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Which one really tickles?

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It just hit me, I been looking at thousands of video clips, M/F & F/F, when the male is tickling he looks like a rabbit dog going after his pry. It seems as if he’s trying to dig is finger through her feet to the bone.

But, when I female tickles it she looks like she drawing a pictures her touch varies from light to not really hard.

I myself have a heavy touch and have to learn to ease up, so I grew my nails and practice on a soft tomato, let me tell you I mark up a loot of tomatoes before I became better at it.

So my question is:

Which one really tickles? Light or heavy?

Is it better to have nails or use bare fingers?
 
stloldg said:
So my question is:

Which one really tickles? Light or heavy?

Is it better to have nails or use bare fingers?
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I think it depends on what area of the body you're tickling. I've found that my feet are more ticklish when the tickling is "heavier" (therefore no nails), however my upperbody is more receptive to lighter tickling (with or without nails).

Just thought I'd add my two cents worth.
 
Well, first of all, it depends on the 'lee. I personally am the light-touch style of 'lee, and I've had to explain to many a (male) tickler, "Dude, that's like a massage to me," or possibly, "Ow, you're seriously hurting me!"

In general, men I've known respond to a heavier, digging-in kind of touch, and women more often to a lighter, stroking touch. I think we have a tendency to tickles others in the way that tickles us, hence those gender patterns you see.

As for what actually tickles in videos... who the hell knows. I personally can't watch the ones where it looks like the tickler's trying to dig through to the bone - they just remind me of pain.
 
This is a good topic. I haven't been tickled by very many people but I was surprised to learn that not everyone knows how to tickle. 🙂 I never thought of it as a difficult concept to grasp. After I informed my first boyfriend (this was in college, I'm not much of a dater) that I liked to be tickled he started injuring me. He did! He seemed to think it was appropriate to DIG his fingers into me - it made me jump and shout, of course, which he thought meant I liked it. I actually had to tell him I was kidding and *didn't* like to be tickled just so he'd knock it off! Yeah that wasn't the best relationship. 😉

I had a male roomie later and he used to tickle me and it was okay only he used to just trace the same pattern over and over on the same spot, which for some reason was *extremely* irritating (does that happen to anyone else?). And then there was a guy who tried to tickle my feet and it just felt like a massage, which surprised me because I'm pretty darn ticklish. I didn't think it was possible for someone to *try* to tickle my feet and have it not tickle at all.

I've never had a guy friend who wanted me to tickle him so I have no idea if I'd be any good or not. Is it true that people who enjoy being tickled make better 'lers?
 
hmmm...

conventional wisdom is, depends on the spot and the person as well. Speaking as a sometimes-lee: My feet are at just about 50% resistance level, meaning I can resist breaking down about half hte time. On my soles, a light touch doesn't work that well; nails do. Under my toes, a light touch works just fine.

These days, my belly is my most ticklish spot--a butterfly in Albania flapping its wings is enough to make me laugh, pretty much. I shudder to think of what scraping/pressure will do. Will it tickle less, more, or just hurt? Dunno. Interested in finding out, though. As long as I get my revenge ;-)

Jim
 
being someone who bruises fairly easily, i would prefer the light tickling touch. and i also think it would tickle more. the digging into the hips always sounds rather painful to me.... imo

isabeau
 
My experience has generally been that its better to start off light and work your way up to something a little heavier. I've never been a big fan of digging deep into the ribs or stomach. You can occasionally get away with that technique on feet, but slow, light tickles seem to be the best.

Ah, take away the middle man and just use a pen or a fork. That'll work. 🙄
 
stloldg said:
Which one really tickles? Light or heavy?

Is it better to have nails or use bare fingers?
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For me, light. Heavy is just more like poking and stabbing. I can ignore heavy tickling pretty easily. Light tickling, forget it. I'm helpless and ultimately screwed.

