tickling the same damn girl?

[maniactickler]

Just wanted to get some male Ler opinions on tickling the same girl. wife, girlfriend, etc. im asking because i tend to get bored after tickling the same girl after 4 or 5 times. i find out everything in that amount of time. likes, dislikes, most ticklish spots, least ticklish spots, different kinds of laughter on different areas etc. after that, it kinda gets old for me. especially when im out and about and see so many hot babes out there to be tickled! my question is....how the hell can anyone be happy and not get bored by tickling the same girl? that boggles my mind. all opinions are welcome.

 

[vegasfootboy]

A love thing : )

I guess you have to love the girl. Truly love her. She is more then just the sum of her parts to be tickled my friend.

 

[Ticklee1973]

I guess you have to love the girl. Truly love her. She is more then just the sum of her parts to be tickled my friend.

Well said

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

I know you asked for the male opinion, but you know me, I just can't keep my mouth sh

I'm sure the same could be said about sex with the same person... If you love the person you're with, ALL of that person, not just their feet or underarms etc etc... but their personality, their passions, their dislikes, even annoying habits, every time could be like the first time, you just have to work at it a bit... change things, talk about them. If you love that person, then you want to make them feel good and vice versa, if that means touching him or her in a certain spot, or a certain way to bring them pleasure then that's what you do...and it will give you pleasure also... there's this huge thing in a relationship called GIVING......and if both people are not willing to do it, then it just won't work...

 

[theObsessed1]

Another female voice heard from....

I'm very much a lee. I tend to get bored easily when I take the Ler side of things. But, when I care for someone and want to give them a chance at the same pleasure I get in being tickled, I'll do it. It's not just about finding the best spots/reactions/etc. It's about allowing the other person to enjoy what is being done to them.

I personally consider tickling and being tickled a s gift. As an occassional ler, I'll enjoy watching the joy and pleasure that a friend gets from being tickled. As primarily a lee, I also enjoy watching my ler(s) have fun finding good spots and driving me crazy.

Obviously, I most love the lee side. But, it's not only about what I like. It's an exchange. Whether that's between friends, lovers or merely with an acquaintence is what tends to make the difference for me. If I feel good being with someone in general, I'll enjoy engaging in tickle play with them. If I don't know or feel at ease with a person, I won't.

Look beyond your own desires and truly engage the other person and play will take on a whole new meaning for you.

 

[Coda]

What a surprising question. I generally think it's most enjoyable to tickle somebody that you know how to tickle well. The more you've tickled them, the better you are at tickling them. It's also much more enjoyable to tickle someone who is my friend, than someone who I don't really know.

The dynamics of a relationship really increase the opportunity for fun. The ticklee knows that the tickler cares about them enough not to kill them... but the tickler knows that the ticklee can probably take more than they think, and be slightly evil. That's the zone in which begging occurs, when it feels really unbearable, and is still safe. Obviously, the better you know the ticklee, the better you can play that as a tickler.

I suppose I might lose interest in tickling the same person if my appeal came purely from the physical eroticism of their laughter and their movement. That's definitely part of it, but the real joy comes from analyzing and understanding what the ticklee is thinking and feeling as a result of what I'm doing to her.

 

[Stugots]

I'm going to give you my honest opinion. You're either an inexperienced tickler, a boring guy, or you play with boring women if you get bored after 4 or 5 experiences. Tickling gets boring quickly if you don't have a purpose with it and if it isn't enjoyable for the woman. Try having sex with the women you tickle. Include tickling in foreplay and roleplay. Use your mind and sexual energy to get creative, dude.

What keeps me from getting bored is life's pleasures, because there is so much in terms of pleasure that life has to offer. I do other things with women besides tickle them. Tickling should enrich your relationships with women, not define them! Seek out more hobbies and other things to do for yourself and when you're with women. Harness all that energy you have for tickling and convert some of it into a sense of humor and learn the art of massage (2 other great ways to stimulate laughter and pleasure).

 

[P[a]pi]

It's been said already, but what the hell haha. Um... Meka is the only girl I've ever tied up and tickled and I plan on marrying her. I love her. For me, every time is different and you can do different positions and different bondage accessories. And you can branch off into more dom/sub bondage stuff if you like and the girl is willing. There is just so much to do. And then, even if you do eventually end up doing it all, then you do it all again haha.

 

[Helena]

Just wanted to get some male Ler opinions on tickling the same girl. wife, girlfriend, etc. im asking because i tend to get bored after tickling the same girl after 4 or 5 times. i find out everything in that amount of time. likes, dislikes, most ticklish spots, least ticklish spots, different kinds of laughter on different areas etc. after that, it kinda gets old for me. especially when im out and about and see so many hot babes out there to be tickled! my question is....how the hell can anyone be happy and not get bored by tickling the same girl? that boggles my mind. all opinions are welcome.

I am a lee; I am a girl. So, I'm not sure if you wanted MY opinion, but I'm happy to give it anyway. I think you are asking, "After four or five tickle sessions with the same woman, I get bored. How can anyone want to have repeat sessions with the same lee?"
Dominant lers experience excitement when they make new discoveries about ticklish places on a lee. By building trust with a play partner, you will be allowed to experiment with different positions, techniques, and toys. Once you establish trust, playtime is unobstructed, and then there are NEW WAYS to tickle your lee.
There are a lot of "hot babes" in the world. Perhaps you have never had the thrill of the 7th or 8th playdate, because you don't desire it.
If a lee can sense that you will not be around very long, and she is "a one night tickle," her guard will be up. You will not have the wonderful experiences that happen LATER.

 

[maniactickler]

I guess you have to love the girl. Truly love her. She is more then just the sum of her parts to be tickled my friend.

You can love a girl but still be bored though.

