Unnecessary Rudeness

[Vidian Vixen]

So I havent been a member of this site for very long and already I have encountered some rude folks. Is this normal for this site? I get it.. Im a Pro Domme, Im here for business...and some people may not agree with the reason why Im on this site and thats fine. But there is no need to rude on my threads. If you dont agree, or like what Im doing then please pass over my profile. For those of you who feel like you can be nasty or post unnecessary comments..Im sure you wouldnt say it if we were in the same room. Theres comfort behind a keyboard. If you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all...


And remember Karma is a Bitch...so take care in what you say and put out in the world.

Vididan

 

[milagros317]

Unfortunately, many people do hide behind a keyboard to be rude. This violates the Golden Rule here:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=131566

All rude posts or personal messages should be reported to the Moderators so that they can be dealt with.

Finally, speaking for myself, Pro Dommes are wonderful people and I have spent many happy hours in their company. Don't let the rude people here bother you; there are many fine people here.

 

[asutickler]

It's more the nature of the internet in general than a problem that's just isolated to the TMF.

 

[Adam]

Unfortunately, the TMF has always had its share of instigators. Some periods are calmer than others, but every now and again, it crops up. This site has a massive amount of members of all different viewpoints, but you're absolutely right in saying that it doesn't excuse rudeness. Milagros is spot on when he mentions contacting a moderator if someone gets really out of line. They're all awesome at what they do and take this type of stuff seriously. I am sorry that has been happening. I hope that the occasional troll doesn't ruin your overall view of the place. The vast majority of the regulars are extremely awesome people.

 

[Vidian Vixen]

Thanks for the replies,and i did report the post...

 

[brannyle1981]

Don't let one bad apple spoil the moment for you Vidian

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Well... Unless I saw another post other than the one you marked as rude, I don't think it was rude. Rather a blunt and frank opinion, but I don't think the person was trying to be spiteful.

I think ASU did a good just answering the question. I don't think rudeness is a TMF thing, it is just a thing. It happens everywhere, including on the internet where supposedly everyone likes the same thing. And to be honest, I have been on the receiving and giving end of it at TMF. Sometimes the conversations get a bit heated when people have opposing views.

Whereas some girls and guys may jump at the chance, there are some people who do not agree with what you are doing. People have a right to share their opinion, but they don't have a right to be vicious here. Just like you want them to ignore your profile and keep their opinions to themselves, you have the option of ignoring them too. You may have to do that quite often.

Shrug- viewpoints will be shared here. Some folks are open minded, some are closed minded, and some folks just don't know where their mind is... Don't let them get your goat. (I sound so country LOL).

Just my opinion.
Sunny

 

[hazelf]

I don't think its a thing common to just this site, its typical internet.

Having said that it is quite common when people are new to the site.

Healthy arguements are one thing abuse and bad language is another.

Most females (at one time or another) have had a lot of this not only in pm's, posts ,and threads ,but also in chat.

Your right in what you say they wouldn't do this in real life if they met you.

Don't be put off by this just ignore or report it to the mods.

Most people here are great like someone posted don't let one bad apple spoil it.

Bear it in mind that some people on here have never been on a bdsm site, and are also young (not innocent) but not into the bdsm side of things.

I'am relatively new here but have a few miles on the clock,so welcome and enjoy the site.

"If you are right you can afford to keep your temper,if you are wrong you can't afford to loose it", some have still to learn this hence the rudness.

hazel foster.

 

[solesonface]

I'm used to it from producers myself. Nature of the beast.