What DON'T you like about M/M tickling? (a discussion)

[Cosmo_ac]

Read about the subject. It's pretty much common knowledge amongst psychologists and sociologists who study sex behavior and homosexuality.

When i have some time i might just do that.

It follows from the sheer number of bisexual women, vs. the number of bisexual men. Go on any alt. sex website. The number of women who report their sexual orientation as bisexual is very high. So high that, statistically speaking, either a goodly number of them are lying, or the generally accepted stats on female bisexuality are way off. The number of men who report their sexual orientation as bisexual? NOT so many.

Alt.Sex websites? Unless i'm mistaken, are those not porn sites? I think i've seen a few of those sites, and if they are indeed porn sites, i would think that would make them highly suspect. Also, as for the number of men who report themselves as bisexual being lower then women, are you really surprised? Lets face it, in this culture female bisexuality and homosexuality is greatly more accepted then male homosexuality and bisexuality. This can probably be most obviously noticed in (What else) porn. I've not watched a great deal of porn, but if i had to guess a number i'd say somewhere between 30-40 different videos in my 25 years of life. Not a great deal, granted. But something i've noticed is that in every single one, there was a f/f sex scene, or multiple. However, i have never once seen a m/m sex scene. The closest thing would be a three way with two guys, who never really get into any serious male on male sex. the closest thing i've seen is two guys fuck a girl in the same hole at once (ouch!).

For males Bisexuality of homosexuality seems to carry a stigma with it. Female bisexuality and homosexuality are much more welcome in our society.

Do you believe that we should be past the prejudices, or do you believe that we should be past allowing people with prejudices to have a say in the matter?

I'm a strong believer in freedom of speach, and while i might not like what a person say's i will defend the right to say it. However, if what a person says seems to be completely based on ignorance (Ie, All black people are thieves) then i'm deffinitly going to Address it. Sadly, most predjudices are based on ignorence it seems. People are are to express there predjudices, but in return i'm allowed to point out what i see that is wrong with their view.

 

[tickler_n_black]

Cosmo my man.
What is it that you don't like about M/M tickling?

If nothing, then you're in the wrong thread, again.
Please adhere to Myriads 3 times in this thread asking people to stay on topic.

Either tell us why think M/M tickling is not your thing ... or go to the pro M/M thread.

Thanks.

 

[tickler_n_black]

Wendy n Peter, would you also please stay on topic? (Why you DON'T like m/m tickling videos) or just simply start another thread about the discussion of gay men and women. Thanks man. 🙂

 

[SillyMan]

I have read this thread with interest. It ends up with a discussion off-topic in my opinion.

But I would like to share my thoughts.

I myself don't like watching */M at all, and because of this thread I have to think about why. Well, a lot here says it looks gay and women looks better and have a better laugh.

I can share these feelings pretty much, but the question is, as it has been put: what happened with tickling 4 fun? Well, a woman is a better lee also for fun because of the more cute laugh.

I am both ler and lee, and being the lee I wouldn't have a male tickle me. I guess the reason is, that I have bad tickling experiences about that, it was used as part of mobbing at school. Even at that age I could feel the difference between the male mobbers way of tickling and my female cousins way of doing it.

Well, when being the ler I hope I do it like my cousin lol

 

[tku]

The reason I do not like M/M is very simple. 99.9% of the time, tickling is sexual to me and I am a heterosexual male...there really is nothing else to it. I was not afraid to question my sexuality growing up, but I have never had bi/homosexual urges...it's just not the way I was made. I am certainly not a bigot and I'm sure a great many people enjoy M/M for their own reasons, but personally I wouldn't tickle a man or watch a man being tickled anymore than I would give a man a handjob

I don't like F/M because watching or percieving men being dominated repulses me...feel free to psychologically diagnose me as you wish, it won't change a thing and you will probably be way off the mark

It's really very hard to describe in detail why we like/dislike certain things like this, I think that a lot of the time it's just an inherent part of our core...which is why people can get so defensive about it.

Thanks for bringing this topic up TIB, I quite like analysing deep rooted facets of my personality..."If you dont question you will never get any worthwhile answers" 🙂

 

[mike273273]

I think the main reason why I don't really like m/m is because when I watch tickling clips, I usually like to imagine that is me being tickled. As I am a straight male, I do not like being tickled by guys so I therefore do not like watching these clips as I would not imagine the male tickler tickling me. It is the same with m/f, I do not watch those clips either. I only watch f/m or f/f. Even with f/f I can imagine the female tickler tickling me, even if she is tickling a female. My favourite form of tickling is f/m though as it is much easier to imagine the tickler tickling me.

 

[tickles]

I think you are right Mike. It is about the fantasy. As a female lee, I really have no desire to tickle a male or see my big strong hot ler being reduced to giggly mess...

...but that's just me and my fantasy.

 

[Cy/MiG]

To answering the OP as easily as possible:

1. [On Average] Men have too much hair. Even if I could get over the sexual aspect of tickling, seeing a hairy man getting tickled wouldn't work on any level. I'd be like, 'why is that dude tickling a bear?'
2. Women have better laughs. Higher pitched, squealy, etc. I can't stand most dudes laughs as is, so hearing them get tickled???
3. Women have breasts. When they laugh, they jiggle. It adds to the whole experience. (Which is actually funny, becuase it's honestly something I didn't notice or acknowledge until I was like---17+ years old. D'oh!)

I also agree with ManiacTickler (never thought I'd type that! 😀) on his post back on page 1.

Perhaps me being a male and/or having spent sufficient amount of time hanging out with other dudes has made it clear to me just how disgusting they are.

