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What Attracts You To The Opposite Sex?

Talent. Of almost any kind. Artistic, scientific, mathematical, I don't care; if she can do something well, I'm putty. I seriously think this is a fetish unto itself. Physically, auburn hair and blue eyes are yummy.
 
For me, it's the eyes and smile. They give me more of a first impression about personality than anything else. I can tell if a person is inherently genuine, down to earth, has a temper, if they are intelligent, wise, insightful. Or if they aren't, in which case I am not attracted, no matter how 'hot' the girl looks.

That's pretty much what it is for me too. Her eyes and smile tell me who she is and if I'm attracted to her I'll try to make conversation. Whether she's 'hot' or not means nothing. I prefer a plain girl in a t-shirt and ponytail/with her hair down over anything.
 
Looks wise, there is nothing in particular that attracts me to a woman...I've dated women who look nothing alike. I have a thing for redheads, despite the fact that I have never dated one (to my eternal regret), but red hair on a woman will get my attention MUCH quicker than blonde hair.

For me it's all about personality. I've come to the realization that I love the nerd-chicks! I can talk with them and they can hold my attention the entire time...I LOVE that! If I make some obscure comic book reference, and she gets it, I'm sold!
 
It's always interesting to see what different aspects of beauty people have? There are so many different reasons to be attracted, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I just wondered what do YOU find to be beautiful and attractive in the opposite, or even same sex :redheart:

Is it true that men nowadays really do reach to aim for that supermodel type persona found in the magazines, with orange-tanned skin, bleached hair, blinding white teeth, and fake boobs?

Or do you find a girl in nothing but a tshirt, a ponytail and no makeup more attractive?

I just like seeing everyone's opinions, so please let me know!

-Perse :wub:


orange tan all the way. preferably fake nails. re: boobs, the faker the better :yarr:
 
Quite honestly, it starts with overall attitude. I've met some really physically attractive females who turned out to be really ugly as it comes to personality. That's my #1 turn-off. Looks help, but kindness towards your fellow man/woman is a must.
 
For me it's all about personality. I've come to the realization that I love the nerd-chicks! I can talk with them and they can hold my attention the entire time...I LOVE that! If I make some obscure comic book reference, and she gets it, I'm sold!

Yeeeaaahhh , I'm relatin' pretty good to this one , too.
 
Lots of stuff, really, like folks have already mentioned, but once in a while, there's something that just triggers part of my brain to say, "You must draw this person. Here's how." Usually inspiration to draw someone -- even just a sketch or something -- is an indicator of some basic level of attraction.

So, "musehood", I guess.

^ Interesting actually!!!

How many times I have done rough portrait sketches of people I met in real life... I do them by impulse and not because of attraction. It was one of the most fulfilling task.

In your case, it is something else. That I can understand with depth. I have dreamed of someone and have drawn the face in the past.

In my recent travel, I accidentally met 2 diplomat nuns in a social event. They were in their 60's with solitude in the face I find so inspiring & beautiful. After, they invited me in their place to judge some arts... then just as that I asked them for a minute to pose for a portrait sketch. They enjoyed it so much and they said they will cherish my gesture. I was so happy.

Basically I do that to people who have done me special favor or spark of inspiration and not because of attraction. I just think it is a tribute.
 
It's always interesting to see what different aspects of beauty people have? There are so many different reasons to be attracted, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I just wondered what do YOU find to be beautiful and attractive in the opposite, or even same sex :redheart:

Is it true that men nowadays really do reach to aim for that supermodel type persona found in the magazines, with orange-tanned skin, bleached hair, blinding white teeth, and fake boobs?

Or do you find a girl in nothing but a tshirt, a ponytail and no makeup more attractive?

I just like seeing everyone's opinions, so please let me know!

-Perse :wub:

In regards to the bleach blondes living up here during our Wisconsin Winters, I have one reply:

This isn't sunny fucking Florida. You're not fooling anybody.
 
I may be a gaymo, but I still appreciate a good gentlemen when I find one. 😀 And there are plenty of 'em out there, too. :redheart: ^^
 
I may be a gaymo, but I still appreciate a good gentlemen when I find one. 😀 And there are plenty of 'em out there, too. :redheart: ^^

I was wondering how you were gonna go about answering this thread. 😛
 
I may be a gaymo, but I still appreciate a good gentlemen when I find one. 😀 And there are plenty of 'em out there, too. :redheart: ^^

Like me! 😀

.......What'd you mean no? Well forget you then!
 
I have always been attracted to short women. My wife is 4'11'' with dark air and blue eyes. Someone that has a great attitude is crucial. Ticklish is also a neccessity. Being naturally pretty and cute are also a plus too. :wavingguy
 
I find it hard to believe that everyone is just searching for inner beauty. Sure personality matters, but I can put up with a lot if she's hot enough. A wise man Demetri Martin once said, there is a direct correlation between how hot a girl is to how long your willing to hear her talk about her cat. Or something.

But on the realz, I love me some scene/emo chicks. Something about skinny jeans, converse shoes, and "elegantly disheveled" hair just does it for me.
 
Personality is the key with me. Many flaws will be overlooked due to a winning personality. 😀
 
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