Totally Creeped the Fuck Out

[Jejxenbdujxdbuehcbejdev]

Irreguardlees of what you do, it should never be a "given" that anyone can just come up and do what they think is ok because your in the fetish industry.

 

[Mitchell]

Stranger tickling is something I dont approve of. I'm sure all of us have had opportunities to tickle people if they are in vulnerable positions.

For the record, I have a "thing" for the girl who cuts my hair, and I'm sure there have been plenty of times, over the past couple of years, where I could have snuck a finger in her ribs, pits, or belly, as she was cutting my hair. I didnt do it, ever, so as not to get myself in trouble. I posted a while back about trying to start a tickle conversation with her, and her not taking the bait, but that is totally different. Trying to "bring the conversation" around to tickling, is not the same thing as physically walking up to someone, especially someone you dont know at all, and tickling them.

Not cool. The guy who did that has real problems.

Mitch

 

[babie.styles]

creepy!!

 

[silversurf828]

Touching people who don't know you is 100% creepy. Regardless if he is from the forum, its still not cool to touch others.

 

[Gemini_Tickle]

Tortuga, I'm so sorry that happened to you...what a creep!

It's sad that people view models as property more so than human beings some times...

I don't think I'd tell the boss about your vids and stuff but if he comes back just say that he's been staring at you and grabbed you...

Be Safe...park in a well lit area and don't walk to your car alone...he's probably harmless but it's much better to be safe than sorry.

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

 

[TropicThunder]

That reminds me of this time a guy came up to me at the beach and punched me in the shoulder, and then said "Sorry, I just wanted to touch you."

creepers.

lol. you'll be fine.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Do you have security cameras in the store?

 

[Amnesiac]

This is REALLY fucked up to the third power.

But I agree with those above, you gotta put the kibosh on this fucker tout suite. And who says you have to out yourself? After all, if you don't bring up the "recognized me from a fetish forum", then the only person who CAN is this creepy stalker guy.

And being a creepy stalker guy does NOT add credibility; especially if you just shake your head and act with total disbelief at how fucking crazy he is, nobody will even think once about it. He'll be ejected and you'll be in the clear.

Although I still suggest hiring a Yeti to bury him in the woods somewheres.

 

[asutickler]

Here's the thing that most of you may not have realized....I can't really go up to my Boss and say hey I think this guy recognizes me from a fetish forum and kind of assulted me inappropriately, can we keep an eye out in case it happens again. If he does happen to show up again, I am going to make an effort to approach him in a civil manor; if he does get aggressive I will tell one of managers about the harassment. I'm not really one to be shy about what I'm into, even a few co-workers know and have seen what I've done. But telling my boss about it is a little different, she isn't a very personal person like most of my co-workers.

I'd tell her the truth, but omit some details. Something on the order of: "Hey, there was this creepy motherfucker in here the other day... He kept staring at me, he was acting strangely, and then when I turned my back he snuck up to the counter and touched me! I don't know what the hell his problem is, but it really bothered me." That sets a precedent to have him thrown out if he comes back. It's not like anyone is going to stop to listen to the guy's side of things, because it's irrelevant: He intentionally and repeatedly touched you in a creepy and unwanted manner in the middle of your place of business. There isn't a valid defense (morally or legally) for that sort of behavior.

On the off chance that he starts rambling about fetish videos, just look at him like he's crazy and shrug when people look to you for a response. It'll just give you more ammunition to obtain a restraining order.

 

[Mitchell]

asu has a good point about telling the truth but omitting some details. I remember once I was trying to present the company I used to work in to a former forum member, and, because I didnt want my business partners to know what I was into, I just said the person was from an "Adult chatroom" I belong to.

It doesnt matter where he recognized you from. It isnt right to just walk up to someone, and tickle them. Technically, it's assault. I remember once I was taking a law class. (This is a true story). The female teacher of the class took off her shoes, put her feet up on the desk, and said: "If any of you walked up to me now, and tickled my feet, I could press charges for assault". It isnt like he was a personal friend or acquaintance of yours, who was tickling you to be playful, or fool around. This was a guy who intentionally did an unwanted act.

