Where are all the female 'lee' users?

[Comfort Eagle]

Nah tickler I know what you mean. When I had pics up everybody was trying to get at me, which was very flattering. But eventually I couldn't handle it and pulled my pictures. It was my own fault, really, I should have known better than to tempt you all like that. I was shameless teasing and I now know better.

 

[tickler101:)]

Nah tickler I know what you mean. When I had pics up everybody was trying to get at me, which was very flattering. But eventually I couldn't handle it and pulled my pictures. It was my own fault, really, I should have known better than to tempt you all like that. I was shameless teasing and I now know better.

Anytime ^_^

 

[chicago]

I don't know why I'm being attack especially by a moderate who should kinda know better than to compare me to a dog? my post was playing both parts I was. talking for both sides. but I see that some female users don't have self control over their emotion to not get angry when someones trying to find some middle ground for both sides

You were the one that said that women should expect disrespectful comments from men if they post pictures of their feet. You compared it to waving a steak in front of a dog, equating womens' feet with steak and men with dogs.

There are other men (and even some dogs) who can control themselves and express themselves respectfully. Those who cannot, those who excuse that type of behavior, those who put blame on the person being disrespected, are most certainly acting like beasts.

 

[tickler101:)]

You were the one that said that women should expect disrespectful comments from men if they post pictures of their feet. You compared it to waving a steak in front of a dog, equating womens' feet with steak and men with dogs.

There are other men (and even some dogs) who can control themselves and express themselves respectfully. Those who cannot, those who excuse that type of behavior, those who put blame on the person being disrespected, are most certainly acting like beasts.

My comparison with the dog analogy was just an example as in a cat to a mouse, a mouse to cheese, not to insult gender and I'm saying is you should see the disrespectful behavior coming if you post certain photos or certain things does make it inexcusable, no does. it mean you have right to complain no, but to act brand new to the the matter is like saying we have the perfect users. in our forum were the only social network incapable of getting creepers,and stalkers. especially if I post certain photos and draw attention to myself? I'm not trying defend the bad eggs we have on here but we dont have a perfect community either but if you draw attention to your self in a certain way don't be surprise of the out come.

 

[IrishTickle]

Ok so now I want people raped?

I didn't say anything even remotely to that. I pointed out the stupidity of blaming the victim.

Nah tickler I know what you mean. When I had pics up everybody was trying to get at me, which was very flattering. But eventually I couldn't handle it and pulled my pictures. It was my own fault, really, I should have known better than to tempt you all like that. I was shameless teasing and I now know better.

Unless I'm missing the sarcasm, you're taking the blame for the actions of others.


It's probably also worth pointing out that it's not only guys who act creepy on these sites. There's plenty of women who can be just as bad.

 

[DigitalGypsy]

the matter I'm talking about is why many of the lady users get harassed on here and yeah you can post pictures but when you post pictures of certain things and then complain about how your getting pm"ed every five minutes doesn't make sense post a average picture of your is just enough to say hey I'm user nothing more but pictures of feet under arms etc your just asking for attention and if you have a boyfriend then why would you post that then just to say hey look I have average tickle spots like everyone else? ?

I can't believe that we live in a day and age where we still blame the "victim". So it's my fault that I'm getting harassed because of my pictures. You're also making this a generalization across the board for all female users on this site. Please understand this, no man has the right to treat me like cattle. No man here has the right to approach me in a sexual way without my permission. I could post a picture of me getting tickled everyday of the week and that still can't excuse anyone's behavior with regards to interacting with me sexually. In my damn profile I state that I have a boyfriend whom I love dearly and men still have audacity to approach me in a certain light. I refuse to be a victim on here any longer. I will not hold my tongue toward any male who is overstepping his reach. Most of all shame on you for saying that we, as women, are the ones responsible for our own harassment because of the pictures we post. I swear the culture of blaming the victim needs to change.

 

[Desparting297]

the matter I'm talking about is why many of the lady users get harassed on here and yeah you can post pictures but when you post pictures of certain things and then complain about how your getting pm"ed every five minutes doesn't make sense post a average picture of your is just enough to say hey I'm user nothing more but pictures of feet under arms etc your just asking for attention and if you have a boyfriend then why would you post that then just to say hey look I have average tickle spots like everyone else? ?


