Tying up yourself and waiting for your 'ler...

[stampstock]

I don't mean to wave my own feather, but I'm far more creative in bondage than any 'ler I've been with, which so far has sucked, because I'm a 'lee that needs some creative, wild tickling. So recently, as in under last night's moon, I set up the nylon ropes and cuffs, and rigged it so that when I laid down, they only need be secured to my hard as steel body, and I ain't referring to my biceps, no. So there I am, arms completely raised above my head, legs spread and secured in several places, with toe loops nicely in place, knees secured, hips wrapped with ropes holding open my navel, chest wrapped because she knows I'm sensitive there too, elbows together with wrists tied to headboard. Pillows under me kept some really vital parts fully exposed and ready. A blindfold, a gag, and earplugs used later continued to complete the total bondage experience. Now, why couldn't she come up with these things...?
Any thoughts??

 

[sole seeker]

... So there I am, arms completely raised above my head, legs spread and secured in several places, with toe loops nicely in place, knees secured, hips wrapped with ropes holding open my navel, chest wrapped because she knows I'm sensitive there too, elbows together with wrists tied to headboard... blindfold, a gag, and earplugs used later continued to complete the total bondage experience.

Any thoughts??

Yeah, I have one... You'd better pray she shows up! If a neighbor discovers you we'll be reading about you in one of those Oddly Enough news stories I post in the General Forum.

 

[LeeAllure]

I'm sure she could. Perhaps you and she need to have a little
bondage or knot tying class, on each of you, so she knows
what feels comfortable, and what gives her the access she
wants. On the other hand, she may prefer to have you all
free and squirmy. Sometimes that's my favourite way to tickle.

Lee

 

[stampstock]

oh, she was there alright, SS

but I rigged the bed per my desire. And yeah Lee, she does like it when I can move.

 

[DannyMc]

Experience can serve as it's own reward .

 

[Ace Riley]

I think a big issue is OP, that bondage, in itself is a rather daunting experience. As a beginner in bondage, I can tell you while I may 'think' up some preety crazy bondage situations, and have seen many applications in person and in film, it's not exactly something I can just jump into. Especially during an intimate moment, where perhaps she fears that messing up might make something sexy, into something, well, not. 😛

Lee is right, taking the time to practice seperately from the bedroom might definately help get rid of those jitters. 🙂

Also, you describe a preety isolated form of tickling, which although I understand definately has it's kinks, might not be something she enjoys. Does she want that seperation? To sever that visual and audial connection? Maybe she wants to see your reaction to her fingers moving toward you? Perhaps she enjoys hearing you laugh therefore wants no gag. There's alot of different ways to go about it. However only heaven knows what she likes, and so should you. 🙂

 

[stampstock]

Dude I totally know what she likes

I was just referring to what I wanted for once. Something really intense, closed off (something I never experience), a little surreal and not knowing what else is coming and from where. No jitters unless the coffee is regular. Just knowing what I wanted and finally getting it for a change. Totally mutual pleasure. Just a little on the aggressive side this time.

 

[stampstock]

And Sole Seeker,

Yeah, It wouldn't be my finest day when I reflect on a 'When Good Bondage Goes Bad' article of yours when I read how I was hanging from my bedroom window sill when the Murphy bed I was tied to flipped up and threw me out the open window. Tied as I was, there I would be dangling between my floor and the one below, where the hot young lady who rents there happened to be feather dusting her apartment, and noticed my dilemma. Ahh, as luck would have it. Wait, perhaps it WOULD be my finest day.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Anybody else here read Stephen King's "Gerald's Game" ?? 😱 Whoops!

 

[stampstock]

no, what's it about?

Haven't read any of his works since The Stand, I think. Started getting into Dean Koontz.

 

[stampstock]

ok, just read synopsis of said book....

"strange days, indeed," said Lennon. "That would suck if it really happened," said Lincoln.

 

[Iishieboo]

Hehe! I know someone special I know would like that very much! And I plan on tying myself up.

 

[lk70]

Anybody else here read Stephen King's "Gerald's Game" ?? 😱 Whoops!

My mother did. And having my mother describe that scene to me was enough to damage my brain permanently.

 

[steph]

One of my faves. Scared the hell out of me...
XOXO

Anybody else here read Stephen King's "Gerald's Game" ?? 😱 Whoops!

 

[AffectionateDan]

Good, so I'm not the only one who appreciates the potential for disaster with something like this. Safety first, campers!

 

[Helena]

😕 😕 😕 😕 😕 😕
I would be afraid of tying myself up and then not being able to untie myself. What if you are expecting the LER to show up to play, but then something postpones the visit????????????? Then what?????????????
Besides, to really be tied helplessly, I've found it must be done by someone else.

 

[AffectionateDan]

I would be afraid of tying myself up and then not being able to untie myself. What if you are expecting the LER to show up to play, but then something postpones the visit? Then what? Besides, to really be tied helplessly, I've found it must be done by someone else.

Exactly my point. And while you're right about effective bondage, I'm sure at the same time that there are people out there creative enough to get the job done. But still. Yeesh! What if?