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Who do you consider unaproachable on line?

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Who do you shy away from? Are there those you would like to get to know but dont know where to begin? Do people with high post counts or lots of friends intimidate you? Why?


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Milagros.

I cant get enough of the man. I want to know about every facet of his life and how he manages to post so much.
 
So what is keeping you from getting to know him.....

Mils is one of the most approachable members we have....
 
I would have to say Luv2btickled. I can hardly catch her online. I would like to chat because we seem to have a lot in common
 
I don't think of anyone as unapproachable, but there are notable folks that I just don't talk to for whatever reason.

I've never spoken with Myriads at any great length, for example.

Snail Shell
 
So what is keeping you from getting to know him.....

Mils is one of the most approachable members we have....

This is going to sound very daft. But even though I want to know everything about Milagros, I'm afraid that the reality wont live up to expectations.

I like to think that he has an extra prosthetic arm and uses several computers at once to compose online messages. I further like to imagine that he has compiled a program to allow automatic responses to be posted to the silly stuff forum every 60 seconds whilst he sleeps, eats and uses the rest room.

I prefer Milagros to remain a concept, rather than a reality.

If I spoke to him and found out that he just an ordinary guy who likes the TMF, I might be a little crestfallen.

I am serious.

Part of what I like about Milagros is the mystery and I want to try to figure him out for myself.

Does that make any sense?
 
This is going to sound very daft. But even though I want to know everything about Milagros, I'm afraid that the reality wont live up to expectations.

I like to think that he has an extra prosthetic arm and uses several computers at once to compose online messages. I further like to imagine that he has compiled a program to allow automatic responses to be posted to the silly stuff forum every 60 seconds whilst he sleeps, eats and uses the rest room.

I prefer Milagros to remain a concept, rather than a reality.

If I spoke to him and found out that he just an ordinary guy who likes the TMF, I might be a little crestfallen.

I am serious.

Part of what I like about Milagros is the mystery and I want to try to figure him out for myself.

Does that make any sense?

Not daft at all....in fact...a very good answer and one I hadnt considered....
 
I like everyone here ...

LD, I feel though, is hard for, me at least, to connect to. Dunno why?
 
I was very, VERY intimidated the first time I met Venray. Although that was more a case of "Damn, I thought Colonel Sanders had been dead for years... What the HELL?!"

😛
 
Who do you shy away from?
Basically everyone, but especially females because I'm afraid they'll think I'm creepy if I try talking to them )=

Are there those you would like to get to know but dont know where to begin?
Lots, but I don't for the reason described above.

Do people with high post counts or lots of friends intimidate you? Why?
Yeah... I think it's a jealousy thing. I wish I was the kind of person who always had something to say no matter what the topic and that people enjoyed conversing with... That's not really the case, though.
 
I was very, VERY intimidated the first time I met Venray. Although that was more a case of "Damn, I thought Colonel Sanders had been dead for years... What the HELL?!"

😛

All I remember about that meeting was that it felt like I was looking up at the empire state building every time we talked....

(Talk about BIG):man:
 
I really can't think off anyone of hand. I'm pretty good at exposing every one to my nonsense and good sense, in equal portions! LOL!

Honestly, though. There are a few that I would like to get to know better out of curiosity, but it is hard for me to do so out of my fear of people. (Yes... seriously, I do have one) I think part of what keeps me from chatting up some of them is my fear of sounding like an idiot, which I know is irrational. I mentor others for Goddess sake so I know my stuff good! I suck at small talk though. It becomes painful. Unless I have a direction for the conversation its tough.

So there you have it. My thoughts in a sense... Will have to catch the show. I have just started catching some of them from time to time.
 
there are people on here that I'd like to get to know but cant say for sure they feel the same way but one can hope
 
Do people with high post counts or lots of friends intimidate you?

This is certainly not the case, but it probably might have been if I didn't get jumped by a bunch of people who I (at least back then) felt were forum bigshots. I'm not even scared of Jeff, since he often posts regularly in threads and is pretty familliar to me by now.

Are there those you would like to get to know but dont know where to begin?
This, however... It's not that I don't know where to begin, but the list of people I want to get to know better is so big! I usually don't like to socialize that much, but this forum is awesome and I like pretty much everyone here. Not everyone I want to get to know better are really established in the community either (like AmandaBears who started posting just days ago, or Rorschach the drunken Irishman, although he isn't that much of a newb anymore, I just think of him that way 😀), but some of the people I wanna get to know better would include: KrazieDog, Baldadonis, CrystalLight, Bugman (although I know him fairly well already), Kered, MasterPaladin, Miss Serendipity, Ikayoo, Starburstz, AngelOfDarkness, Snail Shell (despite being a stoopid Canadian 😛), Slacker, Mammers, Huskys, Milagros, Euphoricy, Tklee88, General Zod, Robace, Adam, Knot, Excess, Mister Scruff, Artoo, Ravenmoon, Mz Chaos, Vlad, TklDuo-Ann and Ticklingnemesis. *sighs* I probably forgot to mention like 20 people, too...

Not all of these are "celebrities" either, although they are all regular posters. There would prolly be a lot more people on the list if I ventured into the TMF chatroom, but I already have enough to cope with as it is!