Hopefully, they can keep an eye on him, in case he comes back again.

Mitch

 

[maniactickler]

asu has a good point about telling the truth but omitting some details. I remember once I was trying to present the company I used to work in to a former forum member, and, because I didnt want my business partners to know what I was into, I just said the person was from an "Adult chatroom" I belong to.

It doesnt matter where he recognized you from. It isnt right to just walk up to someone, and tickle them. Technically, it's assault. I remember once I was taking a law class. (This is a true story). The female teacher of the class took off her shoes, put her feet up on the desk, and said: "If any of you walked up to me now, and tickled my feet, I could press charges for assault". It isnt like he was a personal friend or acquaintance of yours, who was tickling you to be playful, or fool around. This was a guy who intentionally did an unwanted act.

Hopefully, they can keep an eye on him, in case he comes back again.

Mitch

Mitch, you have that law teachers address by any chance?

 

[Mitchell]

LOL, nope, sorry. She lives somewhere in CT or NY. I cant remember if the class that was discussed in was in HS or college. I went to HS in CT, college in NY. Unless she moved, lol.

Mitch

 

[Phineas]

Whoah. Where to begin.

Okay, so, Tortuga... I've read over your story three or four times now, and I can't, for the life of me, find any proof that this guy recognizes you from your fetish videos. All I see is an asshat with no sense of social boundaries trying (and failing) to flirt with a cute clerk.

Honestly, you're assuming a lot, here, thinking that he knows you're a fetish model and is a member of this forum. Vanilla people, creepy or not, use tickling as a form of flirting all the time.

In short, you're making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to being 'outed'. Tell your boss some creeper put his hands on you, and proceed from there. The tickling video thing is not going to become a factor unless you make it one.

I'm sorry it happened to you, though - and, like someone on page 4, I also have to wonder how the noncon/true tales crowd will rationalize this one. After all, how often do we hear that it's no big deal and it really doesn't bother anyone? I remember being told that some people from NEST liked to sneak up behind strangers and tickle them, then say "oh, sorry, I thought you were someone else". Oh, ha, ha, harmless fun, horribly amusing.

Yes, I do realize that context is everything, and this creepy nutter was being stalkerish long before he put his hands on Tortuga, but generally, don't put your hands on a freaking stranger without an invitation. It's not a hard concept to grasp.

 

[Lord Doctor]

Ugh! Working in a shop! People you've never "met" in your life "know" you.... they're either 40 or 10! Partly why I quit working in a shop because all sorts of weird people seem to fall in love with one!

I'll say don't worry unless it becomes a repeated experience, in which case, get him nicked.

 

[Babbles]

Oh, and what at least 2 guys said right above me....

Very sorry to hear that this happened to you. An odd thing is that the true stories section has stories about people doing this to complete strangers like it is no big deal. Well here we hear from the recipient of such an action and we can see it is a big deal. It isn't appropriate to do something like this to a stranger just because you think it is fun or whatever it does for you.

EXACTLY.....

If he comes back kick him in the nuts....Just tell your boss you thought it was a rapist whose picture you saw in the post office...and he touched you so you defended yourself...

If he doesn't apologize at 20 feet, this is the backup plan 😀

Hopefully he's reading this thread and thinking OH SHIT I made a huge mistake but I'll learn from this!!!

One danger of spending too much time on the Internet.

He might be too mortified to approach again, she knows what he looks like, he might be on tape, her coworkers may have seen him in person or on tape ---- And yeah hopefully they'll escort her out...

Really hope he's some harmless dude who wasn't thinking straight. Can't assume that of course, but we can hope.

Do you have security cameras in the store?

It's much safer to publicly assume that she DOES have security cameras 😀 😎

Inside and out. They make 'em even smaller now...