I can't believe that we live in a day and age where we still blame the "victim". So it's my fault that I'm getting harassed because of my pictures. You're also making this a generalization across the board for all female users on this site. Please understand this, no man has the right to treat me like cattle. No man here has the right to approach me in a sexual way without my permission. I could post a picture of me getting tickled everyday of the week and that still can't excuse anyone's behavior with regards to interacting with me sexually. In my damn profile I state that I have a boyfriend whom I love dearly and men still have audacity to approach me in a certain light. I refuse to be a victim on here any longer. I will not hold my tongue toward any male who is overstepping his reach. Most of all shame on you for saying that we, as women, are the ones responsible for our own harassment because of the pictures we post. I swear the culture of blaming the victim needs to change.

Agreed! I know this has probably been mentioned before but as victim blaming has become so easy these days and we wonder why there are more suicides than anything before. An example of blaming a rape victim, "she was wearing a short skirt, she was gagging for it", "she was flirting with me first" or "it wasn't my fault she/he spoke older than 13"..so fair enough people will drool over feet pictures seeing as this is a fetish site, does that mean you need to throw dirty comments and describe your tendencies into someone's face without taking their feelings into consideration first? A foot doesn't necessarily mean it's an invitation for rudeness as if you were opening up a porn magazine. What's wrong with appreciating the physical form in a more respectable manner and modesty? Of course the sensible thing to do is to ignore the negativity, but how long do you expect people to keep quiet? All their lives and don't use the right to express yourself and make a stand as a human being? View the pictures if that's what you want and dribble, it's in your own privacy right, but keep it private to yourself and then move on. But to go in such a way of expressing dirty thoughts, and retaliating negatively to someone who's offended shows the act of a sad, lonely and sexless pervert, nothing more. You don't want to be an enemy, then don't become one and grow a pair!

 

[WriterOfSin]

If a guy cannot keep it in his virtual fucking trousers, he needs to take a break from the PC and go meet real people. I've seen people go onto the profiles of female profiles and post messages on their photos saying what they'd like to do; that's fucked up. Keep it for a flirty series of consensual messages, not dropping in and describing how you'd slather your tounge over them.

People need to learn the rudiments of simple courtesy. If I comment on someone's page, I'm not going to say 'Oh hey, sexy feet, wanna meet for a tickle fuck?' because I have SOME fucking basic self control, and plenty of others have the ability to do that as well. I'm going to agree with Digital Gypsy and Hyper_Ticklish on this; Someone posting profile pics is not a license to go hand-in-trousers and write illiterate sex-starved fantasies of what you'd do to them.

My comparison with the dog analogy was just an example as in a cat to a mouse, a mouse to cheese, not to insult gender and I'm saying is you should see the disrespectful behavior coming if you post certain photos or certain things does make it inexcusable, no does. it mean you have right to complain no, but to act brand new to the the matter is like saying we have the perfect users. in our forum were the only social network incapable of getting creepers,and stalkers. especially if I post certain photos and draw attention to myself? I'm not trying defend the bad eggs we have on here but we dont have a perfect community either but if you draw attention to your self in a certain way don't be surprise of the out come.

What people are saying is female users posting pictures of themselves should NOT be used as a license to perv out. I'll admit, I've posted on female users profile pictures before; Let's see, I complimented one for looking stunning in her clothing, Hyper_Ticklish for having that punk/metal vibe going on, and asking another person if the tower behind them is the same as one in my region of England. Hmm, how much text-fapping did I do in any of that?

Oh right. None. Because Mama Sin didn't raise her boy to be unpolite.

 

[Jagermeistered]

My comparison with the dog analogy was just an example as in a cat to a mouse, a mouse to cheese, not to insult gender and I'm saying is you should see the disrespectful behavior coming if you post certain photos or certain things does make it inexcusable, no does. it mean you have right to complain no, but to act brand new to the the matter is like saying we have the perfect users. in our forum were the only social network incapable of getting creepers,and stalkers. especially if I post certain photos and draw attention to myself? I'm not trying defend the bad eggs we have on here but we dont have a perfect community either but if you draw attention to your self in a certain way don't be surprise of the out come.

The "middle-of-the-road" argument, so sorry, but that is a non sequitur...

If Candy, Annie, Gypsy, or any other lady; started a thread, and the topic was - "Would you jizz on my feet after tickling them?" Then yeah, they are no longer a victim of any comments thrown at them. But, if they posted a picture in their profile, "This is what my feet look like..." How is that a open invitation to violate the GR policy, terms and conditions, or civility?

I know this happens all the time in the P&R forum, but at least the mods posted a warning disclaimer. But, females who join the forum, should not have to put up a disclaimer, "I am a lady, please do not be a shithead!" - when they post a picture.

