what kind of personality do you prefer to tickle or be tickled by?

[summit]

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy the sight of a beautiful woman being tickled as much as the next person but for the longest time my tickle fantasies have revolved around women in my life who I am not attracted to. It's not that they aren't conventionally pretty or anything but I just don't see them in that light. I find that I am more prone to fantasize about a certain personality type instead of a your typical beauty.

For example, all my recent fantasies have involved two good female friends of mine. Both dominant and loud personalities. One of them being more of a tom boy type who is a little on the plumper side who enjoys her drink. The other being a tall and lanky man-eater type. The first doesnt have the prettiest feet in the world, infact they are kind of stubby but I know for a fact that she is incredibly ticklish on wrinkly tootsies. The second has big and long feet with very soft soles although not as sensitive. Also, the few times I am feeling 'leeish' I only fantasize about about the second friend ticking my feet and only her for some reason. Probably because she is more dominant in terms of her personality.

As i stated before, I am not interested in their bodies what so ever, minus ticking their peds. anyone else find that its the personality and not necessarily their looks that matter?


Edit: what kind of personality do you prefer to tickle or be tickled by?

 

[april]

To a degree yes, because it is a sexual thing for me. However, I am one to latch onto personality so humor and intelligence goes a long way

 

[BMoreTklr]

Looks are great, but personality is also important in a lee. Especially, their personality when they're being tickled. Some like submissives, while others like lee's with a little more fight. A beautiful girl who doesn't meet the ler's desired lee personality, may be a good session but having the personality as well turns a good session to a GREAT session. Trust me, I'm a doctor......of tickling 🙂 lol

 

[maniactickler]

For a one time tickle session i can overlook hotness in a woman, but if its going to be anything serious, then yes, hotness is a must.

 

[dskodj]

if your talking just for a 1 time tickle fetish "getting off" session..no, it doesnt matter (havent done one of those in literally YEARS).

but if its for anything serious as in relationship or comitted play partner..would have to be an attraction to personality (i dont go for looks either way)

 

[john getty]

Maybe I'm just weird in this way, but I find intelligence sexy. You could be the most beautiful woman in the country, if you're stupid, I find that a complete turn off. I'd rather tickle/have sex with a woman who is plain or moderately attractive if they can talk to me in depth about a subject and maybe teach me something I didn't already know.

 

[Sweed]

Yeah, I definately can relate to that. When it comes to 'lers, I think personality and personality as a 'ler is way more important than looks 🙂 If you don't have a 'ler you can relate to as a person, the session will be lots more boring. If there's someone you know well and can relate to, it'll get more fun! 🙂 Hence the attraction. In some way, that attraction is another type of attraction than the "omg, he's hot"- acctraction. I dunno, it's hard to explain but that's the way it is. At least for me. 🙂

If it's one session only, like someone else here said, I don't have to be attracted to their personality either. But if there's somehing more lasting than that, I do. But I don't have to be attracted to their looks, no. No matter if it's long lasting or one time only.

 

[TicklesFemales]

The most important thing to me when I am searching for a lady to tickle is the fact that she is ticklish, looks make no difference. Very to Extremely ticklish ladies are what I look for.....LOL

 

[GQguy]

Why can't you have both? There are many beautiful/intelligent and ticklish women out there.

What I think is happening in the OP's case is familiarity. You know these women and therefore you are "bonded" to them. Judging on looks alone and first impressions I doubt you would pick the not so attractive woman over the attractive one. But after finding that you don't "click" with the attractive girl.....but do with the personality girl....you would pick the personality girl. I think most would depending on how devoid of personality the attractive girl was.

My favorite are the girls that didn't grow with the identity of "pretty girl" but blossomed into their own. Their inner and outer beauty makes them the total package..and hence the girl I want to tickle for a while.

GQ

 

[maniactickler]

Exactly. i want it all. for me, its all or nothing. i need an attractive, horribly ticklish woman, with a great personality. if any of these three things are missing, then i wouldnt be interested.