 

[fightinggirl666]

The fact that two hot guys might be tickling each other and I'm not involved 😀

 

[mike273273]

but fightinggirl666, at least you get to see ticklish guys! Maybe even 2! Even better since you are not ticklish there is always the chance one day you can storm in one of their videos, overpower them both and tickle them! Or you can hope to do so at least! What is great about that is those two guys can't tickle you back as you claim you aren't ticklish!

 

[rhiannon]

I don't like m/m, I don't like f/f. For me, sexual activity has to include a guy and a girl. And tickling is sexual activity for me. 🙂

I also don't like f/m though because I think submissive men are a total turn-off.

 

[leafstk]

I don't like m/m, I don't like m/f. For me, sexual activity has to include a guy and a girl. And tickling is sexual activity for me. 🙂

I also don't like f/m though because I think submissive men are a total turn-off.

Wait, what? THis means you strictly like f/f!!

LOL, j/k 😉 Personally, I don't like and probably will never like m/m, regardless of sexual orientation of those involved. It doesn't mean I think all those that like it must be gay or anything like that, it's just not something that I care for or wish to see or experience. Fair enough?

That said, I do find it tiresome the lack of maturity we witness on this board whenever someone who DOES like it posts something for tothers who enjoy it too. Just lay off and let them enjoy it already, right? I mean, there's a "Myriad" of other twists to this fetish we see and hear about on here every day that could be called a lot more bizarre... to each their own I say 😀

Oh! And also, I happen to enjoy F/M... material wise and certainly in r/l. Does that make me a weirdo? I hope so

 

[Red faction]

im not really the biggest fan of m/m tickling
not my cup of tea

 

[c7_assassin]

I suppose for the same reason I don't watch m/m porn.

 

[fightinggirl666]

I don't like m/m, I don't like m/f. For me, sexual activity has to include a guy and a girl. And tickling is sexual activity for me. 🙂

I also don't like f/m though because I think submissive men are a total turn-off.

I agree with you love, submissive guy in f/m is NO FUN. But a guy who fights and will taunt me back well pure heaven!

 

[fightinggirl666]

but fightinggirl666, at least you get to see ticklish guys! Maybe even 2! Even better since you are not ticklish there is always the chance one day you can storm in one of their videos, overpower them both and tickle them! Or you can hope to do so at least! What is great about that is those two guys can't tickle you back as you claim you aren't ticklish!

Exactly! Of course through if they were tickling each other they may have no interest in me at all (cute as I am) 😛 so maybe it wouldn't work out so good 😀

 

[john getty]

Here is a thread dedicated to a specific subject.
Let's try and find out exactly WHY many people do not like M/M tickling clips.
There has to be reasons why many feel this way.
Let's get to the heart of the matter.

Give your input, but be civil about it.
Don't insult or name call. Just calmly explain yourself.

NOTE: This thread is intended ONLY for people who DO NOT like M/M tickling, and is a place for them to dig deep down and tell us why.

I think many of us can learn something from such a discussion.

Thanks.

I see this thread's been going a while, I haven't read all the responses, just the original question. My answer is simply : I'm not gay. I don't have a problem with M/M clips at all. This is a tickling site that is NOT exclusive to heterosexuals and I wouldn't have it any other way, I like meeting new friends who are straight or gay, but the M/M clips just don't do it for me because I am not gay.

 

[Tickaler]

Best Response on here

I see this thread's been going a while, I haven't read all the responses, just the original question. My answer is simply : I'm not gay. I don't have a problem with M/M clips at all. This is a tickling site that is NOT exclusive to heterosexuals and I wouldn't have it any other way, I like meeting new friends who are straight or gay, but the M/M clips just don't do it for me because I am not gay.

What he said, I agree.

 

[Artoo]

Posting in an epic thread.
I've got nothing else to contribute, 'cos I do watch m/m from time to time.
Though I suppose the things I like least about m/m tickling are when there's poor bondage, ugly men, or ugly men.
If they look good, I'm down with watching it.

 

[rhiannon]

Wait, what? THis means you strictly like f/f!!

Whoops...typo 🙂

 

[rvcja7]

for me, it's not that i think of the lee or the ler as being gay, but i do think of the lee as being weak. and i agree with the fact that when i watch a women being tickled, i often think of how gorgeous her feet are, or how sexy her tummy is, can't do that with a guy. i certainly wouldn't say anything negative about those that like it, just trying to explain why i don't. for those of you that do enjoy it, keep on enjoying it !!!! whatever makes you happy. i like watching my wife get tickled more than i like tickling her myself, and alot of people think i am crazy, lol.

 

[rockshock28]

Just doesn't do anything for me. It's like asking someone why they are not gay. I have no problem with people who do like to watch them though, it's just not my thing.

 

[IvoryTickler]

I think the main reason for me is that a man's laughter while being tickled is not appealing. If he gave a hearty belly laugh, I wouldn't mind it, just as I don't mind hearing men laugh in normal situations. But when they are reduced to screaming and giggling like little girls, well, that just doesn't do it for me. (That may be the very thing that some people like about it...hearing a man's masculinity broken down and reduced to a feminine laugh. But it doesn't appeal to me at all.)

The other reason is that our society is much more accepting of F/F flirting than it is of M/M flirting. Girlfriends play around and tickle each other all the time, but guys don't, so to see an M/M situation is much less common and more disturbing to our sense of what's "normal."

 

[Lord Doctor]

That it exists... I've no dislike of it. Just a disinterest.
A bit like wrestling. Not interested in that either.

Participating in M/M... well, since tickling is a turn on and very intimate, and I'm not bisexual or homosexual... again, not interested.

 

[chrisheaven]

I like absolutely nothing about M/M tickling
However-- each to their own.
There are plenty of things I like and others don't- so there you are.