When no clear answer is given.

[GotaTicKleSara]

For those of you who have asked someone whether it’s a person in your own life, or maybe it’s a celebrity that you took a chance asking via cameo: When you aren’t given a clear yes or no answer, what do you chalk that up to? In other words if you had to decide for yourself say a 60/40 split yes or no, what is it?

Me personally, I believe if they aren’t giving a clear answer it typically means they are but don’t want to admit it for whatever personal reason. In my opinion if someone wasn’t ticklish, you’d think they wouldn’t be bothered to say no. However, if they are and don’t say yes, then I’d have to assume they are trying to keep it a secret so that it doesn’t become public knowledge.

What are your thoughts?

 

[Myriads]

While most folks here spend quite a bit of time thinking about tickling and ticklishness, most of the rest of the world doesn't. It never crosses their minds at all.

So a lot of people have no real idea of how ticklish they are, as it may have been years or decades since the last time it happened to them. They honestly do not know. Thus your mushy answers.

With celebrities it's a different story. It might be shocking to you to learn that most female celebs today are pretty savvy to when they are being sexually objectified by a fan. They understand fetishes, and so forth, and many make an active choice to not feed that side of things. It's not about concealing info to keep it secret, it's about not entering into an exchange that makes them feel creepy and used.

Basically, people often don't know, or consider such information sexual tinged and thus only something to give out to someone who they have a level of closeness with. Which as a random fan one is most certainly not.

Myriads

 

[brotherted]

I agree that some “yes” people don’t want to say yes, either b/c they hate it, or b/c they don’t want to share such intimacies with someone they’re not dating — also, some “no” people don’t want to say no b/c they don’t want to seem un-fun or they don’t want to diffuse the sexual interest or attention for whatever reason.

To answer your question, I’d say if someone dodges the question, for 70% the actual answer is no.

 

[Etienne2021]

Generally if a woman has been asked if she's ticklish and she doesn't say "no" I just assume she is ticklish since generally a person who isn't ticklish, or isn't very ticklish, has no issues disclosing that.

Now, when it comes to celebrities, a lot of them are aware of the tickle fetish, especially nowadays. So, you can take it as them not wanting to share simply because they're privy to it. But at the same time, they're didn't say "no", so it's still safe to assume they're ticklish. They're threads in the ticklish celebrity section where you had WWE Divas like Thea Trinidad and Melina and people complaining about how they would actively avoid answering any tickling questions on cameo. But then, for whatever reason, they finally did answer and both were very ticklish.

The average woman doesn't think about tickling nor have they been tickled by "experts", but I think it's a safe bet that they're aware of how ticklish they may be. I don't believe that requires being strapped down and tickled by people like Tasha, Jade or Kelli, to estimate your level of ticklishness. Every woman who has told be how ticklish they were, turned out to be that ticklish.

The only time you have to worry about people who ether lie or exaggerating how ticklish they're ironically comes when talking to people with tickle fetishes or who are a part of that fetish.

 

[Mechafeather87]

One example I had in my own personal life was when I dated this girl many years ago. I met her through a dating site and we eventually started hanging out and became a couple. A quick description, not that it relates to the topic at hand, but she was about 5’6” brunette, slightly tan skin and hazel/green eyes. One of the most interesting bits about her was that she was deaf. She was teaching me to sign but since I was just starting out it was hard to communicate unless we wrote texts to each other. We were hanging out one evening, watching a movie and once the movie ended I thought I’d be nice and ask if she wanted a foot rub. She had a worried look on her face and hesitated. I asked what was wrong (even though I knew what the problem was before she could say anything) she tried to hide it at first but eventually admitted that she had insanely ticklish feet and didn’t like people touching them at all. I respected that, but also tried to get her to overcome that as time went on. Down the road she got more comfortable with the idea of me rubbing her feet and even though it was complete torture for her, she did let me tickle her a little bit. So long story short, I do believe that if women in our everyday lives say yes or no, that usually means the truth. I’ve met a lot of women over the years who had no issues being honest about it.

Now if we are talking about celebrities, because they are in tune with knowing about the fetishes people carry, I honestly believe most of them either lie if asked the question or try to avoid it. Two examples that I can think of are:

1.) Cassie Macintosh (formerly with WWE and now with AEW, I believe) when she was asked via cameo, her reaction and quick “no” answer seemed off to me, almost as if she was hiding the fact that she really is ticklish.

2.) Lexi Kaufman, aka Alexa Bliss
There has been so much back and forth with her and we have yet to get an actual answer out of her. I wrote Ryan Cabrera on cameo text once and asked him who would win in a tickle fight between him and bliss in which he responded with he would. So while that’s not exactly an answer from her that’s the best we’ve been given. I just wish Alexa would answer it herself. To me it seems like she is hiding it out of embarrassment or simply just wanting to keep us in the dark. I wish there was a more solid way to get a response out of her. Anyways, that’s my opinion. Hope it helps!

 

[erik1009]

I always said that if they don't want to answer the question, or refrain then they're most likely ticklish. A fetishist gets nothing from a "no" response, and usually that tends to end any further inquiry.


Anyway sites like OnlyFans and Fansly have been great platforms for discussing and asking about tickling. Mainly because it's a service platform that caters to kinks and other sex related things, so celebs/influencers are way more open to talk about it there than a site like Cameo.

 

[Etienne2021]

2.) Lexi Kaufman, aka Alexa Bliss
There has been so much back and forth with her and we have yet to get an actual answer out of her. I wrote Ryan Cabrera on cameo text once and asked him who would win in a tickle fight between him and bliss in which he responded with he would. So while that’s not exactly an answer from her that’s the best we’ve been given. I just wish Alexa would answer it herself. To me it seems like she is hiding it out of embarrassment or simply just wanting to keep us in the dark. I wish there was a more solid way to get a response out of her. Anyways, that’s my opinion. Hope it helps!

I searched for Alexa Bliss on this site, and I feel the two confirmations are good enough. The first one from her husband is the best one, it's basically confirming that she is ticklish. Now how ticklish is a different story since we don't know how ticklish the husband is or if he's ticklish at all. But he never said he wasn't ticklish in the cameo dm. Most likely her upper-body is ticklish since that's the main spot people attack in a tickle fight.

We also know her feet are ticklish since she did admit to pedicures tickling, if only a little. But the fact pedicures tickle at all is a good sign and leans towards a possibility that her feet are, at the very least, above average on the ticklish scale.

 

[Mechafeather87]

I didn’t realize it was confirmed that she admitted to pedicures being ticklish on her feet, even if only a little. Interesting. Very envious of Ryan though. He definitely scored big time with a sweetheart like her.