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Wake up call-youth means nothing

Mitchell

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I have already told some of you about my doctor's visit yesterday, and I originally wasnt planning to post on it, but, since the discussion came up in the chat room, I figured, what the heck.
I went for a physical yesterday, which was my first one in five years. It is eerie how one can have a sense about things. I have gained a lot of weight in the nearly six years I've lived in Lancaster, and really used to eat terribly. Well, yesterday, during my physical, I received a real slap in the face, and wake up call. I was diagnosed with high blood pressure. I had a feeling before I went in for my appointment yesterday morning that something was going to be up, and I was right. The first reading that the nurse took for me when I entered the office was 150 over 100, which truly sent me through the roof. Then, after the doctor came in and examined me, he took the pressure again himself and came up with a reading of 120 over 94, which is still high. He put me on a low dosage of blood pressure meds for a month, and ordered me to give up all fried foods, and regular soda. I can still have diet soda, and eat chinese food once a week, Thank God, but Iam going to have to change my lifestyle, and lose weight. I currently weigh 197 pounds, and need to get down to 180-185. He said the thing I have going for me is that I dont drink alcohol at all, or use tobacco, so if I lose the weight, and watch myself, I should be okay.
I wanted to post this to not only tell my story, but to appeal to the forum as a whole. Even though we are young, age means nothing, my cousin has high blood pressure and bad cholestorol, and he is 18. He's been watching himself, and it's improving. To put it mildly, I was arrogant about my health. While I didnt smoke or drink, and never have, I'd eat the fried foods, and consume gallons of regular soda, and be like:" Fuck it, I'm young, people my age dont get it, I'll watch it in my 40s." Yesterday was a very sobering experience for me. From now on, Iam going to eat a bunch of baked chicken and turkey, and have salad with no fat dressing, and yougurt. The Dr didnt take my cholestorol, but he claimed it didnt matter, because once he saw the blood pressure was high, he knew I had to change.
So, I will be fine. At first I was shaken, and upset, but I realize Iam young enough to change my habits, so I can lead a clean life. Losing 10 to 15 pounds shouldnt be too hard, especially with the diet I'm going to have to eat. Heart Disease and Stroke runs rampant in my family, but, despite my young age, catching it early could hopefully be the key to a long life. My message to all forum members, get healthier, and exercise, which I plan to do more of, because no matter how young we are or how invincible we think we are, or that we have a long time to go, a problem can creep up to make us realize how life is. I dont mean to post this to sound depressing, because I'm not depressed about this, more so sobered up, and happy that I caught it early to be able to change my life, before a more serious health issue develops for me.

Mitch
 
Thanks for sharing Mitchell. I hope you can nip this problem in the bud.
Your optimism is contagious. I will do my best to lose weight and get healthier too.
😀
 
I always tell my patients "if you're really quiet and bother to listen, your body talks to you..."
Sorry to hear it Mitch, but glad you caught it early!

XOXO

Mitchell said:
It is eerie how one can have a sense about things.
 
Thanks hon~it's true! I had a patient the other day, he came to the ER because he "didn't feel right." Turns out he was diabetic all this time, they ended up amputating his WHOLE LEG!😱 25 YEARS OLD!

Sorry Mitch~back on topic!😛
XOXO
 
I just need to get in shape and maybe lose 5-15 pounds or
put that much in muscle on.
I figure 30 minute walks 3-5 days a week should help. 😉 🙂
😀
 
Good Luck Rajee, and thank you, Steph. This is the first time in my life I ever remember checking fat and carb content while buying food at the market, which I did today. I'll have to do that from now on.
Raj, I have to be optimistic. Usually, I can get down in a case like this, and feel negative. I cant do that here. I have a terrible fear of getting old, long term sickness, and death, so my plan is to push myself and do what the doctor says in my 30s, to hopefully avoid heart or other trouble in my 50s or 60s like my relatives had, or an early demise.

Mitch
 
I know what you mean Mitch. I went through a high blood pressure problem as well. I had to take atenelol (sp?) for about a year. My problem is that everything I was raised eating is southern fried cooking. Everything is cooked with fat, grease, tons of butter. And I friggin' love it.

My other problem is that I truly love steak. Steak steak and more steak. I could problably be very content hanging out in the pasture gnawing on a cow's ass all day with brief interludes of tickle play, then back to cow ass gnawing.

I was told to eat more healthy veggies. Well, my argument was, cows eat grass, I eat cows.. doesn't that count? apparently not. The doc wasn't very impressed with my logic anyway.

I'm with ya man...
 
Yeah, we all need to be concious about taking care of our bodies as well as paying attention to our genetics. The key is to try to take care of our problems before they even surface.

Thanks for the message Mitch, it is something that we all need to keep in mind.
 
