What's a good clip to introduce partner to tickling?

[Dudeonwheels]

So I'm getting ready to 'come out of the tickle closet' with my partner. I often playfully tickle her during sex, and we've talked about my sexual interests... but part of my sexual behavior is that I download and watch tickling clips on this site. I'd like to introduce her to that too.

Here are the criteria I'm thinking of:
- Nice-looking bondage, nothing too scary looking
- FF or MF, definitely with some vibrator play
- At least topless, but full nudity even better
- An aura of sensuality and fun, not a torture clip (if you know what I mean)
- High production values

I'd appreciate any suggestions!

 

[PiedPiper]

You might consider starting out with a clip from an actual mainstream source,... a TV show, for example...... It offers more of that "See.. it's not that weird.." credibility. Or maybe I'm just conservative.

 

[KaBand]

Well to be frank if your thought of introducing her to this involves a clip of vibrator material that is probably not a good intro. That would scare off most respectable women right away. Perhaps try something more tasteful like something from UK, Guilt or Stryker as a first step and build off that?

 

[Rokkas]

I think some more background information would be useful. Do you two already watch porn together? Does she watch porn? Is she bi or does she enjoy porn where the woman is sexualized but the man isn't? Is she into BDSM?

If you answer 'no' to most of those, I'd recommend something a little simpler, where the woman is fully clothed. Maybe something from TickleTown or an amateur clip? You definitely have the right idea with playful over torture though.

If she does enjoy female nudity or things being done to women, searching for clips with the word 'tease' in the title might help you find what you're looking for.

You could also show her the news clip about the tickle massage parlor in sweden/norway/wherever-it-is where people would pay for that light tickling sensation. Light tickling is like light spanking; many vanilla people enjoy it.

 

[BroadwayMaybe]

if you're looking for a studio, I recommend Laughter is Beautiful or maybe some of the tamer clips on Tickle Central. OR I really enjoy the stuff that Jersey Tickling is doing. It's quite real and it's playful and lovely, even though it's only been around for a short while.

 

[tickling=feet]

if you're looking for a studio, I recommend Laughter is Beautiful or maybe some of the tamer clips on Tickle Central. OR I really enjoy the stuff that Jersey Tickling is doing. It's quite real and it's playful and lovely, even though it's only been around for a short while.

I second the LIB. It has really none of the things you said but to introduce someone to tickling I think it would be best. Also, some silvercherry could be a good choice.

 

[ElFewja]

Tickle Abuse hit's the criteria you're looking for.

I very, very much second the other commenters, though. We don't know enough about the situation but if you're just introducing tickling material, I wouldn't go into the heavy stuff like that right away. I would only introduce anything other than a light tickling clip if she already watches porn on her own.

I would also stay away from using mainstream clips because it has the potential to come off as taking advantage of an otherwise harmless situation. In more vulgar terms, it makes it sound like you just masturbate to tickling in any situation whether or not it seems acceptable. I'm not even going to begin to say stuff like 'fapping to this accepted material is alright and to this unaccepted material is not' but keep in mind that some/most people will.

 

[tickletherapist]

You may use some of our interview clips on our youtube channel. Although this might be not enough sexual for you, our whole concept is to show that tickling is sensual, fun and even healthy as a therapy, so nothing bad about it.

Good luck.

 

[Dudeonwheels]

I think some more background information would be useful. Do you two already watch porn together? Does she watch porn? Is she bi or does she enjoy porn where the woman is sexualized but the man isn't? Is she into BDSM?

If you answer 'no' to most of those, I'd recommend something a little simpler, where the woman is fully clothed. Maybe something from TickleTown or an amateur clip? You definitely have the right idea with playful over torture though.

If she does enjoy female nudity or things being done to women, searching for clips with the word 'tease' in the title might help you find what you're looking for.

You could also show her the news clip about the tickle massage parlor in sweden/norway/wherever-it-is where people would pay for that light tickling sensation. Light tickling is like light spanking; many vanilla people enjoy it.

She has a very slight bi streak. She has indicated an interest in an FFM threesome, but we have not pursued it yet. We have discussed our shared fantasy of working together to tie a (willing) girl up and make her come with our shared efforts. So we are pretty open about this stuff, but i have worried that bondage tickling might be just a little too weird for her.

We have not watched porn together at this point. So maybe you're right - a simpler tamer clip could be better. I really like the idea of something where a girl is making a girl orgasm though.

 

[P[a]pi]

I would come out to her first. Then I'd tell her that I watch clips of these fetishes. Then I'd tell her what I would like to do with her. Then I'd ask her if she wanted to see some of my fav clips to get the gist, emphasizing that the clips aren't exactly what I wanna do in real life.

1. come out
2. I watch clips of it
3. this is what I'd like to do
4. you wanna see my fav clips for reference?

Of course, if she freaks out during any step, I wouldn't proceed to the next step. Good luck. 🙂

 

[C.A.B.]

You might consider a nice romantic, intimate evening out, some wine and a quiet corner of a restaurant or a casual stroll, bear your heart... then your fetish. Language skills are better than "see this shit... that's what i want to do to you."

Make it about your desire for her, not your desire for fetish.

 

[Libertine]

You might consider a nice romantic, intimate evening out, some wine and a quiet corner of a restaurant or a casual stroll, bare your heart... then your fetish. Language skills are better than "see this shit... that's what i want to do to you."

Make it about your desire for her, not your desire for fetish.

There speaks (another) man of the world.

Now, Dudeonwheels...

"Go, and do thou likewise."

You may not get exactly what you want that very night, any more than planting a seed will yield an instantaneous orchard, but you have far more of a chance for something successful and lasting with her this way. And even if it's not 'forever', you'll still have learned a lot of skills from the relationship, and will be will able to apply that knowledge to subsequent entanglements.