tickling the same damn girl?

[Curmudgeon]

C'mon, now....

i seriously think you will die a lonely man

A catch like him? Charm, wit, intelligence, and class? He's gotta be beating them off with a stick!

Well, ya gotta know the words "beating" and "off" are involved somehow.....

 

[vegasfootboy]

I've been perfectly happy tickling the same woman for over 20 years, that's my wife Kelley.
She's beautiful, fun loving, and for the most part she fulfills my tickling needs exept for letting me tie her down. I only get to do this on rare occassions, one of which will be in a couple of weeks.
I have seen where someone from time to time will post a poll on which celebrity they would tickle if they could and I always would put Kelley before any of them. Believe me if the situation called for her to be placed in stocks and I got to tickle her non stop without her fighting back, I would definatly take Kelley over any celebrity.
Now have I thought about tickling another woman, sure have, but I don't get preoccupied by it because I've got a pretty good thing going on and don't need to mess it up.

Thats just the thing isnt it? If you love a girl you dont want to mess that up. The saying goes " you never know what you have till you have lost it " No statement has ever been more true! For some, it is just the way life goes..always running from one to the next,, always looking for the greener grass or the more ticklish girl,, i know some will disagree,, those of you that have relationships or marriages where you share each other with other people dont apply here,, thats a different thing,, what is cool between 2 consenting adults is always thier own business... if you get bored with the person you choose to be with and say you love,, then maybe you need to look within yourself,, are you a boring person? is it your fault? do you lack the imagination desire and drive to keep your relationship exciting? no one owes you happiness,, you owe it to yourself to make yourself happy with the people you choose to be with.

 

[vegasfootboy]

???

Maybe i shouldnt say id never stay with one woman. i could make an exception if she was drop dead gorgeous with a killer hot body. (and stayed that way) plus she'd have to have the greatest personality and sense of humor. and be horribly ticklish from head to toe, and love every minute of it. and also have her own home so i wouldnt have to be with her 24/7. then, i think i could go for that. if this sounds like any of you ladies out there, feel free to contact me.

it has nothing to do with how hot someone is,, dont you think that even the most hot people in the world have someone that looks at them and thinks " sheesh! the same thing everyday nothing new or exciting about this" trust me ,, that hot chick of which you speak will become routine and boring if thats the kind of guy you are.....

 

[meangry]

Seeing stuff like this makes me sad...and actually makes me believe I am more stupid for having read it.

Like...seriously...read the crux of what you posted. Can't stay with one woman? Like...what? Huh? I'm sorry, given the charming witticism displayed I am not exactly certain you are exactly the freshest catch in the world.

But if I may digress for a moment...

If a woman/girl is letting you indulge your fetish and doesn't laugh at it and treat you like garbage for it...you owe her a little something more than "Sorry...bored." That is degrading for her. She lowered herself to have to let you tickle her because she thought it made you happy when she probably could have found any number of vanilla people out there that wouldn't make he feel like a lesser human being. Or she could find someone who likes what SHE likes strictly.

Or someone who gives and takes.

I'm sorry...to be completely driven by your own carnality is sophomoric.

You know how I never got bored tickling my girlfriends countless times in the duration of our relationship? Because I...*GASP* loved them. And love is a powerful thing. If something illicits a moan...or is satisfying for her...I feel infinitely better about myself because I DID THAT TO HER. I found myself more in love with the person than the fetish...and find that to be true most of the time in any relationship I have.

If it is getting boring...the problem isn't her and the fact that you need new conquests. It has more to do with you and your selfishness.

 

[unit5610]

If my wife were ticklish and would indulge me, I'd be thrilled to tickle "one damn girl" for the rest of time.

 

[maniactickler]

i seriously think you will die a lonely man

But a happy one. 😎

 

[maniactickler]

Hmm...im getting this funny feeling that people here think im shallow?

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Hmm...im getting this funny feeling that people here think im shallow?

Your not helping yourself or doing yourself any favours hon. I read your posts and wonder if your being totally honest or partly jesting to get a rise outta people. I suppose only you know the answer 🙂

If what you do say about women and what you want out of a woman then you need to evaluate your opinion of women, didn't you start a thread about being shallow? lol

 

[P[a]pi]

Hmm...im getting this funny feeling that people here think im shallow?

Well I do haha. You are saying exactly what shallow people say whether they are talking about tickling or sex.

But, it's okay as long as you let the girl know up front.

Tell her up front that she is just an object to tickle to you and that you will be done with her soon, ready to move on to the next chick.

I think that might decrease your chances of tying her up and tickling her though (sarcasm).

 

[jaba]

Your not helping yourself or doing yourself any favours hon. I read your posts and wonder if your being totally honest or partly jesting to get a rise outta people. I suppose only you know the answer 🙂

If what you do say about women and what you want out of a woman then you need to evaluate your opinion of women, didn't you start a thread about being shallow? lol

it took me a little bit to get accustomed to some of maniac's sentiments, S n T...he may actually believe a lot of what he says, but.....I think some of his comments are made for for their "entertainment" value...... 😛

 

[Stugots]

Inexperience usually causes shallowness, dude. You seem inexperienced with women and pretending to be shallow doesn't make up for that fact nor play it off. I'd understand if you meant that 4 or 5 experiences of tickle talk with women online got boring, because all you're doing is sending and receiving font. It's much different when you're with a woman in real life because you see and touch more than just a screen and keys on a keyboard.