 

[tickler101:)]

I cant. believe the how some of the users are taking this. it astonishing I m playing both sides where in all the debate did I say I antes people raped as I repeat over and over if your gonna argue at least read all my posts and see how I tried to find a middle ground. this is not rocket science. its like me posting pictures of marijuana and someone says hey do you smoke or sell can I buy some and I'm like no I don't smoke or sell what the hell gave you that impression pot head ??? and its funny only ones who take offensively are the probably the ones who think this is OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self there's actually girls on here who just post pictures of them selves and that's it and they never complain and some do complain because of the amount of sex deprived perverts we get on this fetish site but they dont complain as much

 

[chicago]

I cant. believe the how some of the users are taking this. it astonishing I m playing both sides where in all the debate did I say I antes people raped as I repeat over and over if your gonna argue at least read all my posts and see how I tried to find a middle ground. this is not rocket science. its like me posting pictures of marijuana and someone says hey do you smoke or sell can I buy some and I'm like no I don't smoke or sell what the hell gave you that impression pot head ??? and its funny only ones who take offensively are the probably the ones who think this is OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self there's actually girls on here who just post pictures of them selves and that's it and they never complain and some do complain because of the amount of sex deprived perverts we get on this fetish site but they dont complain as much

You're not playing Devil's advocate when your main point is that a woman should expect to be disrespected depending on the kind of picture(s) she posts online.

But, really, no one has the right to be disrespectful for any reason. Nothing excuses someone acting like an asshole. All people have the ability to choose how they're going to act and what they're going to say. When a man sees a picture he deems "sexy" does his decision making ability go out the window?

 

[xbrokenxsoulx]

Maybe I'm missing something, but I'm not seeing the pics.

I think I have pics now

 

[Jagermeistered]

I cant. believe the how some of the users are taking this. it astonishing I m playing both sides where in all the debate did I say I antes people raped as I repeat over and over if your gonna argue at least read all my posts and see how I tried to find a middle ground. this is not rocket science. its like me posting pictures of marijuana and someone says hey do you smoke or sell can I buy some and I'm like no I don't smoke or sell what the hell gave you that impression pot head ??? and its funny only ones who take offensively are the probably the ones who think this is OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self there's actually girls on here who just post pictures of them selves and that's it and they never complain and some do complain because of the amount of sex deprived perverts we get on this fetish site but they dont complain as much

What the fuck?

I cant. believe the how some of the users are taking this

Yep, drugs are awesome...

see how I tried to find a middle ground.

Nope, you are just horny as fuck! Find yourself a prostitute, and fuck the shit out of her...

 

[tickler101:)]

You're not playing Devil's advocate when your main point is that a woman should expect to be disrespected depending on the kind of picture(s) she posts online.

But, really, no one has the right to be disrespectful for any reason. Nothing excuses someone acting like an asshole. All people have the ability to choose how they're going to act and what they're going to say. When a man sees a picture he deems "sexy" does his decision making ability go out the window?

wow I nowhere said its was inexcusable like I repeated to be disrespectful but don't be surprised when you see it.?? like I said the only ones not complaining are the ones who actually respect them selves and I already know some user is gonna try to break my post apart and munipulate what I just said over and over and shove words down my throat. when they haven't even read all my posts or they know that their doing them selves wrong or some Guy user gonna try to defend because they this that's gonna get them selves lucky to get at certain point with the female users theirs so many views on but only very little guys that defend the this I'm not trying to have a feud with you Annie hall I know your a cool chick. but as a moderate you should try to play devils advocate be its your job as a moderate to see both point of views. as a professional unless your taking this personal.

 

[chicago]

wow I nowhere said its was inexcusable like I repeated to be disrespectful but don't be surprised when you see it.?? like I said the only ones not complaining are the ones who actually respect them selves and I already know some user is gonna try to break my post apart and munipulate what I just said over and over and shove words down my throat. when they haven't even read all my posts or they know that their doing them selves wrong or some Guy user gonna try to defend because they this that's gonna get them selves lucky to get at certain point with the female users theirs so many views on but only very little guys that defend the this I'm not trying to have a feud with you Annie hall I know your a cool chick. but as a moderate you should try to play devils advocate be its your job as a moderate to see both point of views. as a professional unless your taking this personal.

1. I see your point about not being "shocked" by that type of disrespectful behavior considering the context of this website, however, I think it's that mentality that allows people to disregard those comments when those comments should not be excused. Does that make sense? I think it's the idea that rude posts on female pictures should be 'expected' or at the least 'not surprising' that furthers such comments to be posted and overlooked. And I think people should probably speak up against / report more of that behavior.

2. Did you just insinuate that the people who are complaining about that rude behavior are ones that don't respect themselves?

