where are all the women??

[linylons]

Why is it so hard to meet up with a female for a tickle session without having to pay for the pleasure?? Last time I checked this a place for tickling fans? now I have no problem with paying (I've done so many times)but sometimes i'd like to have the option not to. With all that being said,I love my experience on TMF & love the tickling community.


Peace & Love

L.I

 

[Cavum]

I think it has something to do with the thing called "social skills". 😛

 

[Soda Bobinski]

See , that's the strange thing about the women here. I've always been flabbergasted by the fact that they actually prefer NOT to be treated as tickle-*****s/slaves/objects for us men. Most of 'em want to get to know ya first before agreeing to meet ya & allowing you to put your hands on 'em. It's almost as if they believe they're *giggle* equal to all the menfolk of the TMF or something.

It's fucking baffling.

 

[FatJay]

If someone had tied up Emmeline Pankhurst and tickled her, we wouldn't be in this mess!

 

[Aimee]

sooooo...let me get this straight..
you are sick of paying to tickle girls so now you are coming to the TMF to try to get some free tickles but you can't find any girls that are just going to let you tickle them. interesting.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

It's way easier to just tickle the girls that are already close by. It's fun to get vanilla women into it.

 

[Cavum]

sooooo...let me get this straight..
you are sick of paying to tickle girls so now you are coming to the TMF to try to get some free tickles but you can't find any girls that are just going to let you tickle them. interesting.

SHUT UP YOU OBJECT GIRIL AND TAKE OFF YOUR SOCKS AND GET READY TO BE TICKLED!!!






😛

 

[Aimee]

SHUT UP YOU OBJECT GIRIL AND TAKE OFF YOUR SOCKS AND GET READY TO BE TICKLED!!!






😛

HEY HEY HEY
you...you shush...well...alright! hold on!
wait...am i getting paid?! hehe

 

[Cavum]

HEY HEY HEY
you...you shush...well...alright! hold on!
wait...am i getting paid?! hehe

*waving with a beer*

 

[Aimee]

*waving with a beer*

works for me!

 

[Cavum]

works for me!

Thats my girl...*hick*

A six pack for 60min??

 

[BMoreTklr]

LMFAO!!!

 

[roxita]

Thats my girl...*hick*

A six pack for 60min??

Hahahaha!

 

[rhiannon]

Why is it so hard to meet up with a female for a tickle session without having to pay for the pleasure??

Is this a trick question or do you really expect an answer?

 

[Phineas]

I like how everyone immediately assumes there's something wrong with the guy. Because this place is just overflowing with people who want to meet up, after all.

 

[Cavum]

I have never assumed that, but I think thats 90% of the situations of guys in here...they see fetish girls as objects and have no social skills what so ever..

 

[rhiannon]

I like how everyone immediately assumes there's something wrong with the guy. Because this place is just overflowing with people who want to meet up, after all.

Most of them don't wonder why it's hard, though. 🙂

 

[Aimee]

Thats my girl...*hick*

A six pack for 60min??

LMAO
a six pack of what?? AND what happens in this 60min session? 😈

 

[Phineas]

I have never assumed that, but I think thats 90% of the situations of guys in here...they see fetish girls as objects and have no social skills what so ever..

Granted, but being in possession of social skills is no guarantee of it being easy to meet someone here, if gatherings are taken out of the picture.

I used to wonder why it was hard to meet someone here, too. Now, I just shrug and get on with my life. It's funny, though. You'd think a tickling forum would be a good place to meet people into tickling, but it doesn't really work that way.

OP;

As I've said, the odds are stacked against you. Once you take away the married women, involved women, lesbians, women who are too old/too young, aren't open to meeting anyone at all, women you don't find attractive/women who don't find you attractive, women who are only here to make money, and women who aren't reasonably able to travel to you (or you to them), you're left with a microscopic pool to choose from. Then, you have to hope by some miracle that you're compatible enough that she will eventually want to meet you as a friend/mate first, because few, if any, women simply meet up with random strangers on the Internet. It's daunting, to say the least.

That is, assuming you're not a total creeper. Which, as has been pointed out, is a possibility.

 

[Cavum]

LMAO
a six pack of what?? AND what happens in this 60min session? 😈

59min of tickle torture and 1min of extreme CHUGGING!!

Granted, but being in possession of social skills is no guarantee of it being easy to meet someone here, if gatherings are taken out of the picture.

I used to wonder why it was hard to meet someone here, too. Now, I just shrug and get on with my life. It's funny, though. You'd think a tickling forum would be a good place to meet people into tickling, but it doesn't really work that way.

OP;

As I've said, the odds are stacked against you. Once you take away the married women, involved women, lesbians, women who are too old/too young, aren't open to meeting anyone at all, women you don't find attractive/women who don't find you attractive, women who are only here to make money, and women who aren't reasonably able to travel to you (or you to them), you're left with a microscopic pool to choose from. Then, you have to hope by some miracle that you're compatible enough that she will eventually want to meet you as a friend/mate first, because few, if any, women simply meet up with random strangers on the Internet. It's daunting, to say the least.

That is, assuming you're not a total creeper. Which, as has been pointed out, is a possibility.

I know it's not easy to find potential play partners on forums like this, but I got to say I understand the girls here. With all the crap they get in they're inbox everyday I totaly understand that they can be "hard to get". Right now it's 109,684 members here. A BIG part of those members are guys with no posts, no pictures, no info that spam inboxes to girls with creep PMs.

 

[Phineas]

I know it's not easy to find potential play partners on forums like this, but I got to say I understand the girls here.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not blaming anyone, and I'm certainly not blaming the women. Just that sometimes folks need to realize that the odds are stacked against you just popping on here and finding a play partner, regardless of how fantastic a person you might be.

Case in point? Before I started attending gatherings out here in the Bay, I had met one person for play in nearly six years or so. Once I started going to gatherings, obviously that number went up in a big way, and I made a lot of friends. BUT... I still haven't met a play partner or gotten a girlfriend or anything like that because nearly every woman who comes to gatherings out here is part of a couple. Even when the odds are good, the odds are bad.

OP; Try Craigslist. It's worked a lot better for me than this forum.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I think that alot of guys have the misconception that because they are in somewhat of a hurry to meet up and play, and that they don't necessarily need to get to know someone to do it, that girls into tickling are going to feel the same way. I don't think it necessarily indicates there's anything super wrong with the guy. Someone just needs to let him know.

So now you know 🙂 You're gonna need to put a little effort into getting to know someone and developing a connection before most girls will want to have a session with you. And by connection I don't mean asking her 50,000 questions about where she's most ticklish. Let her get to know you (and you her) outside of the fetish. People want to know more that you're a man and a ler before they put themselves into such a compromising and vulnerable position for you.

Good luck.

 

[natural tickler]

I think that alot of guys have the misconception that because they are in somewhat of a hurry to meet up and play, and that they don't necessarily need to get to know someone to do it, that girls into tickling are going to feel the same way. I don't think it necessarily indicates there's anything super wrong with the guy. Someone just needs to let him know.

So now you know 🙂 You're gonna need to put a little effort into getting to know someone and developing a connection before most girls will want to have a session with you. And by connection I don't mean asking her 50,000 questions about where she's most ticklish. Let her get to know you (and you her) outside of the fetish. People want to know more that you're a man and a ler before they put themselves into such a compromising and vulnerable position for you.

Good luck.

^this

sums it up exactly....why I love ya


communication is key people

 

[Cavum]

indeed...communication is the most important thing when it comes to play!

 

[natural tickler]

indeed...communication is the most important thing when it comes to play!

without it, it can tear apart a family....as can a pack wild dogs😛