 

[summit]

of course the trifecta of beauty, personality, and ticklishness is what we are all trying to find. more often than not you can only find 1 or 2 of the three. The responses so far have been very interesting although not exactly what i had hoped for.

I might have phrased my question the wrong way. Didn't mean to go into the whole aesthetic vs inner beauty argument.

what I was actually hoping to ask is what kind of personalities do you prefer to tickle or be tickled by?

 

[Korastus]

Attraction, for me, involves both looks and personality. And yes, I do have to be attracted to the lee/ler, or I will have no interest.

 

[milagros317]

I like to be tickled by women with strong, dominant personalities. 😀

 

[Carsomyr]

Yeah, personality is a big deal. Looks? Not so much... Tickling is such an intimate thing to me, so if I don't click with the 'lee, things are just gonna get uncomfortable both during and outside the sessions. It's the same reason as why I wouldn't want to date a girl who was, for example, bitchy or creepy (yes, girls can be creepy too ), even if she was smoking hot.

As for what kind of personality I "prefer" in the 'lee, I don't have a specific preference other than the general agreeableness and respect. Big plus if we can have fun together even outside of the tickling itself, that's what creates a relaxed environment and helps you just enjoy yourself. 🙂 Other than that, obviously there are other traits I like, but they are in no way necessary. Off the top of my head though, a few of them are: a bubbly personality, cockiness, at least some degree of submissiveness (aside from being a 'lee, obviously xD), and I dunno... a desire/drive to try new things (fetish-wise) and just being inventive with it is kinda refreshing too. As a 'ler you only have so many ideas yourself. 😛

 

[TickVix]

Personality is always a wonderful thing. I doubt a ler would want to tickle a lee that didn't have much of one to begin with. As a lee, I think a ler's personality is just as important for if they appear to be dense and dull in the personality department, then trust me that is not going to be an enjoyable tickling experience.

 

[maniactickler]

I find it extra fun to tickle and break women in power positions. whether it be physically, or job related.

 

[c7_assassin]

Maybe I'm just weird in this way, but I find intelligence sexy. You could be the most beautiful woman in the country, if you're stupid, I find that a complete turn off. I'd rather tickle/have sex with a woman who is plain or moderately attractive if they can talk to me in depth about a subject and maybe teach me something I didn't already know.

This. Also, most of the time you have to work harder to make smart girls laugh, so tickling them has that aspect to it too. 😀

 

[texastickler]

Maybe I'm just weird in this way, but I find intelligence sexy. You could be the most beautiful woman in the country, if you're stupid, I find that a complete turn off. I'd rather tickle/have sex with a woman who is plain or moderately attractive if they can talk to me in depth about a subject and maybe teach me something I didn't already know.

I do too John. I like intelligence, wit and humor all rolled into one.

 

[gitcheycoocoo]

Lots going on here...from Dream Lees/Lers that have it all to this more important than that. An interesting what floats yer boat question.

I would have to say a lee that is super ticklish, loves to be tickled to extreme, does not get pissed if over tickled and does not have to sneak up on a glass of water to get a drink. Sorry if that sounded a bit weird🙂

 

[grlee]

I like a dominant man who will be a strong wresting tickler but will cuddle me after.

 

[playgirl]

the ideal personality of a ler for me would be dominant or at least confident and in control because they know they have mad skills, light-hearted with a streak of sadism when it comes to tickling, good sense of humor, playful, taunting, sensual, unafraid to push me to my limits be they torturous and/or erotic, totally into tickling ME, comfortable in their body and with my body, spontaneous, experimental, one who loses themselves in the act of tickling and is completely present in the moment without distraction, someone who could tickle me day and night and is always playing with me when we're together, etc. i could go on and on. i keep going back and forth about whether they should be ticklish too. i love to be the lee and get all the attention, but i'm also had some amazing tickle fights that just aren't possible with pure lers.

i doubt i'll ever meet anyone who matches all these traits (that's why they're an ideal anyway), but i've been lucky enough to find some lers who meet a good number of these traits. i've been a very lucky girl when it comes to being tickled