3. I'm a moderator of the chatroom, not the forums. You do not dictate how I do my "job" or how I behave. I'm allowed to debate and disagree with members and express myself how I see fit, abiding by the rules of the forum. I've done this since I joined 10 years ago and the admin were well aware of this when they offered me the position. It's not my job to play Devil's advocate or see both sides of shit. I'm not being "professional" because I'm stating my opinion, but users here can talk about shooting their snot sausage on some poor chick's toes? Get outta here.

 

[DigitalGypsy]

I cant. believe the how some of the users are taking this. it astonishing I m playing both sides where in all the debate did I say I antes people raped as I repeat over and over if your gonna argue at least read all my posts and see how I tried to find a middle ground. this is not rocket science. its like me posting pictures of marijuana and someone says hey do you smoke or sell can I buy some and I'm like no I don't smoke or sell what the hell gave you that impression pot head ??? and its funny only ones who take offensively are the probably the ones who think this is OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self there's actually girls on here who just post pictures of them selves and that's it and they never complain and some do complain because of the amount of sex deprived perverts we get on this fetish site but they dont complain as much

You are a lost cause. There should be no middle ground with harassment and posting inappropriate comments on pictures. You are sexist, seem to have control issues (OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self ), and will never understand because you're not a woman. Jesus Christ, when did it become okay to act this way toward another person. Did I miss the memo? I think not, so how about we solve the issue by being proactive and giving the rest of us women a voice. We will post any picture we please and should be able to do so without any type of harassment. We need to speak up because this is completely obtuse. No one has the right to act in a certain light with any woman on this forum in any way, shape, or form.

 

[Jagermeistered]

wow I nowhere said its was inexcusable like I repeated to be disrespectful but don't be surprised when you see it.?? like I said the only ones not complaining are the ones who actually respect them selves and I already know some user is gonna try to break my post apart and munipulate what I just said over and over and shove words down my throat. when they haven't even read all my posts or they know that their doing them selves wrong or some Guy user gonna try to defend because they this that's gonna get them selves lucky to get at certain point with the female users theirs so many views on but only very little guys that defend the this I'm not trying to have a feud with you Annie hall I know your a cool chick. but as a moderate you should try to play devils advocate be its your job as a moderate to see both point of views. as a professional unless your taking this personal.

Nice

You are running from your own arguments, Shane... Where are your counter-arguments?

Remember, "the girls get what they deserve when they post pictures?"

Who is kissing ass to get laid? You just lack the ability to debate...

 

[tickler101:)]

You are a lost cause. There should be no middle ground with harassment and posting inappropriate comments on pictures. You are sexist, seem to have control issues (OK if my girlfriend or boy friend were posting sexy pictures in a social network where I know there's going to be prevs and she like babe there's all these pervs bothering me and I started going threw her pictures and seen all these sexy photos of her I'd be well What hell are you doing posting these sexy pictures in the first place I'm your boyfriend why you drawing this kind of attention to your self ), and will never understand because you're not a woman. Jesus Christ, when did it become okay to act this way toward another person. Did I miss the memo? I think not, so how about we solve the issue by being proactive and giving the rest of us women a voice. We will post any picture we please and should be able to do so without any type of harassment. We need to speak up because this is completely obtuse. No one has the right to act in a certain light with any woman on this forum in any way, shape, or form.

Ok so now I'm consider sexist and a control freak because I pefer people who respect them selves and a control freak because I wouldn't want my mate post certain photos of her self knowing theirs going to be many pervs trying to talk stalk or message them every five minutes especially in an on line fetish "community" you must have a strange relationship with your mate if you think that way if you still have a relationship this also doesn't really concern you either because you don't even have those types of photos that I'm talking about hmmm I wonder why you don't have those photos lol and I never said it was inexcusable for the one thousandth time and no you didn't miss the memo but you did miss a couple of posts because I never did mention it was ok to mistreat anyone so please read before you rebuttal and any user here can do what they want on here its their right to exercise the first amendment but like I said this debate doesn't really concern you either way sure your free to add your two cent it just pretty obtuse that you do .

 

[tickler101:)]

What the fuck?



Yep, drugs are awesome...



Nope, you are just horny as fuck! Find yourself a prostitute, and fuck the shit out of her...

Jags, you seem awfully pissed lately. You used to be so mellow. Whatever's bothering you, I hope you work it out, pal.

