Tickling question

[dcs8240]

Hi all,

First off Happy Holidays... I am Looking for advice, there is a female friend that I have known for a while and would like to tickle. What is the best way to ask if she would be interested in the idea, I have briefly tickled her feet for all of a nano second a couple of times and she seemed to be ok with me doing that and didn't freak out.

Thanks.

 

[obama666]

You bring me over, tie me to the bed, you and your friend tickle me for like an hour or so and then we look at your friend and say, "now it's your turn" ... You're welcome!

 

[obama666]

Come on upstate NY... Let's make a nest out of this... Hopefully I will see you in Albany in a few weeks!

 

[mustang]

You will have to approach the situation in a way that you are comfortable with. Here is the way that I handle the situation. I usually start by educating the girl in question as to the nature of my predilections. The situation is usually one in which we are together in private and she is barefooted. I begin by confessing to the fact that I find a women's feet attractive, just as some men are attracted to boobs, booties, legs, etc. Her response to that should give you a clue as to how to proceed from there. If this seems to freak her out, then forget it and move on. She probably won't go along with your fetish if that simple revelation seems weird to her. On the other hand, if she finds this revelation interesting, then you can go on to the next step. At that point, I would test her by putting her feet in my lap. If she goes this far, I would then begin stroking her soles softly to see how she responds to this. Next, I would say something like I find ticklish feet cute. I also might tell them that there is something about stroking a girl's soles that relaxes me. If you are in a dating relationship, then she will think nothing about it when you put her bare feet in your lap and start rubbing and stroking them while watching TV. I have to be in a sexual relationship with a women before I reveal the fact that feet and tickling feet is sexual to me. Then it becomes part of foreplay. Bottom line, just go step by step in small increments to check her out as your revelations proceed. It is important that you act like it is all perfectly normal. If you act weird about it, this may make her think that there is something wrong with it all. These are just some ideas that have worked for me in the past. On the other hand, if I am out with a loose woman and the object of the date is to have sex, then I won't beat around the bush. I will just tell her what turns me on. On dates like this, the girls are often into oral sex and I will tickle their feet while they are doing their 'thing'. It all depends upon the specific situation.

 

[texastickler]

Don't ask!

If a guy once asked if he could kiss me, he had that opportunity just once.

She is your friend so you already know her general boundaries. Just be extra playful and have a tickle fight! Once you make that (I am a tickle freak) statement, there is no turning back.

If your looking to tickle her feet, when your with a lady friend, enjoy a glass of wine with her and offer her a foot massage, A couple glasses of wine and a sensational foot rub will loosen up most girls. Then as you are massaging her start kind of rubbing them together, and state how soft her feet are and that it makes you think of a little naughty fun.

Once you get through those type things, if she seems open to the whole tickle thing, then start to really reveal your fantasies.

I say this as a tickle freak, so please don't take my comment as an insult.

I agree with this statement.

 

[Em Es]

Except for writing "your" when she means "you're" . . .

I agree with every word of misstoegoddess's response!

 

[Phineas]

I agree with every word of misstoegoddess's response!

So do I, mostly. What usually works best for me is, as stated, to simply tickle her, briefly, in a playful manner. Eventually she's going to ask you why you're tickling her so much. At that point, you tell her you enjoy it and you'd love to do it "for real".

Make sure it's about her, though - tell her you want to tickle her because you like her. If she gets the feeling she's just a means to an end, you're hosed.

I also wouldn't use the F-word, or look for too much too fast. If one of my friends, female or otherwise, simply out of the blue started talking about fetishes, X-frames and baby oil, I'd probably freak out and split.

 

[TickVix]

Well since the holidays are right around the corner, if you two have a few drinks that may loosen things up and maybe she'd be more receptive to leting you tickle her. If no drinks are involved, then you can possible just maybe playfully tickle her and she how she reacts. I'm not sure if you'd rather just tell her, but if you feel that may be the best course of action go for it 🙂.

 

[No_Style]

well just because you tickled her feet on a few occasions briefly, doesn't mean she would be okay with being tied and tickled...or tickled for a long period of time...

If she's a really close friend I guess you can try to ease in the topic into conversation