Then there are the people I don't actively think about getting to know better, but who still fall under the "sure, why not?" category as I see them post frequently, such as Jeff, AnnieHall and Venray (yayyyy!), but this list is also rather long so I'm not even going to start... :rudolph:

I think it's easier to just list the people I feel I already know pretty well around here... THAT list is short! 😀 It would be Sanna, Skippy, K-Skate and LeeLee. lol :hello:
 
I hate you all. Apoart from Tamia, Tamia is nice. Skippy is the most unapproachable member because she makes with the violashuns at every available opportunity <3

Her and Artoo. I think Artoo is a terrorist.
 
Her and Artoo. I think Artoo is a terrorist.

Durka durka, Muhammed jihad!

On a sensible note...

I'm not too sure. Offline, I tend to get to know a lot of people very superficially, being aquainted with many circles of friends, and having a couple of close friends in each circle.

Online, the way I carry myself is no different. There are many people I would like to get to know better, but I tend to only really chat with certain people a lot of the time, like all you crazy cats in the chatroom, and my older TMF friends (not older in age, but people I have corresponded with for quite some time).

Some bad has come of this, as I seem to get quite lazy in my approach towards people I've not talked to yet, as I feel comfortable with the friends I have. It doesn't mean I don't want to get to know anyone else, by any means; but I am rather lackadaisical about doing so.
I will usually respond well to PM's and VM's, unless you're asking me to show my hairy feet or ask for photos of me in compromising positions (it has happened, I shit you not).

So feel free to hit me up if you want to get to know me better, I don't bite.
Well, I do - but only the girls. 😀
 
I think Venray is unaproachable. I`ve offered him a weeks pay many times over the years, and he`s never accepted.:shock2:
 
Xionking, Mammers and Starburst.

I have no qualms approaching them. They just come off as unapproachable to me personally.
 
Wow...some great responses so far....

You see, I see no one as a "celebrity" here although that was not always the case....

I will talk about this more tonight...

Those that find others difficult to approach, why is that? What is it about them that makes it hard for you to "break the ice"?
 
Artoo isn't a terrorist...look at the way he dances!

Anyway, I only ever saw one person here as "intimidating", but not unapproachable. Wouldn't you know it thou, we are pretty tight now! Thats something I am happy about. :goodjob:
 
Do people with high post counts or lots of friends intimidate you?

There is one person in here who intimidate me alot at the moment. i HATE to admit it, but it's the fact. Please take the time to read this since this is very hard for me to do. Like some know I have had a difficult time the last months, and even that I seem to be fine it's not. I have a big serious problems because of childhood issues and they have started haunting me again these days. Short told, my problem is that I have problems to be positive about things in my life cause Im just just waiting for the positive things to go away. Thats something that have followed me my whole life. I thought things was good and BOOM...the people who ment something for me was just false friends/liars/people who used me. My head can't understand that there is in fact people that DO care about me. When I do meet people that starts to mean something for me, I automaticly gets terrefied that they use me and if they acculy care about me. This is where this person comes in. Even that I experience alot within tickling I have never met a person that acculy likes the same things. It was then I got to know this person here on the forum. Things seemed to be doing great and we planned to meet to both get to know eachother better and to play together. In Desember I got his big "flashback" periode from my past that made things worst. And unfortantly this person got to experience that. The smallest thing could make me REALLY nervous. In this situation it was because this person never had the time to meet me, but now this person was going to NEST 09. I automaticly got terrefied that this person didn't like me and I over reacted. Suddently I heard nothing from this person. It was like I was reliving my past again. I wanted to explain my situation, but I never got any replys back. I still haven't heard anything from this person, even I seen that this person is very active of the forum. WHY is it so hard to give one little reply? I am so deeply sorry for what has happend and I really wish we could get to know eachother better. The other thing in this situation that scares me alot is the fact that this person is a typical "everybody on the forum knows and like" kind of person and have alot of posts. There are many people on this forum that I would LOVE to get to know in real life, but now I only fear what will happend when this person meet them first in real life. Im terrefied that everyone will be turned agains me and that people get a wrong picture of me for something I can't control. This is the reason why I haven't been active the last weeks. Every NEST thread I see only makes me nervous. I try to "face my fear" and post in them to might get a "looking forward to meet you" reply. Cause I do really need confirmation that people do care about me even that I know they do. Even that many people say I look scary and all that, Im really a sensitive person... Sitting here writing this have made me cry and sorry If I have ruined the whole thread. In 2 hours from now Im at a therapist for the first time in my life about this problem. I only hope I can get help for this problem and that people can understand that Im not being the way I am sometimes on purpose...

Thanks for your time...
 
Personally, I find AnnieHall to be unapproachable, though to be honest, I'm not sure why. It's possible I think that way because I never actually took any sort of opportunity to get to know her. I mean, at one time, I thought of Jo as unapproachable and now she's one of my best friends. Same goes for a lot of people around here that I'm good friends with.

As far as post counts go.....pfft! I don't see why something like that would make someone unapproachable.
 
Who's unapproachable online?

It's gotta' be Salma Hayek. I sent like, several thousand e-mails over the past year and a half, and do you know she hasn't replied once? NOT ONCE!!! After the authorities had their "little talk" with me, I thought maybe it was time to give up... ...but then I thought better of it, and knew she was just playing hard to get -- so I've redoubled my efforts, and started sending presents, primarily of small game animals dissected and tastefully arranged in lovely gift boxes with red bows. No woman can ignore a rent opossum diorama. I know she'll come around. 🙂
 
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