 

[meangry]

Ok so now I'm consider sexist and a control freak because I pefer people who respect them selves and a control freak because I wouldn't want my mate post certain photos of her self knowing theirs going to be many pervs trying to talk stalk or message them every five minutes especially in an on line fetish "community" you must have a strange relationship with your mate if you think that way if you still have a relationship this also doesn't really concern you either because you don't even have those types of photos that I'm talking about hmmm I wonder why you don't have those photos lol and I never said it was inexcusable for the one thousandth time and no you didn't miss the memo but you did miss a couple of posts because I never did mention it was ok to mistreat anyone so please read before you rebuttal and any user here can do what they want on here its their right to exercise the first amendment but like I said this debate doesn't really concern you either way sure your free to add your two cent it just pretty obtuse that you do .

I find it comical how you think you are elucidating people here with your 'points', or showing follies, or showing chinks in reasoning, or how you do what any nonsensical troll does and speak out of both sides of your mouth and claim victories because of decorum.

That mod you are responding with? You think she doesn't know your act? She does. As does anyone here who knows a lick about what they're saying or doing. You post about how you never said it was alright to abuse or harass women, yet your initial sets of posts blame the harassed women for posting pictures. Whether the pics are meant to be provocative or not, the bottom line is simple; the TMF has had a long line of socially retarded manchildren who don't have the necessary skills to talk to women, let alone talk to women and gain acceptance for their secret shame. They come here to escape the rigors of actual society to hide in anonymity (even though if people wanted, they'd have your DOX in a flash). Girl posts pics of her feet? Guess she knew dudes were going to jack it to them, so that's on her, as are the unsolicited PMs. We won't even get into the manifestation of this behavior in public settings at gatherings and the like, especially when you have a large cross section of sexual frustrated fedora wearing manchildren who believe paying their money to go to a gathering entitles them to tickling access to the girls because deep down they want it and because they deserve it because they paid their hard earned money.

You can try and fumble around in abstraction, but you're talking with people who have been cornered in their real lives just because they post here. A picture is a picture. Whether you jack it to it or not is whatever. Nobody else needs to know it, and especially not that person, unless you have some sort of relationship where that is alright.

Furthermore? Your points are stupid, as are the ways you go about trying to introduce them or defend them. You claim victory because someone cusses, but think attacking your terrible spelling/punctuation is low. But most of all, you can't even keep on solid footing as to your manner of trolling because you are so all over the place you can't maintain.

 

[WriterOfSin]

I'm sorry, as a male user defending the rights of female users not to get creepy posts on their pics, I'm by default trying to get into their knickers? Well shit ladies, turns out I'm over my relationship issues, let's have a party!

I'm not going to bother responding to you again. You twist and turn desperately trying to worm your way out of being pinned down like a Blackadder in a net. Stick to whatever little twisted principles of 'Well she was begging for it' you claim.

 

[C.A.B.]

...especially when you have a large cross section of sexual frustrated fedora wearing manchildren who believe paying their money to go to a gathering entitles them to tickling access to the girls ....

Bwa hahaha! oh, that was good. Cutting, and good. Made me LOL!

 

[imirritated]

This whole thread is hilarious.

 

[Candygirl]

...But, females who join the forum, should not have to put up a disclaimer, "I am a lady, please do not be a shithead!" - when they post a picture.

Haha and THIS is why I love you lmao


But seriously though, I have followed this thread and read every comment made by you, "tickler". Your arguments are circuitous and futile at best.

...its like me posting pictures of marijuana and someone says hey do you smoke or sell can I buy some and I'm like no I don't smoke or sell what the hell gave you that impression pot head ???

Thanks SO much for clarifying. So now, when a guy sends me some ridiculously inappropriate message or picture comment, since it's the same thing and all, I can just respond with "NO! I am not ticklish nor do I like to be tickled. What the hell gave you that impression, you freak?" I mean, since it's the same thing and all. You, posting a picture of weed and being asked if you smoke it or sell it is the SAME thing (in your OWN words) as a girl posting a picture of her feet and getting told how much some skeevy fuck wants to slather his man fluids all over them. I mean, the nerve of some people lol

...there's actually girls on here who just post pictures of them selves and that's it and they never complain and some do complain because of the amount of sex deprived perverts we get on this fetish site but they dont complain as much

You see, the people with complaints are the ones who complain a lot and sometimes they don't complain when they should complain and then they complain for no reason and then...yeah I can't even TRY to follow that. But, from the first several words strung together to try to form a statement, it sounds like you are okay with girls posting a picture of themselves, just not posting pictures of "select" body parts and being upset at the attention. So, a picture showing that a girl HAS feet/underarms/stomach is okay, but if she were to single out those parts of her body, THEN it becomes an issue of her "asking for the douche bags to be sketchy"?

 

[meangry]

Bwa hahaha! oh, that was good. Cutting, and good. Made me LOL!

I try to amuse. Come back for the veal!