced By Another Person.

Can I Ask, Who Is The One Getting Divorced Because She Needs Tickling For Sex And Doesn't Understand Why She Has The Fetish Yet Somehow Knows Herself? And You Are Calling Me The Nutjob... Hypocrite Much?

I Must Say iloveddub, You Are A Barrel Of Laughs, Thanks A Bunch For The Entertainment!

;-)

Since I'm providing the entertainment, I will set some things straight. I don't do master/slave or humiliation. That's a general misconception. We are all unique.
And my divorce....its based on a heap of other problems that will not be aired on this board, but weigh much heavier in the balance.

 

[iloveddub]

Thank you JHop220 🙂

 

[jhop220]

Thank you JHop220 🙂

Anytime 🙂

 

[Speedbump]

Sex in itself, and any sexual activity enjoyed, for most people, is like a drug. When it's available, people want it all the time. When it's not available, people are generally less happy and quite irritable, and are always looking for the next person who can give it to them again.

Of course there are exceptions to the rule, like almost everything in life. Some people, somehow, can take a drug here and there and never get addicted, and others will take a drug once and want it all the time. But I'm just generalizing here. 😛

Although, this guy is talking out of his ass in a condescending, insulting manner in order to 'treat himself to entertainment.'

 

[iloveddub]

Sex in itself, and any sexual activity enjoyed, for most people, is like a drug. When it's available, people want it all the time. When it's not available, people are generally less happy and quite irritable, and are always looking for the next person who can give it to them again.

Of course there are exceptions to the rule, like almost everything in life. Some people, somehow, can take a drug here and there and never get addicted, and others will take a drug once and want it all the time. But I'm just generalizing here. 😛

Although, this guy is talking out of his ass in a condescending, insulting manner in order to 'treat himself to entertainment.'

If he needs entertainment, my restraints are empty.....😉

 

[rhiannon]

Although, this guy is talking out of his ass in a condescending, insulting manner in order to 'treat himself to entertainment.'

This is a very elaborate way of saying "He's trolling".

 

[Myriads]

To Drive My Point Home, Do You Really Think A Normal Guy Likes To Be Dominated And Feel Humiliated Under A Woman's Feet?
Do You Think That A Normal Guy Would Look Twice At You If You Tried Pulling Your Domineering Nonsense On Him?
I Will Tell You Now, He Would Not, Hence Why The Only People Who Fall For That Nonsense Are Men With Problems Of Their Own. The Old Saying Rings True Once Again, "Misery Loves Company". ;-)
Indeed Do You Ever Wonder Why A Heavy Majority Of Society Out There View The Types Of People On This Site As People With Problems?

Fallacy of subjective perspective.

You have assumed a norm, chosen based on personal experience and outlook, and proceeded to use it as a yardstick to measure the world around you.

Sexual norms are not as simple as you imagine. Gender does not directly connect with a desire for Dominance or submission in the sexual realm. Such assignments seem rather arbitrary across a gender.

But more importantly Mr Reaper:

The every word made cap thing is getting tired. It's a common method in writing used to disrupt a readers cognition of an article, by forcing evaluation of every word as a proper noun. Start writing in a standard format, or I'm going to consider your posts to be trolling. And remove them.

Myriads

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Wow! Reading these pages, it sounds like I'm listening to my brother again. Notice how far off we got about tickling being like heroin. True, it can be addictive, but it's so much fun and doesn't have the health consequences as heroin does.

But as for my brother, he was a fun guy to hang out with when we were both in our 20's. However, he got into the cocaine and alcohol abuse pretty heavy back then. I got alarmed while watching him running back to the table for another line every five to ten minutes. I tried to tell him about the negative personality changes from abusing cocaine, but he just looked at me like a deer caught in the headlights, bent over the table, and did another line anyway. In his early 30's he started making people the butt of his jokes, which were fine so long as he was performing them, but give him a taste of his own humor, and he'd blow up every single time.

Asked, Why did you do that to me, and you tell him the cause that preceded the effect, he would just skip right over it like he never heard it, and keep a laser like focus on the effect. The paranoia was starting to creep in to, and even bringing up the cocaine abuse again, he'd just give me the gorilla face and tune me right out. Friends were getting angry with him and he couldn't figure out why, but ask him to think back what might have been said or done five-seconds before he got that reaction, and he'd blow right up again. He said he didn't want to believe that he was responsible for the reactions he was getting from people.

Time progressed, and he claimed he was in therapy, but as these incidents of his destructive behavior and attitudes kept happening and being brought up, he'd get more steadfast and closed minded in dealing with anything. To make a long story short, I found out 20 years after the fact he never was in therapy, but manipulating a submissive looking counselor into believing he was always the victim. In learning on how to deal with people who tried to talk to him, he became even more closed minded and combative until it just wasn't any point in wanting to hang around with the guy. All that 'therapy' just made him a more confident asshole. All of his long time friends are gone, and I haven't spoken with him for a decade now myself.

He tried to write me years ago in an attempts to reconnect, but once again, he'd blow off the issues that drove me away, and instead went into a lengthy monolog itemizing all the money he was spending on his counseling, like trying to paint the illusion he was getting help while his disorders became stronger and stronger. He also tried to interject that he was a Licensed Therapist now, unaware of the fact that one of the requirements of such a degree, is a PHD in Psychology, while he dropped out of college in his first year. No schooling, no training. After all the relations he had destroyed, he's suddenly a Licensed Therapist, wanting to tell others how to run their lives. This was just another attempt at trying to paint an illusion of superiority.

Very strong narcissistic personality, and a few years ago I discovered Oppositional Defiant Disorder, while looking up something else. This fits both my brother and Grim to a tee. Oppositional Defiant obviously that no matter what you say, you will always be wrong, and he will always be right, in spite of the facts. Hence his typing by capitalizing all the words, as if he's coming from a place of superiority, the voice of reason. No one is agreeing with anything he says, but he claims to be part of the Normal majority.

Another symptom is getting pleasure out of bothering and annoying people. Hence as Grim said himself, he comes here for pleasure. He's having fun getting people riled at him. So long as he gets a reaction, he will be fed. Last but not least is not being able to hear people due to a chemical imbalance in the brain. They may hear the words, but the meaning gets distorted on the way to the processing center of the brain.

The sad part is these people will always be weak at relations with people because of this affliction. Coming back at this guy, he wants that. Don't respond, he'll give up and find someone else to pester.


P.S. In a recent article about Narcissists in a Psychology Today magazine, they suggested if you find your self involved with a narcissist, don't try to talk to them, change them or reason with them. Just get away.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

I still say you don't need permission to tickle somebody.

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Ah, I was grumbling in another post about people on TMF piling on OP's.

Then I stumbled onto this one, which had some amazingly well written and witty responses by TMF'ers to the nutjob grim-whatever (who simplified it all for the reader by coming back 4 months later to explain why it was ok for him to post personal info and tell us how Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union were the societies to emulate). Reading his rants got boring, but a lot of your responses made me feel all better again about TMF!!

 

[Myriads]

As promised. I'll delete every post in nonstandard format. As far as I'm concerned it is trolling.

You want to debate? Fine. But type like an adult who wishes to have a valued conversation.

Step one to having a debate of merit is interacting in a format that does not require me to pass everything you write through a word processor to strip all Caps out.

If you cannot or will not comply, then leave.

Myriads

 

[voided9]

I've been mostly avoiding this topic but just came in to say, Myriads is awesome.

 

[jujimbo]

Being tickle deprived sucks. But I think tickling fetish is a good thing if you get your kinks going.