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Tickling not for "Normal People"

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Hello all: I am just starting to see a therapist about my fetish and she says that most ladies would not want tickling and sex mixed together. Now I know that it's not for everyone but I think that's kind of generalizing everybody because I believe some people like tickling, some hate it and some have a middle of the road attitude towards it. Just thought I'd throw it out there and see what everybody's take is.
 
It is telling that a therapist usually have therapists. I asked a therapist-in-training once to define "normal"; she couldn't because "normal" is something insecure folk try to impose upon everyone else.

There are billions of people in this world, marelsm; be yourself, be open and honest, and in that ocean of flesh - she will find you.
 
Yeah, I think they just do that to see what degree of infatuation you have. Its too inflammatory and provocative to say something like that to a patient, imo. I was told the same thing and that was the only reason I could justify such a statement. I don't like that tickling is my thing but I don't see it as such a taboo either; everyone does it....for the most part.
 
I feel that pain dude. Normal people live awful, uneventful lives with a desk job and 3 girlfriends a year who are rubbish in the bedroom and do nothing but drain their bank account on clothes and make up. We on the other hand are unhinged, open and free to explore, we are well trained in many careers, know how to treat a lady like a princess who lives with us as our equal. We can show and teach her sexual things about her body that she never knew which will concrete solid long lasting amazing relationships. Tickling isn't a problem its a tool.
1. Don't get flustered over having a creepy tickle fetish. Just say your great at playing with sensation.
2. Don't jump into heavy naked bondage. A light back tickle for 20 mins will zone her into a relaxed oblivion and she will crave it and you.
3. Remember tickling can be as much an energetic tickle fight as it can be a giggly foot massage, time and a place is worth remembering.
4. Probably the best advice ... Date the right kind of girl. A stuck up princess bitch will file for assault well before a rocker chick with kinky piercings ever will!

good luck! :super:
 
she says that most ladies would not want tickling and sex mixed together
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She's absolutely right. Most don't. But then, most ladies don't like to be spanked either. Still, there is some who do. "Most" doesn't mean "all".

To be into tickling sure as hell isn't "normal", as normal being defined as the big majority of the population doing or liking something. Only a small percentage of people is into tickling. Therefore it is not normal. But hey - who cares!

My question to the TO would be: why did you go to a therapist?
 
To each their own but I can't imagine going to a Therapist for my Tickling Fetish. I never thought it was that big of a deal.
 
This is a complete generalisation! Through my studies of psychology I have learnt that fetishism is indeed defined as abnormal behaviour but this doesn't mean it is a bad thing. Deep down the human psyche wants nothing more than to experiment and release inner desires, our sex life being the biggest medium we have to express our individuality. You'd be surprised how many women would be more than happy to indulge your fetish. It's all about how you approach it 😉
 
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Be yourself and try to find a partner who likes what you like. 😀

Also, find a different therapist.
 
If it's important and you do things at a natural pace, you can convert someone to tickling as a turn on.

This has never been hard.

So this striving for normalcy or whatever constitutes such a needy, clingy designation, is always quite hilarious.
 
Your first problem was seeing a therapist specifically about a fetish (or anything for that matter, in my opinion). Of course they're gonna tell you you're crazy and try to fit you into the "normal" society's mold. You know the hypocritical part? She probably went home after talking to you, and looked up porn about horses shitting on people's faces or something.
 
I'm going to a therapist as well. More to just have someone to talk to that knows nothing about me and who can give me unbiased opinions. I told her about my tickling fetish and she did not react the way yours did. Honestly,I'd find someone else. Find a therapist that deals with sex. I do not like the feedback you were given.
 
Yeah I would also find a different therapist. Wonder what turns HER on? I bet it's not just boring vanilla sex.
 
Speedbump said:
Your first problem was seeing a therapist specifically about a fetish (or anything for that matter, in my opinion). Of course they're gonna tell you you're crazy and try to fit you into the "normal" society's mold. You know the hypocritical part? She probably went home after talking to you, and looked up porn about horses shitting on people's faces or something.
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I take my practice very seriously good sir.
 
Thank you all for responding to my post. And special thanks to Milagros and tskillet for your words of encouragement. Also Raytheon I agree most Ladies are not into heavy tickling, bondage, (I'm not either, mostly into fun tickling and tickle fights), also deadlywiffeather I also agree it's how you approach someone and if you do it respectfully a lot of Ladies I think will endulge me with my fetish to a point. The reason I'm seeing a therapist is I wanted to controll my urge to tickle as it will turn women off if done wrong. Thanks again this a wonderfull forum to express your feeling about tickling and be accepted.
 
The reason I'm seeing a therapist is I wanted to controll my urge to tickle as it will turn women off if done wrong.
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I am dying to hear examples! 🙂
 
You don't choose your fetish according to what is accepted by the major society. A Fetish develops over years. Often since childhood. You can't just get rid of it through therapy. It's there and it won't go away. You can try to deny it but once it formed it will never leave you. You might as well accept it and deal with it and enjoy it. Denying it in my experience just makes it stronger and you will crack eventually. Keep feeding that demon from time to time and live your live...
You will be just fine.
 
milagros317 said:
Be yourself and try to find a partner who likes what you like. 😀

Also, find a different therapist.
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I definitely second that. A therapist is supposed to help you with ongoing issues which degrade your quality of life, not make you normal.
 
marvelsm said:
...I agree most Ladies are not into heavy tickling, bondage, (I'm not either, mostly into fun tickling and tickle fights)
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My wife is into both and she's definitely not the only girl on earth like that- keep looking.

marvelsm said:
Also deadlywiffeather I also agree it's how you approach someone and if you do it respectfully a lot of Ladies I think will endulge me with my fetish to a point. The reason I'm seeing a therapist is I wanted to controll my urge to tickle as it will turn women off if done wrong.
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Your urge to have sex will also turn women off if done wrong- ever thought about it that way?

So I suggest you quit wasting your money on a quack therapist, and use it to take women out for a coffee or what have you instead so you can start to become comfortable simply socialising with potential bedmates. Learn to converse well- women can be seduced through their ears.

Don't do anything stupid like finding a professional submissive- a huge part of her job is to tell you how wonderful you are, and because of that you'll never learn anything. At your age you're not hidebound and can still learn how to approach women and get what you want in a way that will be enjoyable for both of you.
 
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