A few weeks ago, my doc told me that my latest lab showed my Hemoglobin A1C to be 11.8, my snapshot glucose reading was 368, and my triglycerides were up around 965, along with an LDL of 255. In udder woids, if my blood were a river, you could literally walk across it. He told me that if I didn't change my lifestyle, and soon, I'd be in a permanent horizontal position.
After I left his office, I went to the McDonalds down the street, and pondered it all over two Big Macs and fries, thinking that I might as well enjoy this stuff, since the days of reckless abandon were over. I gave myself a week of the usual gastronomic hedonism before I got started with the new diet, consisting of far more veggies and far less carbs. I also went on new meds. Since then, I've lost twelve pounds, and have to bring my belt down to the next loop hole. Once a week, I give myself what I call a "guilty pleasure" meal, consisting of, well, guilty pleasures. I'm down now to 193 pounds, which was the weight I was before I gave up smoking back in '90. I'm not even gonna think of my goal, I'm gonna just take it easy and get used to the new lifestyle and the exercise and everything else. Life is interesting...
 
Here is an idea for watching what you eat that I like to follow. On the weekends, I eat whatever the heck I feel like. And after you see the results of what your hard work does you even find yourself making smarter choices on those days that you don't have to. It works for me. Rewards me for the hard work I've done and contrary to popular belief it does NOT wreck your diet. In fact, studies have shown that by varying the number of calories you consume every now and then (i.e. having a couple of days a week that you eat a little more) it helps to keep your metabolism up. Hopes this helps and inspires you guys!
 
I'm Happy for you my friend, and a bit jealous! LOL! 193? You're less than Iam. By the time I get finished with this diet to lower my pressure, I need to be 185 or less. Seriously, I'm thrilled for you that your diet is going well. The last 36 hours has made me realize the important of good health.
Take care, and be well.

Mitch
 
My parents gifted me with an amazing liver that produces cholesterol in the 500 range without medications to check it. With the strongest possible meds science has come up with at this date and time, I'm still over 200.

On the other hand, I also got to stay up late and watch Saturday Night Live and Johnny Carson. You win some, you lose some.
 
I did the pre-emptive bit

I'm only 25 (envy me! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!), and I've already tossed out most of my youthful dietary habits; my official excuse is that I came to my senses and took charge of my body for self respect...but the truth was when I found out what kind of HHHOOORRRIBLE malfunctions that can happen with a bad diet in later years. Sorry, but the day I need a colostomy bag or a feeding tube is the day when I won't want one.

And I used to be as bad as Dragon: between 1996 and 1999 I ate at McDonalds an average of 3-4 times a week...yeah, try to wrap your brain around THAT shit! After anxiety problems caused me to lose 24lbs, I took stock of what else was going wrong with me, I found out that cholesterol collected like limestone in my arteries, salt drove your blood pressure through the roof and caffeine messed up your sleeping schedule (and NOBODY fucks with my sleeping dammit!)

So, starting in 1999, I cut down on salt as much as possible (and I used to use 3 packets of it with dinner); I cut out caffeine completely in 2002; I go to McDonalds once a month on average, and I eat deli turkey sandwiches for breakfast as opposed to bacon and the like.

Diabetes was thanfkully, one thing I never had to worry about; I've been drinking diet soda literally my whole life and can't stand the regular stuff. Of course, now that I know that aspartame turns into formaldehyde when it metabolizes, I've had to cut back on Diet 7-up to 1-1.5 cans a day, and THAT IS NOT EASY, not to mention that there's no telling what side effects the synthetic sugars and preservatives have had on my kidneys or organs over the last 24 years; but I can at least try to reverse it while I can.

The only reason why I don't work out is because, like everyone on my father's side of the family, I'm too obsessive to do things half-way; I can't work out because I can't take the time off work to dedicate as much of my time as I can to exercise, and professional atheletes can exercise up to 4 hours a day, every day, and until I can afford to take that much time for myself, I'm gonna be a lanky stick of lard for a while.

I know that regiment sounds a bit extreme, but my aunt, a smoker for 30 years, has not only quit, but gone on a strictly vegetarian diet and has brough her cholesterol down to 77...beat THAT! Now if she can do that at...*cough*[undisclosed age]*cough*, then who knows what I can do at mine, especially if I go hardcore?

By the way, for anybody here who does work out, any tips on how you set up your schedules?
 
Hey Amnesiac... 7-up uses sucralose in their beverages to replace most of the aspartame. You picked a good one. Just thought I'd make you feel a bit better. I'm a diet soda junkie as well... and I also made the huge jump to give up caffeine about six months ago. Although I DO admittedly allow myself one Diet Coke when I get to work at 2:30pm but I can deal with that. 😀
 
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