 

[maniactickler]

Your not helping yourself or doing yourself any favours hon. I read your posts and wonder if your being totally honest or partly jesting to get a rise outta people. I suppose only you know the answer 🙂

If what you do say about women and what you want out of a woman then you need to evaluate your opinion of women, didn't you start a thread about being shallow? lol

Im being honest. it just might seem like im jesting because of my goofy attitude towards most topics. hey, maybe i just havent met that one girl that will knock my socks off, who knows. maybe if i meet one, my whole attitude could change. umm...are you willing to give me a shot?

 

[maniactickler]

Well I do haha. You are saying exactly what shallow people say whether they are talking about tickling or sex.

But, it's okay as long as you let the girl know up front.

Tell her up front that she is just an object to tickle to you and that you will be done with her soon, ready to move on to the next chick.

I think that might decrease your chances of tying her up and tickling her though (sarcasm).

Oh im always up front about what im looking for. i dont string women along and then break their heart. im a compassionate conservative.

 

[maniactickler]

it took me a little bit to get accustomed to some of maniac's sentiments, S n T...he may actually believe a lot of what he says, but.....I think some of his comments are made for for their "entertainment" value...... 😛

Dont try to figure me out, its impossible!

 

[maniactickler]

Inexperience usually causes shallowness, dude. You seem inexperienced with women and pretending to be shallow doesn't make up for that fact nor play it off. I'd understand if you meant that 4 or 5 experiences of tickle talk with women online got boring, because all you're doing is sending and receiving font. It's much different when you're with a woman in real life because you see and touch more than just a screen and keys on a keyboard.

Well ive never been in any serious relationship, but ive met about 20 women in real life. some i really liked at first, but then i started picking out the negatives in them and lost interest. i have this damn problem with finding perfection.

 

[drew70]

To me, Maniac isn't shallow. He's got very specific interests yet makes no demands. He's completely up front in what he wants and doesn't want, and he's unconcerned with fitting in with todays standards of being politically correct. He knows that his attitudes and world views may be unpalatable to some, so he puts them out there for all to see, in order to eschew any pretense or insincerity. As many as are uninterested in him, he is equally uninterested in them. Insults roll off his back like water on a duck.

There's no doubt in my mind that there is somebody for Maniac; and that he will be an ideal mate for her as well.

 

[maniactickler]

To me, Maniac isn't shallow. He's got very specific interests yet makes no demands. He's completely up front in what he wants and doesn't want, and he's unconcerned with fitting in with todays standards of being politically correct. He knows that his attitudes and world views may be unpalatable to some, so he puts them out there for all to see, in order to eschew any pretense or insincerity. As many as are uninterested in him, he is equally uninterested in them. Insults roll off his back like water on a duck.

There's no doubt in my mind that there is somebody for Maniac; and that he will be an ideal mate for her as well.

Thank you my friend. at least i have a tiny bit of support and understanding here! im not the monster you all think i am dammit! i swear it!

 

[DeviousDave21]

Just wanted to get some male Ler opinions on tickling the same girl. wife, girlfriend, etc. im asking because i tend to get bored after tickling the same girl after 4 or 5 times. i find out everything in that amount of time. likes, dislikes, most ticklish spots, least ticklish spots, different kinds of laughter on different areas etc. after that, it kinda gets old for me. especially when im out and about and see so many hot babes out there to be tickled! my question is....how the hell can anyone be happy and not get bored by tickling the same girl? that boggles my mind. all opinions are welcome.

I think just because you're with a girl doesn't mean you're going to stop noticing other women and that goes for tickling or anything else, but I wouldn't say it would be boring, just not as exciting as it is the first time, but everything is like that.

The important thing is to be faithful and not just think that because it's not as exciting as the first time that it means you need someone or something else because it's just that way with everything, computer games, snowboarding, everything... that's my thoughts anyway lol 😱

 

[jaba]

There's no doubt in my mind that there is somebody for Maniac; and that he will be an ideal mate for her as well.

Maniac's future wife is out there, alright..

Her name is "Stepford"..... 😛

 

[Peace_sign]

You're very specific, which would be understandably hard for you to find that special someone (if you're looking for a monogamous relationship, that is). Only someone who fits the guidelines like a glove will do.

On another note, it's natural people to change their personal standards if they think it's too rigid in looking for someone. Which is why people suggested that Maniac change his outlook; compromise worked for a lot of people.

But Maniac has unique tastes and strictly sticks by them. I don't like to tell people to change if they don't want to. Easing his standards would probably make it easier to find people, but only he would know for sure what he really wants. So I hope he finds that someone.

 

[NorCaliTickle]

My brotha you just haven't found the right one yet....or maybe you aint tickling right hehe

 

[maniactickler]

Maniac's future wife is out there, alright..

Her name is "Stepford"..... 😛

Did you mean Steph?

 

[maniactickler]

My brotha you just haven't found the right one yet....or maybe you aint tickling right hehe

41 years of tickling experience! no issues there. im on my game! 😎

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I actually kind of understand what you mean. From a lee's perspective, I sometimes get a little bored with having the same ler all the time. I am madly in love with my fiance, but tickling isn't a passion for him, so while he enjoys it and tickles me often, i'm familiar with his touch and it's rare that he really takes me to another level. That having been said, aside from fun playful tickles between friends, I'd never go anywhere else for my tickles 🙂

 

[steph]

How did I get brought into this Mister??
XOXO

Did you mean Steph?