Vids for beginners

SpiritBomber · Jan 10, 2017

Hello TMF community! I seek your wisdom in a certain matter. I have a lady friend whom I have been chatting with online, and we've been hitting it off pretty well. We both live in the same area, have some mutual friends, etc but we've been taking things very slow, as per her comfort level. We've... *ahem* played a few times, through text, and I'm hoping to set up an irl meeting sometime in the near future, fingers crossed. We've discussed a few intimate things, and she has shared with me a few of the kinkier things that she's into. I however, haven't discussed with her the things that I'm into or would like to try, mostly because I want to be sure she's comfortable with the ways things are going and with me before I start introducing something new and foreign to her.

Admittedly I have subtly approached the subject a few time. I have brought up tickling in a playful way, and she didn't totally reject the idea, only telling me that she might scream loudly and how she is really ticklish(music to my ears lol). I managed to steer the conversation to her feet once, still don't know how I pulled it off without her thinking I'm weird lol. Unfortunately, she claims to hate her feet and would wear socks if we ever hung out irl. Which kind of sucks, but maybe she will change her mind in the future, you never know.

HERE'S MY QUESTION. For anyone who doesn't want to go through all the backstory. I do plan to express my 'interests' to her, if our relationship does reach the point of irl intimacy. And one way I've heard people in this community have eased their partners into these interests is to show them some videos, so they can see some of what it's like. I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions for videos that would be good to show her so she can wrap her mind around it better. Nothing too harsh, some videos that maybe showed the fun side of tickling, something that might spark her interest.

And if is actually a terrible idea, that would never actually work in a million years, feel free to say that too lol. Although I'm hoping this is a plausible idea for the future. Plus, even if something happens and she and I don't reach a point where I could introduce her to this, at least this could be a useful resource for other people looking to introduce their loved ones to tickling.

Wolf · Jan 10, 2017

Telling her, once you've decided this is someone you think should know, is most important. Then, if you really feel the need to show her videos, SimplyTickling, All Art Fetish, and FrenchTickling (early stuff first, with lighter bondage) would be my suggestions.

Comfort Eagle · Jan 10, 2017

My stuff is pretty tame and features a lot of first time 'girl next door' types trying it for the first time, maybe her watching someone experience it as something new and enjoying it might sway her;

http://www.piedmontlaughriot.com/video

TicklishTklr66 · Jan 10, 2017

Wolf and Comfort Eagle have the right ideas of the direction you can take. Good luck with things!

Wolf · Jan 10, 2017

Comfort Eagle said:
My stuff is pretty tame and features a lot of first time 'girl next door' types trying it for the first time, maybe her watching someone experience it as something new and enjoying it might sway her;

http://www.piedmontlaughriot.com/video

Oh, yeah... forgot about your work, CE, my apologies! Definitely the same kind of material as the ones I mentioned.

duderino84 · Jan 10, 2017

SpiritBomber said:
Hello TMF community! I seek your wisdom in a certain matter. I have a lady friend whom I have been chatting with online, and we've been hitting it off pretty well. We both live in the same area, have some mutual friends, etc but we've been taking things very slow, as per her comfort level. We've... *ahem* played a few times, through text, and I'm hoping to set up an irl meeting sometime in the near future, fingers crossed. We've discussed a few intimate things, and she has shared with me a few of the kinkier things that she's into. I however, haven't discussed with her the things that I'm into or would like to try, mostly because I want to be sure she's comfortable with the ways things are going and with me before I start introducing something new and foreign to her.

Admittedly I have subtly approached the subject a few time. I have brought up tickling in a playful way, and she didn't totally reject the idea, only telling me that she might scream loudly and how she is really ticklish(music to my ears lol). I managed to steer the conversation to her feet once, still don't know how I pulled it off without her thinking I'm weird lol. Unfortunately, she claims to hate her feet and would wear socks if we ever hung out irl. Which kind of sucks, but maybe she will change her mind in the future, you never know.

HERE'S MY QUESTION. For anyone who doesn't want to go through all the backstory. I do plan to express my 'interests' to her, if our relationship does reach the point of irl intimacy. And one way I've heard people in this community have eased their partners into these interests is to show them some videos, so they can see some of what it's like. I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions for videos that would be good to show her so she can wrap her mind around it better. Nothing too harsh, some videos that maybe showed the fun side of tickling, something that might spark her interest.

