Umm.. Lers?

[Em Es]

Communication

Crystal Light:

"What exactly is it about being a Ler that you enjoy?" I think it's just another way of conveying my attraction to and affection for the woman I tickle. Tickling is just part (and for me a big part) of why we touch, which is to communicate.

One may communicate different things via tickling, of course. Some tickle to convey hostility, tickling their 'lee in a cruel way. Others tickle to communicate control, and I think this is common in adults who tickle children.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

It's as simple as causing you to ask....


I like to cause responses. To see where people go. How they think.

With tickling, it's how they respond to a stimuli that they can't place in a box. That forces involentary responses.

How do they attempt to shape it? Add to it? Control it?

How does it seep around their efforts?

What can I cause?

Myriads

MORE ELABORATION

 

[Redmage]

MORE ELABORATION

A big thing for most sensation-oriented Tops (ticklers, sadists, etc.) is the idea of creating reactions in our partners. Knowing that someone is laughing, or squirming, or having an orgasm, or just generally going out of his or her mind because of what we're doing is a major thrill.

 

[Spenser]

As simply as I can state it; ... ... I'm an SM "top" as well, so it followed that I'd drift toward 'ler-ing' when doing tickle play.

> Is it that most Lers have a need or desire to control?

Well, yes, it is a desire to 'control' but it's really considerably more than that, involved with control but in a larger sense.
It's the sort of circular 'dynamic' that sets up between the top and bottom, whether in sm-leather kink, tickling, or any other fetishy related activity.

There is that surrendering of control that the bottom/lee gives over, and with it a shifting of energies which takes place between the top and the bottom. It's the creation of an 'enjoyable' (?!) and creative play scene.

Lots more involved in the various psychologies and individual personalities involved of course; that's also kind of what makes it special.

Spenser

 

[PlayfulCarbonara]

Nothing super psychological here. I simply turn into a complete spaz when I'm being tickled and feel really goofy being like that.

That's all there is to it for me >_>

 

[Cy/MiG]

A big thing for most sensation-oriented Tops (ticklers, sadists, etc.) is the idea of creating reactions in our partners. Knowing that someone is laughing, or squirming, or having an orgasm, or just generally going out of his or her mind because of what we're doing is a major thrill.

That's very well said.

I agree that's a major factor of it.

 

[3xPIN]

I love the chaos that it brings!

 

[Lea28]

In a word: Sensation

When I'm playing LER, I love to tickle lovers / friends if they respond to the sensation of tickling. Squirming, laughing, moaning (like me) and sexual reactions e.g. when a guy gets an amazing erection. The guy I see now is very ticklish, and tickling him while making love (his sides and ribs) makes him much more sexually potent (hard) and that is great forme as a lover and LER. His feet are very ticklish too...

When I am LEE, as mostly I am, I love the sensation as it excites me, and alot of people I have been with really get off when they tickle ME... sides, and feet especially... assumes he / she knows my HOT spots.

So, is it about power or control? Not for me... I really think it's sensation and sex 😉

Lea

 

[Knot Amewzed]

Control

I love the total dominating factor of tickling someone. Yes, of course, laughter is such sweet music to my below-average sized ears; I truly enjoy listening for those magic words "please stop, I will do anything" 😉

I am insanely ticklish, but would never let anyone tickle me for that reason.

 

[BigNorm]

for me, i love touching and tickling feet, the stroke of the feather up and down soles too. all in all, i love making people laugh, no matter the means.

 

[spike246]

not sure

im a ler and a lee tickling the soles of the feet watching them quiver and ssquirm the mindless laghter from a girl the pleading for mercy then being able to dig my fingertips in the girls armpits and sides feeling their whole body squirm. im to nice to tickle someone without stopping but the feet i practically apologize when i tickle as a lee i love the helplessness and have some girl tickle me sort of role playing maybe inerrogation or im their tickle slave.

 

[ikaiyoo]

The best answer to your first question I could find:

I second his response.

 

[NG02]

I like to touch. I'm a very tactile person. I always have been.

I also like to make people laugh. I used to do very bad stand up comedy at talent night in the first grade.

And last I checked, 2 + 2 = 4.

Snail Shell

Yep that def. just about sums up me aswell....all except that whole first grade......shit I was a fucking riot back in those days

Why do I ler? because I love the looks on a lee's face when they know there is no way out, and they will never be the same as they were before we started

Damn you, you silver tongued devil. I love that discription on the inner feelings of us Lers(some of us atleast for the most part).....you didnt just hit the nail on the head....you drove that fucker straight through a wall only using your pinkie finger as only Chuck Norris himself couldve done

 

[Knot Amewzed]

For me the biggest turn on as a ler is getting the big ones, the ones that try to stand strong, love to get them bound make them laugh and sing like girls, and I have my methods - I try to leave no stone unturned. It is such a rush for me, to hear laughter from the big guys. It is also the persistence with the big guys when they are not bound, love surprising and being persistent, love the different sounds guys make (impaler, tommy), then there are the ones that are just too cute for words when tickled (Baldy), then there are the big bears then do this shiver thing when you hit a spot they didn't think they had (Danimal)...ah yes the Ler in me...it is the conquest, the laughter...pure joy, pure evil...

Nice response, J!

 

[Feathery]

What exactly is it about being a Ler that you enjoy?

It can't just be making someone laugh, or can it?

And, for the Lers that are ticklish...BUT prefer strict Lering instead of switching; Why is that?

When I was 5 years old, in kindergarten, I got into a playful tickle fight with a girl in class and was hooked ever since. It's always been a very erotic and sexual turn on for me... why that is, who knows? lol

 

[cutenticklishnc]

re: why?

well I am a switch and just found out about 1 yr ago that I love being a ler too! I think for me it is a power thing/loving to hear a person laugh. There is nothing hotter than listening to a guy beg for you not to tickle them and to stop not sure why! I would love to try tickle play with a girl but haven't found one yet lol....I love playing with a swtich though because whoever goes 1st you know the next one is gonna get revenge hehe.