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What Things make you uninteresting in tickling someone or being tickled ?

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We all know there are some preferences of what makes us want to tickle another but what things are on the opposite side that makes you Not interested in tickling that person or for that matter being tickled by them?.
Personally, if a person smells or has a offensive odor ,appears they are desperate for tickles or attention,or just plain rude , then I would be turned off but I consider myself pretty flexible and I don't seek perfection but some things are a neccessity.
How about the rest of you,thoughts,comments?
 
Pretty much the same things that would make me "uninterested" in just about any other social/physical interaction with someone: No chemistry or not having a comfort level/aka creep factor.

Also knowing their preferences/disires are at complete odds with my own.
 
What puts me off tickling my boyfriend is when he ends up kicking me or something by accident because he's supersupersuper ticklish.

As a 'lee, I don't like being tickled when I'm upset emotionally. Its just like "Get away, can't you see I'm upset?!" or when I feel unsafe or insecure, again its an emotional thing for me. I despise being tickled when I'm in pain as well, i.e. if my bonds are too tight or my ankles are hitting against our wood bedframe. I guess I'm personally a little fussy, but as the great saying goes - if your going to do anything, do it right! (Or however it goes 😉 lol)
 
Physical appearances doesn't affect me either way. I'm a big guy so I can't really demand a model thin lee. Stinky feet and crusty heels don't bother me either. I kinda like feet that are not pedicure perfect. I'm pretty much down for whatever. What I cannot accept is a nervous, wishy-washy person. Either allow me to tickle you or refuse me outright. Don't agree to be tickled and then be skittish and anxious. It's one thing to be anxious over impending tickles, but don't start backing out midway. It makes me feel like I'm doing something against your will and thus I can't enjoy myself.
 
Three things, really.

First: I have a somewhat strange skin condition. 99% of the time it's almost unnoticeable but when it does decide to flare up i'm so disinterested in tickling i can't even stand to talk about it. Just the thought of molting while being tickled just doesn't do it for me and i imagine it wouldn't for anyone else either. I guess call it a self-conscious thing.

Second: When i KNOW the 'ler has a distaste for "violent" lees. I really can't help being as violent as i am, it's all reaction... grow some nuts or grab a rope, i'm fond of both.

Third and perhaps most important: The ler had better have at least a small sense of humor. To me, humor is an awesome build-up to a good tickling scene and has a rather important role in my ideal play.
 
Their Personality!

Fortunately, I don't have one, so I can get long with everybody.

Errr!

Maybe it was something else ....
 
I get uninterested when someone is faking the reaction to being tickled. If they're acting too "into" it, or even acting like it tickles more than it really does. I hate that shit. I also start to become uninterested if there's no reaction when I tickle, and then become completely uninterested two minutes later when there's still the lack of reaction, or something totally unsatisfying.

And I don't like being tickled when I'm relaxing, when I totally pissed, or when I'm PMSing and just want cuddles and love.

I don't want to even think about tickling when I see a child being tickled, or my family members tickling each other. That just totally wigs me out.

Yep. That about covers it.
 
-Needy, clingy, desperate, attention-seaking personality.
-Generally unkempt
-Poor social skills

That's about it really.

Snail Shell
 
-Needy, clingy, desperate, attention-seaking personality.
-Generally unkempt
-Poor social skills

That's about it really.

Snail Shell

I second that!

I'd add to that list nasty feet, but that pretty much covers it.
 
Not much on the physical level besides obvious issues of health, hygiene and appearance.

On a personality level?

snobbery, the insinuation that she's better, smarter, or more knowledgable than you, the expectation of acknowlegement of her elevated position in the community. An air of conceit and self-importance. The continual habit of talking down to people while trying to be cute and smarmy at the same time.
 
On a personality level?

snobbery, the insinuation that she's better, smarter, or more knowledgable than you, the expectation of acknowlegement of her elevated position in the community. An air of conceit and self-importance. The continual habit of talking down to people while trying to be cute and smarmy at the same time.
"Uh oh! Fifteen minutes to Judge Wapner."

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A bad attitude: haughty, demeaning to others, catty, you get the idea.
 
When being tickled - People who call me "dear". I don't need to think about my granny while being tickled

When tickling - People who seem overly eager for the attention

:woot:
 
You and I have the same thing in common strokes. If I see even the slightest, faking, contriving or non-realism I'll stop reading and/or watching. I WANT THE REAL THING, NOT SOME FANTASY.

I get uninterested when someone is faking the reaction to being tickled. If they're acting too "into" it, or even acting like it tickles more than it really does. I hate that shit. I also start to become uninterested if there's no reaction when I tickle, and then become completely uninterested two minutes later when there's still the lack of reaction, or something totally unsatisfying.

And I don't like being tickled when I'm relaxing, when I totally pissed, or when I'm PMSing and just want cuddles and love.

I don't want to even think about tickling when I see a child being tickled, or my family members tickling each other. That just totally wigs me out.

Yep. That about covers it.
 
If you bore the shit out of me, are an awful human being or of course, bad hygeine...
XOXO
 
when being tickled, i hate it when someone stops tickling and starts doing that painful grabbing thing. that just ruins it.
 
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On a personality level?

snobbery, the insinuation that she's better, smarter, or more knowledgable than you, the expectation of acknowlegement of her elevated position in the community. An air of conceit and self-importance. The continual habit of talking down to people while trying to be cute and smarmy at the same time.

Interesting...just the opposite here. Those traits, to a point, are a big draw for me.

The more in-charge and self-confident the better. 😎

-Q.
 
I hate when someone hits a particularly good spot and then goes somewhere else right away. It's like....uh...i thought we were on the same page here...
 
I get uninterested when someone is faking the reaction to being tickled. If they're acting too "into" it, or even acting like it tickles more than it really does. I hate that shit. I also start to become uninterested if there's no reaction when I tickle, and then become completely uninterested two minutes later when there's still the lack of reaction, or something totally unsatisfying.

And I don't like being tickled when I'm relaxing, when I totally pissed, or when I'm PMSing and just want cuddles and love.

I don't want to even think about tickling when I see a child being tickled, or my family members tickling each other. That just totally wigs me out.

Yep. That about covers it.

WOW, I think you just took the words right out of my mouth. That's pretty much everything I was just about to rant off. To add to that, There's only one thing that really turns me off to tickling. M/M. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a homophobe. I'm talking on a personal level. Taking tickling as sensual and arousing, I could only handle getting tickled by a woman (and her by me). Sure, it's platonic and mere playfulness, but also a mild case of flirting, as well, in my book. Any guy that tries to do such things to me, is an instant turn off and I don't want to think about tickling for quite sometime. Makes me go "ungh". Sorry guys.
 
The whole "simpering 'lee" thing is a real turn-off - they've gotta be loving it as well!
Also, if people don't know how to tickle you at all, and are just scratching or digging. It's irritating as hell, and not in a good way.
I tend to tickle people as a way of flirting, and to that end I wind up tickling people who I find attractive. I could tickle other people as well, guys included, but I just often don't.
 
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