Very new girl here.

[sfttklishpits]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

 

[kered]

Hello and welcome!! I would suggest you find someone you can really trust and have them tie you up helpless and see for yourself. That is the only way you can find your answer.

I'm sure the volunteers will be lining up when they read your post. Good luck!

 

[tickler_n_black]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

What you do is email me at [email protected] and we discuss bringing you to Los Angeles and I will then make you a helpless tickle victim for as long as you want.

TIB

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

Welcome aboard hope you have a great time here, we're a cool group. I've been the helpless victim before so i know how you feel, the only difference is I love being tickled to me its awesome feeling

LGF

 

[isabeau]

Hello and welcome!! I would suggest you find someone you can really trust and have them tie you up helpless and see for yourself. That is the only way you can find your answer.

I'm sure the volunteers will be lining up when they read your post. Good luck!

i agree with my big brother here...you must trust completely first..

and welcome aboard..

 

[P[a]pi]

Tell your current boyfriend/husband what you want. And if you don't have either of those, work on getting a boyfriend who will tie you up and tickle you. It's sexy, fun shit haha.

 

[NavelTickler75]

Welcome, I suggest you read some posts, stories, watch some vids, maybe talk to your friends boyfriend, girlfriends whatever you like and have them experiment on you for a bit, just a couple of minutes at a time, until you build up enough enjoyment, or perhaps love for it you can last a long time.

 

[aun_existe_amor]

Hello and welcome 🙂

 

[kilitiinko1]

Welcome to the TMF!!!

Hello,Sfttklishpits,and welcome aboard! This is a wonderful place,filled with some fantastic people,and something for everyone! Look around and enjoy yourself! As a `lee myself,I have to agree with Kered.It`s scary to give up control when you haven`t done it before,so it is very important to know and trust your tickler before you submit.Take your time,and know what you want,and you will be able to find someone you trust to take care of you!

Good luck,and enjoy yourself here!

 

[sfttklishpits]

You are so nice!

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

 

[Mitchell]

Hi sfttklishpits,

I'm Mitch. Welcome to the forum. I'm a 37 year old White Male. I've been a TMF member for four and a half years. This is a great site.
Enjoy the forum. Hope we can chat or message at some point.

Mitch

 

[isabeau]

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

yesssssssssssssssssss you will love it...take it from a lee...lol...

 

[kilitiinko1]

Oh,Yes!!!!!

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

Believe it or not,it is quite a thrill to submit to a good tickling! I`ll do it every chance I get!

 

[kered]

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

Only if you want to like it. It's all up to you.

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, sfttklishpits, and congratulations on making your first posts. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

As a new woman member, you will undoubtedly get many PM's from guys willing to accomodate you.

 

[Feathery]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

Ummmm... Can I buy you a drink?

 

[kered]

Hello and welcome!! I would suggest you find someone you can really trust and have them tie you up helpless and see for yourself. That is the only way you can find your answer.

I'm sure the volunteers will be lining up when they read your post. Good luck!

The last part was an admittedly poor warning to the lady that her pm box will soon be full and to be careful.

 

[Mimi]

Welcome to the forum! I hope you'll find the answers you seek and maybe even a good friend and trustworthy ler that may help you with your first experience here!

 

[P[a]pi]

sfttklishpits - Well, yeah you could like it. My girlfriend loves it, and I like it. There are different levels of tickling too. Like for your first time, you should tell your ler not to tickle the shit out of you. And if you like it light and soft, then keep doing it, and then maybe tell your ler to be hard and rough if you want to check that out.

But of course, if you try both ways and you don't like it, then I guess you aren't a lee.

My girlfriend likes it hard and rough.

 

[Myriads]

Hello sfttklishpits,

Welcome to the TMF. It seems the members have offered good advice, so I'll add nothing other then that I hope you enjoy the forum.

Myriads

 

[SpiffyTickler]

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

That really depends. If you were to do a tickle session with yourself as a lee, I would say that it should be more on the playful side rather than serious tickle torture.

If someone goes all out on you when it's your first time they are likely to overdo it and turn you off to the whole idea for a long time. You should be gradually introduced to it and then you can see where you want to go from there.

Is there a reason why you want to experiment with the lee side of things?

The last part was an admittedly poor warning to the lady that her pm box will soon be full and to be careful.

Ya, you're probably going to get PM's from a lot of guys wanting to meet up. If I were you though I would go to one of the forum meets that take place every few months around the Bay Area. I've personally never been to one, but I hear they are great and you're prettymuch guaranteed to be in good company. I believe that Bagelfeather is the one in charge of the meets.

 

[maniactickler]

Thank you all. But could I really like it?

Yes you could. you can trust me.

 

[MaxSpeer]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

Come to NEST this year and we can make your dreams come true. 🙂

 

[Merciless1]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

Find yourself a tickler and be the victim.

M1

 

[cpr1815]

I am very new to all this. The thing is that I have always been the ler, not the lee. I can't even stand being tickled. Now that is all I can think about. Being the helpless victim of someone...

What do I do?

Pretty much do what others have suggested. Find a partner you can trust and try out your interests.....