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There have been a lot of answers here to CrystalLight's question, and I have my own to throw into the mix.
For me it is a fetish/fascination, as a 'ler (resembling TKLMAN's mindset), the best thing about tickling is the 'lee's reaction. I love all the different ways that lee's cope with all of the sensations that they are receiving. I have always been into the way that females react to touch, even if it is not me who is doing the tickling. So once again for me, I really am a fan of tickling and not just touching a woman.
Now is the part of this post where I talk about what I have observed:
As a college student, I see a lot of examples of what people in the real world call "game". A lot of guys need "game" in order to eventually land a date with a girl or for sex or whatever. I have always hated this social action because it is as if the guy has to come up with some sort of plan or a plot to get the girl he is after, almost like outsmarting her or tricking her, or just "spitting out" lines that try to influence girl's attentions. whatever
But I notice that physical interaction is often a big part of people's game. And there are three big ways that I have seen this part of "game" come into play. One way is the hug, which I have seen many "desperate" guys use because maybe it makes them feel like they have a chance or that they are that much closer to sex. The second is the massage. Lots of guys are "experts" at giving massages and would love to have a girl come over to his apartment so that he can "massage" the girl. But the third and most relevant way (to this thread) is tickling. Many guys see that the playful aspect of tickling leads to the girl smiling and being playful back, maybe leading to some sparks flying or a comfort level being formed, or maybe just an attempt to cop a feel (I've seen it done). Basically "game" to me is pathetic, but it works sometimes and congrats to everybody who is successful.
However, with tickling, I think this deals with your question because many people tickle just as a means towards physical contact or for other motives, whereas I tickle for the thrill of that action alone! The tickling is exciting for me, so it is my fascination/fetish. I feel that I am a perceptive guy and notice when a guy is tickling a girl in a flirting way. As an added bonus to this thought, I am a truly into tickling as a fetish and fascination, yet I tickle in public or for other motives way less than other guys (who I figure are not into it like I am). Probably because I don't want to be seen as flirting with these girls, because I have a girlfriend; but that's just the way I see it.
One more thing I have noticed is a particular video company, where the models are not always very ticklish, and I believe that the tickler in all of these films could be doing a way better job. However, in almost all of these clips, it seems as if the motive/point of attention is how naked the models are and how much the tickler can play with their breasts (maybe disguised as tickling - just not well done)! This is a minor example of what could be seen as using tickling for another motive, but I believe it is valid on a small level.
Anyway, I understand that I have probably stepped on some people's toes, for which I apologize, but I think I'm going to be more active in this discussion forum now that I see how varied and interesting people's responses to questions and topics are! Great question CrystalLight!
-Mel
There have been a lot of answers here to CrystalLight's question, and I have my own to throw into the mix.
For me it is a fetish/fascination, as a 'ler (resembling TKLMAN's mindset), the best thing about tickling is the 'lee's reaction. I love all the different ways that lee's cope with all of the sensations that they are receiving. I have always been into the way that females react to touch, even if it is not me who is doing the tickling. So once again for me, I really am a fan of tickling and not just touching a woman.
Now is the part of this post where I talk about what I have observed:
As a college student, I see a lot of examples of what people in the real world call "game". A lot of guys need "game" in order to eventually land a date with a girl or for sex or whatever. I have always hated this social action because it is as if the guy has to come up with some sort of plan or a plot to get the girl he is after, almost like outsmarting her or tricking her, or just "spitting out" lines that try to influence girl's attentions. whatever
But I notice that physical interaction is often a big part of people's game. And there are three big ways that I have seen this part of "game" come into play. One way is the hug, which I have seen many "desperate" guys use because maybe it makes them feel like they have a chance or that they are that much closer to sex. The second is the massage. Lots of guys are "experts" at giving massages and would love to have a girl come over to his apartment so that he can "massage" the girl. But the third and most relevant way (to this thread) is tickling. Many guys see that the playful aspect of tickling leads to the girl smiling and being playful back, maybe leading to some sparks flying or a comfort level being formed, or maybe just an attempt to cop a feel (I've seen it done). Basically "game" to me is pathetic, but it works sometimes and congrats to everybody who is successful.
However, with tickling, I think this deals with your question because many people tickle just as a means towards physical contact or for other motives, whereas I tickle for the thrill of that action alone! The tickling is exciting for me, so it is my fascination/fetish. I feel that I am a perceptive guy and notice when a guy is tickling a girl in a flirting way. As an added bonus to this thought, I am a truly into tickling as a fetish and fascination, yet I tickle in public or for other motives way less than other guys (who I figure are not into it like I am). Probably because I don't want to be seen as flirting with these girls, because I have a girlfriend; but that's just the way I see it.
One more thing I have noticed is a particular video company, where the models are not always very ticklish, and I believe that the tickler in all of these films could be doing a way better job. However, in almost all of these clips, it seems as if the motive/point of attention is how naked the models are and how much the tickler can play with their breasts (maybe disguised as tickling - just not well done)! This is a minor example of what could be seen as using tickling for another motive, but I believe it is valid on a small level.
Anyway, I understand that I have probably stepped on some people's toes, for which I apologize, but I think I'm going to be more active in this discussion forum now that I see how varied and interesting people's responses to questions and topics are! Great question CrystalLight!
-Mel