 

[maniactickler]

Thanks for the opinions. i guess im just a hardcore variety guy. i like to experience different women.

 

[Mastertank1]

I've been in multiyear relationships with ....

5 different women over my 58 years.
With all 5, the tickling got better each time, as I learned how to give her greater and more pleasure, and the way I'm wired, the more she enjoys the experience the more I enjoy the experience.

With her agreement in advance, it was fun to expand her limits little by little, and to get into the elaborate role-playing I've described elsewhere.

Honestly, I cannot imagine getting bored with having ticklesex with the same woman, because I know it would be someone I genuinely care for or it wouldn't be happening over and over again, and that makes it always interesting.

Then there is also this factor; the very worst ticklesex I ever had was merely wonderful. All the other times were better than that.

 

[Bugman]

I guess you have to love the girl. Truly love her. She is more then just the sum of her parts to be tickled my friend.

Indeed,or at least like each other and be able to enjoy doing other things togeather.I am blessed to have a friend like that,and it's great.😀

 

[tn_tcklsh_tcklr]

Ok- I'd be happy to have the one damn girl...

 

[unclebill]

Become a Democrat. You will have all the women you desire.

 

[Mitchell]

For me, it's called commitment. It is just like having sex with the same girl. When you are committed, whether it be in marriage, or with a girlfriend, you have a deep rooted relationship with the person. While tickling is important, the rapport with the girl is even more important.
I could never get bored tickling the same girl, if I loved her, and she loved me, and we were committed to each other. To me, the heart, feeling, and commitment is most important. I personally would rather tickle the same girl for the next 40 years, and have a wonderful life with her, than to tickle many different girls who I might have no feeling for, and have nothing at all.
You are entitled to how you feel, maniac, but this is just my view.

Mitch

 

[Bugman]

You can love a girl but still be bored though.

i am not being a smartass here manic.I dont think you will ever be happy with any woman for long,and i find that very sad.There is so much more to life....And i'm still looking,and hope to find that special someone.

 

[ElephantEye]

Steven Tyler, a man extraordinarily wise on these matters, once said: "It's better to have sex with the same woman a thousand times rather than with a thousand women one time, although no one believes me".

I'm sure the same's true for tickling. 😎

 

[asutickler]

Just wanted to get some male Ler opinions on tickling the same girl. wife, girlfriend, etc. im asking because i tend to get bored after tickling the same girl after 4 or 5 times. i find out everything in that amount of time. likes, dislikes, most ticklish spots, least ticklish spots, different kinds of laughter on different areas etc. after that, it kinda gets old for me. especially when im out and about and see so many hot babes out there to be tickled! my question is....how the hell can anyone be happy and not get bored by tickling the same girl? that boggles my mind. all opinions are welcome.

There are billions of women in this world. How in the hell could one of them be great enough that you'd give up all the rest of them for her? Seems terribly illogical, doesn't it?

The weird thing about it is this: If you're ever lucky enough to meet that "one" girl, or even someone you think might be that "one" girl, you'll know the answer to that question, and it'll make perfect sense to you.

And if you never meet her, you ask? No sweat. Variety is the spice of life, after all. 😛

 

[maniactickler]

Become a Democrat. You will have all the women you desire.

Never! id rather retire from tickling first.

 

[maniactickler]

i am not being a smartass here manic.I dont think you will ever be happy with any woman for long,and i find that very sad.There is so much more to life....And i'm still looking,and hope to find that special someone.

You may be right. even sexually, i cant see being stuck with the same woman for a long period of time. monotony would set in after a year or so. then id be sorry as i look at all the hot babes out there while im walking around holding hands with my woman. pure torture!

 

[maniactickler]

Steven Tyler, a man extraordinarily wise on these matters, once said: "It's better to have sex with the same woman a thousand times rather than with a thousand women one time, although no one believes me".

I'm sure the same's true for tickling. 😎

He must of said that while strung out on heroin.

 

[maniactickler]

There are billions of women in this world. How in the hell could one of them be great enough that you'd give up all the rest of them for her? Seems terribly illogical, doesn't it?

The weird thing about it is this: If you're ever lucky enough to meet that "one" girl, or even someone you think might be that "one" girl, you'll know the answer to that question, and it'll make perfect sense to you.

And if you never meet her, you ask? No sweat. Variety is the spice of life, after all. 😛

Maybe i shouldnt say id never stay with one woman. i could make an exception if she was drop dead gorgeous with a killer hot body. (and stayed that way) plus she'd have to have the greatest personality and sense of humor. and be horribly ticklish from head to toe, and love every minute of it. and also have her own home so i wouldnt have to be with her 24/7. then, i think i could go for that. if this sounds like any of you ladies out there, feel free to contact me.

 

[Vixen_Kitten]

Maybe i shouldnt say id never stay with one woman. i could make an exception if she was drop dead gorgeous with a killer hot body. (and stayed that way) plus she'd have to have the greatest personality and sense of humor. and be horribly ticklish from head to toe, and love every minute of it. and also have her own home so i wouldnt have to be with her 24/7. then, i think i could go for that. if this sounds like any of you ladies out there, feel free to contact me.

i seriously think you will die a lonely man

 

[usp45]

I've been perfectly happy tickling the same woman for over 20 years, that's my wife Kelley.
She's beautiful, fun loving, and for the most part she fulfills my tickling needs exept for letting me tie her down. I only get to do this on rare occassions, one of which will be in a couple of weeks.
I have seen where someone from time to time will post a poll on which celebrity they would tickle if they could and I always would put Kelley before any of them. Believe me if the situation called for her to be placed in stocks and I got to tickle her non stop without her fighting back, I would definatly take Kelley over any celebrity.
Now have I thought about tickling another woman, sure have, but I don't get preoccupied by it because I've got a pretty good thing going on and don't need to mess it up.