Straps&Laughter
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For you, is tickling a subset of BDSM, or a wholly separate thing?
I came to tickling first – as someone who has had a fetish for it since my earliest sexual awareness, I was tickling (or thinking about tickling) viable partners before I ever heard terms like Dominance, submission, or sadomasochism.
When I did, and discovered those were other core parts of my sexuality (late teens, early 20s), they became fused for me. I always assumed they did for others, too.
That said, I interact with a lot of people from the tickling community who either have no concept of, or no respect for, the greater BDSM culture. Things like negotiations, the meaning of a collar, the nature of poly relationships, etc., often seem foreign to a large part of our community.
[Without knowing me, for the sake of discussion that this isn't a thread for whining or expressing frustration, but rather a genuine curiosity.]
Where do you fall on the Venn diagram of tickling and BDSM?
I came to tickling first – as someone who has had a fetish for it since my earliest sexual awareness, I was tickling (or thinking about tickling) viable partners before I ever heard terms like Dominance, submission, or sadomasochism.
When I did, and discovered those were other core parts of my sexuality (late teens, early 20s), they became fused for me. I always assumed they did for others, too.
That said, I interact with a lot of people from the tickling community who either have no concept of, or no respect for, the greater BDSM culture. Things like negotiations, the meaning of a collar, the nature of poly relationships, etc., often seem foreign to a large part of our community.
[Without knowing me, for the sake of discussion that this isn't a thread for whining or expressing frustration, but rather a genuine curiosity.]
Where do you fall on the Venn diagram of tickling and BDSM?