And if is actually a terrible idea, that would never actually work in a million years, feel free to say that too lol. Although I'm hoping this is a plausible idea for the future. Plus, even if something happens and she and I don't reach a point where I could introduce her to this, at least this could be a useful resource for other people looking to introduce their loved ones to tickling.

No guts no glory. just say it. if she's not repulsed, show her something casual. ..Magic Touch didn't really go insane with tickling and was pretty straightforward. Maybe pick a tickling paradise clip if you're feeling riskier?

you're spending time talking to someone who runs the risk of not being how you think, and I think you'll end up a lot happier if you just clear the air. you've discussed sexuality, there's no reason you shouldn't be expressing yourself.

tickletherapist · Jan 10, 2017

SpiritBomber said:
Hello TMF community! I seek your wisdom in a certain matter. I have a lady friend whom I have been chatting with online, and we've been hitting it off pretty well. We both live in the same area, have some mutual friends, etc but we've been taking things very slow, as per her comfort level. We've... *ahem* played a few times, through text, and I'm hoping to set up an irl meeting sometime in the near future, fingers crossed. We've discussed a few intimate things, and she has shared with me a few of the kinkier things that she's into. I however, haven't discussed with her the things that I'm into or would like to try, mostly because I want to be sure she's comfortable with the ways things are going and with me before I start introducing something new and foreign to her.

Admittedly I have subtly approached the subject a few time. I have brought up tickling in a playful way, and she didn't totally reject the idea, only telling me that she might scream loudly and how she is really ticklish(music to my ears lol). I managed to steer the conversation to her feet once, still don't know how I pulled it off without her thinking I'm weird lol. Unfortunately, she claims to hate her feet and would wear socks if we ever hung out irl. Which kind of sucks, but maybe she will change her mind in the future, you never know.

HERE'S MY QUESTION. For anyone who doesn't want to go through all the backstory. I do plan to express my 'interests' to her, if our relationship does reach the point of irl intimacy. And one way I've heard people in this community have eased their partners into these interests is to show them some videos, so they can see some of what it's like. I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions for videos that would be good to show her so she can wrap her mind around it better. Nothing too harsh, some videos that maybe showed the fun side of tickling, something that might spark her interest.

And if is actually a terrible idea, that would never actually work in a million years, feel free to say that too lol. Although I'm hoping this is a plausible idea for the future. Plus, even if something happens and she and I don't reach a point where I could introduce her to this, at least this could be a useful resource for other people looking to introduce their loved ones to tickling.

You can totally consider Tickle Therapy videos from our youtube channel. There are real interviews where the ladies explain what it's like to try tickle therapy. As well as outtakes from the sessions. There are many short clips and they are free. Search Playlists section because not all videos are public.
Remember that tickle therapy is indeed healthy and fun. So why not try it together?
You should keep that in mind and don't listen to those who will tell you that tickling is something pornographic, superkinky and dark. Tickling is pure fun, healthy and rad, and if you have this mindset, if you believe in it and don't lie, your partner will feel that you want to bring something good and worth giving it a try. Happy tickles!

Comfort Eagle · Jan 10, 2017

tickletherapist said:
You can totally consider Tickle Therapy videos from our youtube channel. There are real interviews where the ladies explain what it's like to try tickle therapy. As well as outtakes from the sessions. There are many short clips and they are free. Search Playlists section because not all videos are public.
Remember that tickle therapy is indeed healthy and fun. So why not try it together?
You should keep that in mind and don't listen to those who will tell you that tickling is something pornographic, superkinky and dark. Tickling is pure fun, healthy and rad, and if you have this mindset, if you believe in it and don't lie, your partner will feel that you want to bring something good and worth giving it a try. Happy tickles!

Actually yeah, I think you'd be the perfect example of "introduction tickling".

tickletherapist · Jan 12, 2017

Comfort Eagle said:
Actually yeah, I think you'd be the perfect example of "introduction tickling".

Yep. The main mission of Tickle Therapy was motivational from the plot. To encourage everyone to tickle each other. Just like in the interview of Masha Fox. Here it is btw, ain't it a nice intruduction?