tmf personnals suck

[corvettecjb]

I've been posting for a while now, looking for ladies in my area to tickle and have not received one reply. These personals suck !!!!

 

[poopies]

Perhaps you should be patient. Or perhaps you shouldn't re-post the same thing over and over and over. It makes you seem too needy, and impatient, and a bit creepy.

 

[Tick L]

Perhaps you should be patient. Or perhaps you shouldn't re-post the same thing over and over and over. It makes you seem too needy, and impatient, and a bit creepy.

Yeah, exactly. Maybe if just has something to do with YOU and not that 'the personals suck'.

 

[chicago]

Also, the midwest seems to be a bit bereft of women in comparison to other parts of the US.

Like the others have said, patience.

 

[dvnc]

Uh, Ohio has two gatherings. There's also a few other events in that area. Met several folks therein. Michigan's nearby with more, too.

It's just a bitch doin' personals. It's that simple.

 

[chiburbtickler]

Perhaps you should be patient. Or perhaps you shouldn't re-post the same thing over and over and over. It makes you seem too needy, and impatient, and a bit creepy.

Ditto that. Getting upset and throwing a fit about it in the forum isn't gonna get 'em responding to you either. Focus on networking and building friendships with like-minded people and good things will happen (if you're patient! hehe)

~ZD
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[manic971]

You know there are other places to meet people on the TMF than just the Midwest personals section. Try going to the other forums and interacting with people there, I really doubt that a woman with any sense in her head is going to respond to a personal on a fetish forum by a guy who only posts looking for a good time.

The TMF is like a mall where you can go out and find what you're looking for, but you're just throwing penny's into the fountain wishing it will just fall into your lap.

 

[booberrytickle]

I rarely look at this forum, but for some reason was compelled to provide some response to this post. As in any aspect of life, desperation is generally not an attractive trait, nor is the sense of desperation impicit in posts like this likely to elicit a stream of responses. Believe it or not, attempts at normal interaction (whether by PM, posting, chatting, etc) over time are more likely to result in meeting someone. By "normal interaction", I mean something other than starting with "where are you ticklish", "asl?" or "so when can i come tickle you." Getting to actually know someone first will not only ease any sense of apparent desperation, but ultimately get everyone more comfortable and convinced that you're not homicidal, unstable or otherwise trouble. Trust is a good thing, should be mutual and needs to be earned in most cases...if someone trusts you too soon or pushes a meeting without getting to know you as a person, that may even be a sign that it's bad news. In other words, while I thought it was common sense, treating someone with respect and like a human being, rather than just a lump of ticklish flesh for you to play with, can go a long way.