And if she tells her boss there might be a stalker from some dating site or chatroom her boss might PUT them up if they're not already there!!

For that matter --- the boss might have them up and may not have told the employees....

 

[DimpleToes]

If it were me and I found out who it was I sure would nark him out to teach him a lesson and warn other women

 

[Angel_2]

what an asshole, I hope that creep gets his ass kicked

 

[leechmaster]

Reeeaally creepy.

It's so crazy that the chances are pretty high he's currently following this thread.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

I have three things to say...

congrats on being in the top 30 at your store in the USA or whatever you said.. lol

your signature picture is really pretty

Thirdly, and most important, I'm sorry about what that guy did to you. That's not right and he should have his arms broken. No one, guy, or girl, should go up to some stranger, guy, or girl, and touch them, especially if they haven't even said anything to them... You don't know them, don't touch, especially in some way that might appear as sexual and might make them uncomfortable... guys like that make me want to sock them in the face.

 

[Sandisk444]

sorry 🙁 i won't do that anymore...

JOKING wasn't me but that's pretty weird, he's lucky you didn't mace him

 

[Oddjob0226]

On the off chance that he starts rambling about fetish videos, just look at him like he's crazy and shrug when people look to you for a response. It'll just give you more ammunition to obtain a restraining order.

No it won't. Once he starts talking about tickle fetish videos AND the law is involved, someone will get on the net and start doing some research.

"Oh, look, there she is. Yes, that's her! Now I see why he did what he did. Well, since this is what she does, I guess what he did to her wasn't that bad. I bet she really liked it!"

There's a reason so many rape victims in this world don't report what happened to them.

Omitting details to the boss. OK.

Demanding the law serve you but omitting details from a case you got rolling in the first place, not a good idea.

So, no security cameras I'd assume?

 

[Speedbump]

T'was I! Servio Devaggio of Spain!

Did my probing stranger finger not titillate and arouse as one would lead me to believe via online persona?

I am shamed. Truly.

I shall make it up to you! Meet me in the alley behind your shop...

 

[c7_assassin]

Reeeaally creepy.

It's so crazy that the chances are pretty high he's currently following this thread.

That's probably true.

Attention nameless pervert: We hate you. You owe Tortuga an apology. But not in person. Because you are too creepy.

That is all.

 

[Babbles]

Please think before posting folks.

TWO POINTS ---

1. Don't use her name here, the guy may already know it but I DIDN'T --- I've seen her in many, various threads and I've never seen her name until it was used here of all places ----- So maybe he knows it, hopefully not.
And DON'T post here to announce that you saw it somewhere else, if anyone else has made that mistake, ok?

Hopefully he hasn't seen it and won't call up to ask if _____ is working today.
Tomorrow or next year...

2. Don't publicly assume there are no security cameras.
If this guy isn't a somewhat normal shy dude who made a huge mistake,
if he is a total sinister stalker nutjob

Do you REALLY want her to state that there may be no security cameras, in this thread???
PM HER.
Granted I'm sure she's more than bright enough NOT to answer that honestly if there aren't any, but some really bright people have ASKED that question (or given her name) so I'm posting this.

I know all too well myself that anyone can be caught at a tired unthinking moment & divulge a little too much information. Or ask a stupid question.

Unless you already know she has cameras and want her to mention that publicly.

And again even if there aren't security cameras that SHE'S aware of, her BOSS might have them up, to catch employees as well as creepy strangers ----- Or she might just put them up with all this going on ------ and yes I'm stating that (in bold print) for the benefit of whoever may be reading this thread,
------whether harmless oaf or scary nutcase.

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I'll also assume she's watching to make sure the same car isn't behind her all the way home.
Unless it's a <a href="http://www.glitter-graphics.com"><img src="http://dl8.glitter-graphics.net/pub/2062/2062878t3yju1ge85.gif" width=75 height=40 border=0></a>

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[Artoo]

What an utter ****.

It was me.

I wouldn't put it past you, you weird-ass pervert. 😉