tickling people who aren’t into/dislike being tickled (consensually)

[bndtkl2021]

wondering if anyone else has had the chance to tie up and tickle someone despite that person not being a fan of tickling and how it went?

i’ve been lucky enough to tie down a friend who was crazy ticklish and it was exhilarating for me but exhausting for her, long story short she was pretty desperately needing money so i got the idea and after lots of negotiation we came to the agreement of me tying her down and getting her for an hour for money. definitely worth it for me haha

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Same deal with me; friend who didn't like it (unsure if she actively disliked it, but wasn't really volunteering either) who needed a quick 50 bucks. She vocalized getting into it during, but didn't acknowledge that after the fact and never did it again. Was fun while it lasted, though.

 

[redheadlady]

Seems unethical. Can't you just tickle someone who's into it?

 

[frankied21]

Seems unethical. Can't you just tickle someone who's into it?

I think the thread more so is involving having rhe chance to tickle someone who doesnt have the fetish but voluntarily wanted to take part for some reason such as lack of funds
I have never had a session with someone who didnt like it, but we played a lot of tickle punishment style games with the neighbors I had a crush on. No one seemed to really love being tickled, but we all liked being tickled by certain people or tickling certain people. My crush and i lost a lot of times on purpose when it was each others turns in stuff like duck, duck, tickle. So ill post that as my two cents

 

[Toesheldback]

Kinda indirectly. An attractive young woman in her early 20s who was a friend of the family always seemed to need money. I’d (over)pay her to do odd jobs around the house since she was in her teens.

Then one day I had the idea to pay her to help me prank my wife, and I told her how ticklish my wife’s feet were. She jumped at the chance to make some good money to not have to “work”. She didn’t think the request was odd at all, and she, of course, knew my wife well.

The couple of planning meetings were probably as fun as the actual tickling itself. We planned it down to the last detail. I absolutely love talking about tickle torture with a normie/vanilla. We got down to every detail; her fingernails, how I’d sit on my wife's ankles, the best areas on my wife’s soles. She was enthusiastic throughout.

 

[milagros317]

She was enthusiastic throughout.

I don't doubt that, for a vanilla person not into tickling, they would be glad to earn money that they need as a tickler (but not as a tidklee).

 

[redheadlady]

I don't think being desperate for money is the same as consent. Consent is an enthusiastic yes, because they really want to do it

 

[frankied21]

I don't think being desperate for money is the same as consent. Consent is an enthusiastic yes, because they really want to do it

Yes means yes, no means no. If you were offered a raise of 10% but had to do 45% more work, youd probably take the raise but you wouldn't be enthusiastic about it.
While I understand the sentiment youre going for, I think thats more of your personal opinion. Which is totally fine btw!

 

[Im_a_dragon]

In my single days, I had one consistent (paid) lee who actually enjoyed it, and another (2x, paid) lee with super sensitive feet who just tolerated it for the money.

My advice to guys seeking paid sessions: be selective in your approach. Don’t offer to just anyone. If you’re talking to someone and you get the slightest inkling they might be trigger-happy to that “report” button, just don’t do it.

 

[ticklingj]

I think if I had to pay someone who otherwise disliked it, I wouldn't enjoy it. It means a lot to me to know we're both enjoying ourselves.

 

[redheadlady]

If you're seeking paid sessions from a professional, then fair enough. That's their chosen profession, they know the deal from the beginning and that's their choice as an adult. The op here was talking about a friend who was desperate for money. I think that's not cool

 

[redheadlady]

Plus the op said there was a lot of negotiation. Sounds like coercion into their friend doing something they didn't want to do, so that op could get off on it. There's a power play there, and I honestly don't think a true friend would ever treat someone like that

 

[frankied21]

Plus the op said there was a lot of negotiation. Sounds like coercion into their friend doing something they didn't want to do, so that op could get off on it. There's a power play there, and I honestly don't think a true friend would ever treat someone like that

I can't disagree with this. Definitely not something I would do with my friend personally either. I think we are actually more on the same page than we seemed before. I was more so just implying thay people could and would be open to it given circumstances

 

[P[a]pi]

I've played with a lot of gals. I think receiving tickling (and pain) are on sliding scales (like most things). let's say the scale goes from hating being tickled, to can tolerate it, to loves being tickled. I like all 3 of those reaction types to be honest. I like pretty much any reaction other zero reaction lol.

if a gal hates it or only tolerates it, then most likely she will want to be paid. I believe money and consent can co-exist within a session. I believe you can have a fun session even if a gal hates some things you wana do. it's just all about how you go about it, mixing things up, and how well you pay the gal to be honest.

 

[quinn65]

Did this a lot. I started a video clip store on a dare and over the next few years a lot of reluctant/hesitant/mildly terrified friends (and their friends, and sisters, and ...) agreed to be tied up and tickled.

My read was that they saw it as an excuse and opportunity to try something edgy in a fun and safe setting. For some it was real torture and a one-time thing. For others it was a challenge, and a few really enjoyed it. I know a couple of them needed the money, but it never felt like passive coercion.

Since then I've hosted sessions for friend groups of traditionally vanilla ladies with no explicit payment involved (aside from party prizes or fundraising incentives). Again, I think the main motivation was an excuse to play at indulging Fifty Shades of Grey-like fantasies and curiosities in a safe setting. Reactions ranged from shocked and horribly ticklish to embarrassed to flirty.

I've written about it in the True Stories forum, including another situation from grad school where a couple of reluctant friends got tickled unexpectedly in a truth-or-dare type card game.

Come to think of it, most of my real life experiences pretty much fit into this category!