Nails are worse. Muuuuuch worse. They add more pressure than a feather, but lighter than fingertips. I'm lucky my ler doesn't really have any. If a woman ever got a hold of me, I think I'd die.
 
stloldg said:
I myself have a heavy touch and have to learn to ease up, so I grew my nails and practice on a soft tomato, let me tell you I mark up a loot of tomatoes before I became better at it.
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You tickled soft tomatoes.

Do you have photos of that or a video clip? Were the tomatoes 18 or over? Was it consensual?

I will not be a part of nonconsensual tomato tickling!


oh!
 
stloldg said:
Which one really tickles? Light or heavy?

Is it better to have nails or use bare fingers?
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There's no single answer to that. It depends on sooooo many factors. Most importantly, 'lees vary in the kind of touch they like. Some like a light hand, others want you to go to town. Even for any given 'lee you find that different areas of the body respond better to different methods.

And as if all that weren't confusing enough, different touches will often produce different KINDS of tickling sensations, and each can be "the best" in different circumstances. A light, shivvery tickle tends to be very sensual, while a heavy tickle tends to be more...athletic, shall we say?

I've found only one method that works reliably: spend some time exploring my 'lee and paying attention to how she responds to my touch. If you're lucky to have a really self-aware 'lee then just ask him or her about this. The last thing you want to do is to come to any 'lee with assumptions that you learned from another, because they're as individual as flowers. Ticklish flowers.
 
TikleBelly said:
You tickled soft tomatoes.

Do you have photos of that or a video clip? Were the tomatoes 18 or over? Was it consensual?

I will not be a part of nonconsensual tomato tickling!


oh!
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LMAO!!!! That is too damn funny!!
 
Dig-tickling is just......wrong.....I never tickled that way, and I'm not about to start now....I DO believe in varying speeds, amount of fingers used....parts of the body to explore, as well as adding SOME modicum of touch firmness...but not to the point of causing pain......nerve endings don't usually need a great deal to become responsive!!
 
Light touches. So sensual and erotic and sexual. 😀

But i would think that is also depend on what part of the body as well for some ticklers. Everyones different.
 
QueenOfHearts said:
I haven't been tickled by very many people but I was surprised to learn that not everyone knows how to tickle. 🙂 I never thought of it as a difficult concept to grasp. After I informed my first boyfriend (this was in college, I'm not much of a dater) that I liked to be tickled he started injuring me. He did! He seemed to think it was appropriate to DIG his fingers into me - it made me jump and shout, of course, which he thought meant I liked it. I actually had to tell him I was kidding and *didn't* like to be tickled just so he'd knock it off! Yeah that wasn't the best relationship. 😉
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I know exactly what out you mean Queen...some people don't know how to tickle or thier tickles are scratches more than tickles...using tooooo much pressure WITH the nails...shudder...

QueenOfHearts said:
I had a male roomie later and he used to tickle me and it was okay only he used to just trace the same pattern over and over on the same spot, which for some reason was *extremely* irritating (does that happen to anyone else?).
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If there is one thing I have learned from tickling people is that moving around is key to getting a great response...tickling the same spot,without lubrication mind you, will get *extremely* irritating quickly...adding a bit of lubrication can lengthen that time frame but still move around a bit...

QueenOfHearts said:
I've never had a guy friend who wanted me to tickle him so I have no idea if I'd be any good or not. Is it true that people who enjoy being tickled make better 'lers?
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You know this question comes up alot around here and the debate is never settled, however as a newer lee'(I was mostly a ler until a fine lady found my ticklish side(s)) I have found that I am more aware of the lee's "feelings" while I am tickling her, so if I am tickling her feet in a certain way, I have an idea of what that would feel like on me...
Some people say that the first place YOU tickle someone is YOUR most ticklish spot...


As for myself I prefer tickling on the lighter side HOWEVER with the right lee a harder or more firm touch is nice...But there is an are to the heavy tickle as well, too light and it is a massage, too hard and you leave BIG BRUISES..just right and you have a banshee going to the moon :veryhappy
 
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